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i AGREE, I think some people tend to forget that what they say or feel abt some person need not be the same for everyone.The one they feel as beautiful doesn not mean the same for everyone else .
yes a certain actress in "fat" but that does not imply that she doesnt have talent or cannot accomplish anythig or become less beautiful or compete with "slim" people .
the worrying thing that i get offended abt is that theres nothing wrong is pointing out that a certain celebrity is "fat" or that he/she needs to hit the gym but the fact abt making it a s a headline or the title of the post or start a separate thread abt it is disturbing .
see why is so much importance given to the physical aspects of a person,we dont start a thread saying a certain celebrit is "slim " or too thin ,then why should special emphasis be given to the ones who are "plump"
there were certain comments abt an actress who was certainly on the heavier side but then degrading the same actress saying that she cannot dance mainly bcoz of her figure makes the post look so kiddish ,not bcoz of the post but bcoz of thre thoughts of that person. If this is the thought that one has that everyone who is on the heavier side cannot perform or do not have the talent to succeed then what can one say
yes people can post their opinions but the opinions reflects on the thoughts and the nature of the eprson posting abt it . I do agree that bollwood and television give more importance to looks but the other fact is that not many agree to it and say its right and have their own thoughts and opinions abt it .
In my case ,I admire people or like someone not bcoz of their looks but acting and talent is the main criteria for me . Some may not like ajay playing ram bcoz in their eyes ,he doesnt look the role but it may not be the same for others.I infact like to see ajay in that role coz he is a good actor which is the criteria for me for liking an actor/actress .
the sad truth is that looks have gained more importance in bollwood but that doesnt take away the fact that people who are "fat" are not beautiful .
the definition of beauty changes from person to person and what one sees as beauty may not be for the other person and thats the fact . One has to realise that ,there is no need to start a thread with the title "omg she is so fat " ,coz its ridiculous trying to make an issue which is non-existent
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Hello i thought that T.V and Bollywood was for Entertainment. And how do u think people will love watching fat ugly people on T.V and movies. I think this one point where hollywood is just ahead of us Indian. Instead to finding excuses just get you butt to the gym.
No Pain No Gain!!!!!
i disagree w/u here!
If ur talking about fat/ugly guys on big screen n we not watching them then think back to old, golden days!..when every single actor/actress were fat! Such as Raj Kapoor, Shammi Kapoor, Rajesh Khanna, Dharmendra, Nutan, Nargis, Asha Parekh, Rishi Kapoor, n the list goes on and on!
I think fatness never mattered in today's generation either...if it did, then Madhavan wouldn't have been appreciated in RDB.
I think its how u act that matters, not ur weight.
ok i disagree with u pachi and abhi cause when ur int he entertainment business u have to learn to live with ppl making these comments because u r in this type of a business now i am not sayin to go to an extend and saying really bad things but talking abt pplz weight's goes and and prolly will stay there. I am not saying that u should alwayz comment on these things but it's there and i dont think anyone can stop sayin it.
true pinkdrop..There's no point fooling oneself saying that looks dont matter in this buisness...and when these celebrities can reap all the perquisites(fame,being written about,being featured in the page 3 section),they must also be ready for the brickbats....If celebrities cant handle the heat,they need to go and do some work where no one would talk about their looks
and what's worse is that..even celebs would agree that they are fat,but the fans...uuuuuuuffffffffffffffff,when one is in limelight, one is posing himself / herself for JUDGEMENT! They are SUPPOSED to look good and dress well at all times ...Stupid DEVOTEES always howling and crying about her weight being fine,always howling and crying that the stars dress well,always howling that nothing negative should be said about the star and to top it all,a blackmail.."I AM LEAVING IF ..AS EVERYONE IS CRITICIZING MY STAR...You made people quit the forum and other such gibberish"....C'mon,these people need to grow up,not everyone will worship the stars,not eveyone will glorify.....Some need to stop kidding themselves
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