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She claims to love him na and by her own standard of trust and see it in my eyes ... how come she can't do that herself? She hates sahir for doubting her when he actually didn't ... he saw her own a pregnancy and asked her sach kia hai ... if he had believed it why would he ask? He didn't ask for a proof either ... he just asked her sach kia hai ... she wanted to hear a no ... and he would have believed her ... but she asked him to read his eyes ... when we all know eyes can lie (zaki saw love in arzoo's eyes when there was none) she made such a big deal out of it ... but she herself can neither read his eyes nor trusts him ... my only problem is why have different standards for yourself and others?
I know he didn't doubt her, you know, but does she?
No she doesn't, for her it seemed that he doubted her, if not he wouldn't have questioned her, and for that she doesn't hate him but yes she is dissapointed in him.
About expections, well that's human tendency, and when in love, these expectations have no end. So there is no possible reasoning to that.
She read his eyes, she wants to believe or I'd rather say she believes, it's her experiences with him and in past that stops her from confessing her love to him.
Sahir did explain to her that he is like a knife and both are his sides ... all these things that confuse her are what make Sahir ... she wants to know real sahir? What effort she made to know him? She asked him once and when he refused to tell (he didn't own her as he hadn't realized his love or told her he loves her) she got all angry ... without once thinking about how difficult it must be for him and if it was that easy to share why would he be so full of pain? Love is not selfish ... love is about other person not us ... and arzoo's love is all about her!
Arzoo is all about her becuase she is still not aware about his past, his miseries, his troubles, yet that girl is ready to do what it takes to make him feel better, to save his name. She took that blame for him? Why? Becuase she is selfish. I don't think selfish people do that.
Love is selfish, very very selfish. You want a person all by yourself, that is possibly the most selfish thing you could ever ask for, but that doesn't imply that her love for him is conditioned. It would have been conditioned if she had wanted him to change for her, but she didn't. She fell in love with him for what he is not with what she wanted him to be.
Sahir has a plan, we know that arzoo doesn't ... so where is her love in all this? Her side of trust in him? And if she doesn't trust how and why she expected him to trust her? If she can't read his eyes why expect him to read hers?
Yes sahir is wrong in playing with her emotions no one can argue that ... but that does not mean arzoo is right! Her love appears selfish ... its about herself all the time ... she is always thinking about all the bad things ... she keeps repeating apne humey bohat dard diya (she only knows what troubles) and u never think about all the good things he did for her ... what kind of love is that? Its not like he confessed his love to her and then wronged her that she is so pained ...
She has always appreciated all the good deeds he had done for her, like today, she thanked him for the most beautiful night of her life, it's just that she thinks that he might widraw himself and his love if she confesses her feelings to him, which would probably hurt her indefinitely.
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Edited by giee - 9 years ago