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Posted: 22 December 2014 at 9:12am | IP Logged
Funny thing she stayed back in his house to understand his pain.. Because she there was no one to understand his pain... But now she does not want that side of him... Strange

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Posted: 22 December 2014 at 9:12am | IP Logged
love is unconditional, and then there are no strings attached, you do accept your partner with their flaws, and not boast about your self righteous qualities and demean them...
i dont understand one thing, how does arzoo even deserve sahir if she wants him like how zaki or any random lover is ? Sahir is sahir, his flaws, his life, his mistakes, his qualities, if arzoo wants him, she has to deal with all his traits ... 

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Posted: 22 December 2014 at 9:17am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sam123_0

Funny thing she stayed back in his house to understand his pain.. Because she there was no one to understand his pain... But now she does not want that side of him... Strange

Yes she is angry at him for not telling about his pain as well ... I mean if it was so easy would he live through it for seven years ... she just wants her way or the highway always LOL 

I like that Sahir is flawed and not mahan ... because he atleast makes sense ... arzoo the more i try to relate to the more difficult the girl becomes to relate to 

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Posted: 22 December 2014 at 9:19am | IP Logged
Originally posted by harshu.sundas

love is unconditional, and then there are no strings attached, you do accept your partner with their flaws, and not boast about your self righteous qualities and demean them...
i dont understand one thing, how does arzoo even deserve sahir if she wants him like how zaki or any random lover is ? Sahir is sahir, his flaws, his life, his mistakes, his qualities, if arzoo wants him, she has to deal with all his traits ... 

I seriously feel arzoo is not yet in love after today ... she is yet to fall in love ... she is attracted to him may be ... where she dreams of his goodness ... because if she loved him how come she is always thinking about the bad in him and never the good? How come by her own standards of trust and reading eyes ... she can't see his pain? 
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Posted: 22 December 2014 at 9:23am | IP Logged
Originally posted by -Ms.Wildcherry-

in this case it is right to side aarzoo actually, because she does not know completely yet that he's betrayed and even married,she does know yes, that there's some pain in his life,maybe aarzoo enjoys sahir's company and all the attention he is giving to her and she might think that slowly he will open up to her and she will ask him to tell the whole story of his life but the thing is,for now this day is far ahead because aarzoo is unaware of sahir's love confession plan.

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Its not about siding with anyone ... what sahir is doing is wrong no one argues that ... but she doesn't know ... and she claims to love him ... but she is always thinking bad about him ... she is always talking about the pain he gave her ... not all the good he did for her ... today she told him that i can't trust you because of your all faces ... when fact is that anger and caring (he showed for her earlier) are part of him ... he was honest in front of her ... he showed anger when he felt angry ... he cared when he felt it was needed ... he was being himself in front of her ... yet she just wants the good in him ... she asked him about his pain once he refused to tell and she got all agitated and angry, when he didn't owe it to her as he didn't realize love back then also if it was so easy to share why would he live in it for seven years? Love is selfless but arzoo just wants her way in love ... just because sahir is wrong doesnt make her love real or one u can relate to ... she is being selfish thinking about herself only not even bothering to look at the pain in his eyes ... in love other person comes first 

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Posted: 22 December 2014 at 9:24am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Soaps1

Originally posted by harshu.sundas

love is unconditional, and then there are no strings attached, you do accept your partner with their flaws, and not boast about your self righteous qualities and demean them...
i dont understand one thing, how does arzoo even deserve sahir if she wants him like how zaki or any random lover is ? Sahir is sahir, his flaws, his life, his mistakes, his qualities, if arzoo wants him, she has to deal with all his traits ... 

I seriously feel arzoo is not yet in love after today ... she is yet to fall in love ... she is attracted to him may be ... where she dreams of his goodness ... because if she loved him how come she is always thinking about the bad in him and never the good? How come by her own standards of trust and reading eyes ... she can't see his pain? 
 but then now they have projected her feelings as love, and even confirmed it several times.. moreover they will make sahir change for arzoo..  one thing i dont understand is sahir can even destroy himself in zeenat's love and that is indeed true worshipping and here arzoo cannot handle his one single rant ? he is handling and living a betrayal for 7 years and arzoo has already given up, so how will she heal him ? this is so absurd granny ..Ouch

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Posted: 22 December 2014 at 9:25am | IP Logged
It is not that she wants to see good side of sahir it's his way of reaction to each different situation that his confused arzoo .
The man  who says he respect her and her strength doesn't trust her when the whole family accuses her . He needs proof at that time why? 
Arzoo was equally wrong there when sahir himself asked for clarification she brushes him off and doesn't let him know the truth.

They are equally at fault . 


Edited by dakshaavi - 22 December 2014 at 9:25am
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Posted: 22 December 2014 at 9:35am | IP Logged
Originally posted by dakshaavi

It is not that she wants to see good side of sahir it's his way of reaction to each different situation that his confused arzoo .
The man  who says he respect her and her strength doesn't trust her when the whole family accuses her . He needs proof at that time why? 
Arzoo was equally wrong there when sahir himself asked for clarification she brushes him off and doesn't let him know the truth.

They are equally at fault . 

Does she trust him? Answer is no ... she too claims to love him doesnt she? She even realizes she loves him ... but she herself said today that she cant trust him because of all the different shades she has seen of him .. .same way sahir too saw her confess a pregnancy ... he did not believe it nor asked for a proof all he asked was a no from her ... a word from her ... and he would believe it ... because eyes can lie (as proved already in the show zaki saw love in arzoo's eyes) ... all I am thinking is may be arzoo too is yet to fall fully in love ... may be she is calling attraction as love ... because love is selfless ... and that is what will lead sahir back to life ... when he will fall fully in love he will become selfless, the deal, the promise, the business all will not be important ... arzoo too is not at that stage in love yet where she becomes selfless ... abhi her love is all about how he did this to her or that to her ... and not about keeping his pain before her own  

And i seriously feel CVs need to fix this ... you can't have half the people unable to relate to arzoo and her love and some hating sahir religiously and expect to sell a love story ... they have to make us fall in love with both and see how they deserve each other because only then a love story makes sense 


Edited by Soaps1 - 22 December 2014 at 10:27am

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