Posted:
9 years ago
Dear , the problem isn't about Jodhaa staying with Jalal or not nor we are saying that Jodhaa should be the only one to be blamed and not Jalal , both JoJa have their part of responsability in this MU fiasco but as one of member has clearly given for example , Jalal's accused for this at 99% meanwhile Jodhaa is nearly blamed for 1% , and we saw clearly in the presumed Mahaepisode yesterday that Jodhaa's refusing to acknowledge her part of responsability in this mess meanwhile Jalal who has less reasons to be blamed then her was unhesitatingly taking whole blame over him ! That isn't done at all ! Jalal accused and insulted her but he straightly acknowledged it and even humbly apologized to her , Jodhaa wasn't forgiving him , still it was standable until the confrontation where she rejected all faults over his head , she denied totally saying he hurted her self esteem , respect and pride , the man bendingly took it in his count , adding that she herself mentionned in the letter that he isn't GUILTY ! Jodhaa's only giving for excuses her kartavya , pavitritha , sambhan , abhiman , swabhiman etc . . . while Jalal's hell bend on humein apni galtiyon ka ehsaas hai Jodhaa begum , humne aap ko bohot thes pooncha hai , he loves her and was feeling terribily miserable and guilty for hurting his lady love to that extent meanwhile all he's getting back in response is abhiman , swabiman , charitrita , pavitritha , etc etc ko thes pohonchi hai , the two weren't pointing at the same angle at all ! Jodhaa's ego and feelings weren't hurt as per she said , I am really upset to mention that though but that's what she purely meant , her ego , and self things were hurted by his accusations not her love feelings for him as when he confessed to her that hum aapki bina ek pal bi nahi jee payenge , Jodhaa answered in return , jab tak hum jeevat rahenge , hum aapka patni band kar rahenge , aapni patni honeka pure KARTVYA nibhayenge ???!!! Here she goes , and for me this wasn't LOVE at all , whether ! Being a Rajvanshi she has her pride , duties as wife but being a Rajvanshi isn't only defining to be egocentrique and puts every blames over her less-responsable husband , love isn't about duty , the man confessed his love and she's there blabbering I am a Rajvanshi , they pray for their husband's welfare and until I live , I will keep fulfilling my duties as your wife 😕😕 That was her reciprocation for his love ??? From where does PRIDE , DUTIES , HONOUR , SELF-RESPECT AND ESTEEM COME TO SHUFFLE INTO LOVE MATTER ?!! We can't see at all the love on Jodhaa's side as we have seen on Jalal's side ! Love isn't about EGO , it's knowing forgiveness and apologize , there isn't any intention of rancor , being boastful and frivolous in it when especially we know that we have also our PART OF RESPONSABILITY in it ! That's my response for your queries ! Hope to be enough clear and explainful 😊😊
Edited by sweetystubborn - 9 years ago