What was Purab thinking? - Page 4

Originally posted by: ides

was it easy for Purab to adapt to Jassi's world? her querks, peculiarities????and Jassi throws the towel the first time the going gets tough........u dont do that to ur intended....but then u dont do that to ur friend either😕

why do u think jassi gave up so quickly? cuz she doesnt care enuf to try. now if it was armaan...

Originally posted by: kshreya2002

why do u think jassi gave up so quickly? cuz she doesnt care enuf to try. now if it was armaan...

Kshreya........then the whole message behind the serial just went down the drain......its not abt Purab or Armaan.......the fact is that Jassi (who started off as an epitome of commitment and doing the right thing) is now belying her own principles....she is not giving any importance to others' feelings and that is where she is wrong.......especially since Purab was doing his part in trying to diffuse the embarresment.........

and if u think that Jassi would have acted differently had it been Armaan instead of Purab, then that shows Jassi in even worst light....it means that she COULD have tolerated but she CHOSE not to........and that, I think is really sad........

Originally posted by: ides

Kshreya........then the whole message behind the serial just went down the drain......its not abt Purab or Armaan.......the fact is that Jassi (who started off as an epitome of commitment and doing the right thing) is now belying her own principles....she is not giving any importance to others' feelings and that is where she is wrong.......especially since Purab was doing his part in trying to diffuse the embarresment.........

and if u think that Jassi would have acted differently had it been Armaan instead of Purab, then that shows Jassi in even worst light....it means that she COULD have tolerated but she CHOSE not to........and that, I think is really sad........

u havent got my point. jassi is actually doing all this for others ie purab, bebe, billu, amrit, nandu. but not for herself. her heart isnt in it, really. hence she is not putting in her best efforts. but with armaan things wud have been different. we have seen how much she has done for him. why? becuz her heart was on it.

jassi as u said "who started off as an epitome of commitment and doing the right thing". dont u think the first not-so-right thing she did was that she stopped listening to her heart.

Listening to ur heart always is not the best thing to do......a diabetic's heart will crave sweet but is it good for him/her.....there is a reason the human race is bestowed with a developed brain (well atleast some have it more developed than others) that being that they can evaluate and respond to each sitaution by using their feelings and intellect......

"her heart wasnt in it" isnt a good enough excuse......its VERY egocentric.....maybe u r right and Jassi has remenant feelings for Armaan.....but does it give her the right to walk all over someone else's feelings.....NO!!!!Jassi might be unhappy becuause Armaan did not reciprocate her feelings......she had no relationship/comitment with him.....but with Purab she does and so she should honour it......

Originally posted by: ides

"her heart wasnt in it" isnt a good enough excuse......its VERY egocentric.....maybe u r right and Jassi has remenant feelings for Armaan.....but does it give her the right to walk all over someone else's feelings.....NO!!!!Jassi might be unhappy becuause Armaan did not reciprocate her feelings......she had no relationship/comitment with him.....but with Purab she does and so she should honour it......

my point is jassi shld have never got into a relationship w/ purab. since her heart wasnt into it she was bound to hurt herself or him. i agree w/ what meena said. marry the person u love. its ok to go for an arranged marriage if u have never loved anyone or time has completely cured u of ur feeling for ur beloved. jassi simply rushed from one relationship to another. that was wrong.

I agree shreya....she shouldnt have rushed from armaan to purab....that was wrong.......but now that she is, she needs to respect this new relationship.......two wrongs do not make a right either

better she breaks up w/ him asap. sooner she does this the less hurt he will be.