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TiN24 Goldie
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Posted: 17 November 2005 at 1:18pm | IP Logged
I could easliy say that looks shouldn't matter. Its what's on the inside that counts. But do we really mean it? Like it or not, but we often perfer looks over other things. Its hard to admit cause people will think you are shallow and cheap if you perfer looks over personality or anything else, but its true, you are treated differently by society and the main reason for that is looks.

JJKN was a really strong and good show to start off with. But after Jassi's makeover, the moral of the story changed altogether. The show wasn't trying to say that looks don't matter, its your personality and brains that should count (like it did in the beginning). After her makeover, it was how many times can I change my name in order for society to accept me.

I'll admit, majority of the reason I watched Jassi was to anxiously wait for her makeover and see what she really looks like. Admit it guys, we are all like that but just don't want to say it out loud. We look perfer looks. Not completely, but to a certain extent. That's just how society works.

But again, I will say I do look at looks, but don't perfer them over brains and personality. If the person is good at heart and sincere, that's more then enough for me........I don't care what they look like cause God made each of us the way he wanted and made us beautiful in his own eyes. Call me cheezy.......but that's how I see it.
indiaforums1234 Senior Member
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Posted: 17 November 2005 at 1:42pm | IP Logged
Do looks matter?

Certainly. I mean come on, as tin24 said, we all say that we are not shallow and looks don't have any impact on our preferences. Believe it or not. We make many choices just based on looks.

Statistics show that good looking people are more confident, more outgoing, and are more likely to be offered jobs. People who are not so good looking are from the very childhood not received by the society in a warm and friendly manner as the good looking ones are. This in turn affects the growth of the former, who in future become less confident individuals and are less likely to be active socially.

All this is not our fault. We are attracted to good looking people because of evolution. We equate good looking to healthy and being healthy is the first characteristic of reproductive potential.

This is the bitter reality of our sociey. However, if you are a non-good looking person, you don't have to worry. If you have the talent and the personality, you just have to try a little harder than your goodlooking fellows.
zhasan2 IF-Rockerz
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Posted: 28 November 2005 at 5:43pm | IP Logged
i don't know what jjkn is trying to say, but if it is
trying to say what you're saying, i definentily go
against it.
looks don't matter, but some people don't give as much
attention to the people who don't have as good looks as
others.
zhasan2 IF-Rockerz
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Posted: 28 November 2005 at 5:44pm | IP Logged
also, other than looks, people should be able to take
care of their health and groom. and more than
looks is the personality and attitude among people
Traveller Senior Member
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Posted: 04 December 2005 at 12:33am | IP Logged

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kitty468 IF-Dazzler
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Posted: 11 December 2005 at 1:14pm | IP Logged
what i believe.-- your dress sense, hair style, acessories really show your personality. sometimes they decieve, but not all times. if you are simple you dress simple. to make an impression is difficult who dont look that great so their personality takes into play. this requires a lot of self confidence, and need to be strong and bold. like delnaz and pammi in kareena kareena are both fat but they talk in such a way that they impress you. im not the right person to tell opinions becoz i myself have complexion infiorities. i put fair n lovely everyday to keep myself happy. i know its pathetic.
ashley1 Senior Member
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Posted: 13 December 2005 at 1:59pm | IP Logged
Well-Grooming & cleanliness do matter. Be the best-looking you can...withou artificail things like plastic surgery & tremendous make-up
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