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Ok I think its not only personal decision but it also depends upon ur culture or society. In India culture we don't loose our virginity before marriage and that's how we are brought up. However, in some culture/society/country it is totally normal to sleep with someone when they are dating. I think I accept both of them respect. In "West" it is totally ok to date someone, move in together, make love, and decide whether to marry or not. I think there is nothing wrong with it if that is what society norm is. In India culture we still have issues with love marriage where we select our soul mate ourselves its very hard to think about making love before marriage. I personally would not do that, but if in certain situation if you happen to do that mistake (mistake according to me) I would not blame myself for rest of the life. I'll move on ….I don't think if you happen to make love before marriage its offending religion or society. Depending upon family yes, it may be offending to your family. But again, this is personal choice and I don't think its crime or disgusting thing to have sex before marriage or something to look down on someone… however, I personally don't believe in sex before marriage.

i think if two people are in love and they have sex, is not wrong but they should be responsible for themselves.

i think theres nothing wrong in sex b4 marriage

well.....than what these soaps show is not a very good example for the ypung generation.....i know we can understand it but.........some cant!!!!

Well said , I totally agreed with u.

Agreed with u 2.

Kyphfanz, it is not a stupid question at all. Knowledge is self protection and protecting yourself early is never bad.

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In my opinion, from ages 16 to 23 a woman is still not mature enough to make a decision on - is it right or not to sleep with a partner.  Hormones play a large part in clouding one's decision making ability at this time.

Faced on all sides with the fast paced, sab chalta hai attitude of today and over-dramatization of love in the movies and serials,  its easy to fall into the trap of thinking that everyone is doing it so why not me and sex is ok if you love the person and anyway will be marrying that person so what is wrong with indulging</><>. This may not always happen. </>  <>

After that you have to live with your conscience and that is where you have to be true to yourself. If you can honestly say it will not matter if you have one or multiple partners before marriage then it's a personal call if one wants to go ahead. But one mistake can scar a person for life. </>

But if the idea that you would like to enter a sacred relationship – ie marriage, with nothing holding you back to the past means more to you; the decision is obvious. 

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Sex itself is not wrong, but mostly the reasons and circumstances of intimacy are.

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well......i  have been to the US n UK....n people over there....well that's what i heard....." that if u dont have a bf after being in high schooll they think that somethin is worng wit the girl".....is it true????maybe people livin the US n UK can tell???

Its hard to say a YES or NO to a question like that.......coz it depends all on a person and there limits...........

nope

in the western world ages ago it wasnt a norm to do it b4 the marriage, but over the decades it has gotten out of control . just my opinion.

 

Edited by ivan - 10 June 2005 at 7:32pm