Dost DostRant: what is a real friend Definition

SO I want to know the definition of a real friend 

(1)  jo kii doosro ke saamne defend kare .. vaha uska paksha le ... baat sambhaale.. lekin jab baadm ai dost ko mile to fatkaar lagaye kii tuu galat hai and sudhaar kar ...  so supporting in front of others but also give a bashing to his friend in private to mend your ways if he or she is wrong. not in public  as in public aapka dost aapka support chahenga hi galat ho yaa sahi ho [Learnt this from so many experiences]

(2) jo burai agar logo se apne dost kii sune to yeh nahi kii jaakar bata de kii vo aise bol raha hai ( unhe chugalkhor kehte hai ) but sutble way mai aise logo se door rakhe apne dost ko. so a goo friend will not tell that so many bad things are said about you as no one will feel listening to them but he will subtlely make his friend stay away from these people 

Dost vo hai jo dukh and sukh dono mai saath khada ho ( A friend in all weather more so in bad times) 

In my real life mai inhe hi real friend maanta huun jo bahut bahut kam hote hai 

vo rest vo bas hasi an time pass ke liye hote hai 

and for rest i Say

(Selfish friend will be no where to be seen in time of need) 

from this Puntz and Gautam are the worst friend of each other as they dont mend each other ways 

Praneet Bitched a lot about GG so he is not a good friend for sure. I will never have a friend who does back biting.

Regarding GG.. vo pritam ko respect deta hai par sunta nahi hai .. to yeh bhi galat hai:) as this is not friendship as such. I want to see Gautam doing more for Pritam 

He played the role of Kakka ji in the serial. An awesome novel and serial.

Most of the jokes of Raju Srivastav were picked from this novel at one point of time 

I beg your pardon but i don't agree. One of my friend explained me once that it takes control and practice to not to talk behind the back. It happens with everyone.  When one gets frustrated they need to vent out their emotions and frustration somewhere and they need someone to listen. We give weigh to the fact that person is bitching but not on the fact that what are the circumstances, state of mind, condition, intentions or if there any maliciousness. Sometimes, its not about harming someone reputation but you're somewhere hurt and overwhelmed that you go off track, doesn't mean that person becomes "BAD" bad. We all are humans and we are bound to go wrong. 😆

and regarding Praneet, i think he never said things about gau in malicious ways or intentions. It was more like he was hurt that how Gau becomes so stubborn and don't listen what others want to say. He wanted to mend gau ways but i guess both are high headed. But Genuinely what praneet come across to me, he don't keep grudges and rather he cares for gautam and only wanted best for him. 😃 

Agree, both bitched about each other, both were/are hurt... bzw, it appears like Praneet wants every1 to stay away from Punz thats why he saved Dimpy so as she's more loyal towards him than Punz.. as he knows the 1 playing the real game.. same with GG or else why would he make Pritam pass on the msg to GG to be carefull etc??