Posted: 22 December 2014 at 11:02am | IP Logged
Originally posted by shibz
Couldn't agree more Eve..
I was confused when ppl said Nandini isn't behaving like she actually is.. Because it had been only one epi since she decided to stay away from Manik & she was crying & worrying for him..checking if he is ok.. which is natural..she is a human too & has emotions.. Though I do hate her crying & I hope it stops but it isn't something unusual for Nandini..
On the other hand Manik is putting his angst to potential use that we ideally should do.. The musicana night heartache helped him bring the pain in his voice that made his performance better where as it broke Nandini-The contrast..you see how different ppl deal with same situations.. Though Nandini's shock was greater & her performance was immediately after so it's sad that she couldn't use the hurt to make her performance better..like you said Music wasn't Nandini's passion.. It's Manik's strong point but Nandini has been a geek all her life.. Music is a therapy for her..not a passion yet.. She was forced to join NH3 for her friends..
But yes since Musicana the epis have kind of been gloomy most of the times & Nandini has been crying often.. So that is actually saddening.. I feel Manik's love realization is being stretched a lot..hence gets kind of repetitive & boring.. & if Manik is not going to realize it till Nandini mouths it to him then the wait is going to get longer.. So till then we need to see some potentially good episodes.. Nandu can cry..but they need not show her cry always.. Give her a friend to divert her mind.. & bring some freshness & lighter moments in the show as Manik continues to deal with his angst!
first things first
...and now we can move on to serious ..life threatening...life and death stuff..
That behavior that you talk about is precisely what made this post..tears are no stranger to Nandini. and I did not find her wrong at all. She is doing exactly what she would do under the circs...she turned him down as expected...but did not stop loving him..she cares for him, worries about him...and tries to come to terms with her grief..fighting with herself every step of the way...painfully slowly inching towards a recovery...isn't this all natural, isn't this what Nandini is supposed to be like...??
Thank you for understanding my point...I have seen time and again that post break up there is a lot of anti Manik and pro Nandu feeling...which is all coz we see Nandu suffering while Manik seems to be doing fine...getting on with his life. But, that's exactly what they are...different people dealing with the same situation in different ways!! As you point out with various examples...Manik and Nandu feel differently about music...for one its life...for other just a way of life. We have to understand that pain might be a new concept in our innocent and happy Nandu's life...for Manek, he has seen it all throughout his life. He is not new to pain, he has learnt to grin and bear it and take it in his stride. Manik knows how to live with pain, how to keep on moving forward with the burden of heart break strapped to your back..so isn't it natural that he deals with it much easily than Nandini?? He seems indifferent and callous cause he indeed is, agony has been his constant companion, what's new?? People like Manik are so hardened and roughened that they actually perform better in angst. While the likes of fragile and delicate Nandini just wither away like dead flowers...so different and so beautiful when two such contrasts come together in harmony..
I guess that's where the problem lies...the constant gloomy Nandini, her tears, her depression are getting too much to bear now. The cvs do need to lighten up the use of glycerine. My guess is the advent of Miss hugging Manik at the first chance and Mr. Abhi sabka dost is just that...to bring in some jealousy, rouse some anger, some sparks...hope the cvs do it soon as this is a youth show and the last thing we can stand is bloody permanent tear jerker dukhi aatma mina kumari syndrome.