Blaming Ishaan?

Poor guy, what was Ishaan supposed to say when she asked him (did she really or was this just an FB scene) if Samrat was a good guy?  Ishaan was Samrat's best friend and when you are friends with a person or love someone, you try to see the best in that someone.  Is this the beginning of an MU between Urmi and Ishaan merely for the sake of having an MU for the drama quotient of making him feel guilty and her relenting later on because of all that he is doing to extricate her from hell?  Hope not.  

Ishaan has always been more than nice to Urmi and her family and she needs to keep in mind it was not to be expected of him to come ratting on Samrat to a relative stranger (Urmi was a stranger to Ishaan at that point) who is Samrat's fiancee.  The blame if any should be placed on Gaurav's first wife and Urmi's parents for not doing a proper check on the rat they were tying their daughter to for life.  

BTW, happy that this show has moved up the ranks on the IF page.  

she took ishaans word over trishnas. 

ishaan blatantly lied to her and left her to this mess. hes an idiot who had the dumb idea that once samrat has a woman in his life, he will change. 

when in the world does that happen? scum of the earth will always be scum , married or not. 

he BLATANTLY lied to urmi and covered up for samrat. samrats behavior was bad before marriage but ishaan always found excuses for him. urmi lost 6 or 7 years of her life because of ishaan and now she may loose her son. shes lost her family too. 

ishaan meant well, he really did but his lies ruined urmis life. simple fact

Why would Urmi take the word of a stranger about the man she was marrying?  She had the wool pulled over her eyes by everyone involved, including herself, she was romanticizing over the Ratman big time, if I recall right.  

And in Ishaan's defense, as you write, he probably did think SamRat would change for the better, reformed rake and all, and it was not his job to go upsetting someone else's apple cart.  Ishaan had no business telling Urmi anything anyway.  But if Urmi did take Ishaan's word over all else that misled her, then poor Urmi or it makes for the beginnings of an epic love story - she trusted Ishaan more than the man she was about to marry - soul connection 😉

Suresh, I think the FB was before the honeymoon in Goa.  And even if Ishaan had wanted, he could not have disclosed to Urmi about Samrat's one night stand in Goa.  He did berate Samrat and they got into a fist fight even, I don't think any outsider especially the guy's friend would tell the guy's wife that his friend was cheating on her.  

The blame lies with Samrat and to some extent with Urmi for putting up with Samrat's callousness. He wouldn't let her meet her mother who had come to visit her (remember the watch incident?) and then the beating, if she believed he could reform after those heinous instances, Ishaan probably thought Samrat was being a jerk but would soon become a model husband to Urmi (before Goa i.e).  The only thing I see wrong in Ishaan's behavior is his trying to cover up for Samrat's rude behavior before the wedding.  He owed nothing to Urmi at that point and probably thought he was trying to do his friend a good turn and hoped that his friend would turn around and see sense.  If Ishaan can be blamed, everyone else except for Trisha should be blamed for Urmi's plight.  There were an unfortunate set of circumstances that led Urmi to her current sorry straits.  

Secondly, Ishaan did not believe that Samrat was so evil. he said in an episode, that Samrat was not the person he knew all along.  He thought Samrat was just going through some phase and marriage would change him.  Even when Ishaan left the hotel after finding out Samrat was cheating on Urmi on their honeymoon, it would not be his place to tell Urmi about it. 

Urmi needs to take responsibility for her naivety and her stubborn attitude when her cousin told her that Samrat was not a good man.  Yes, her parents are to be blamed too along with her sister in law.  

I was really upset with how Urmi spoke to Ishaan.