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nice post
but i dont think astha & shlok both fought for their marriage ,it was astha all alone till swati died for their marriage who fought ,it was astha all alone fought for their love ( if u call shloke loved astha before ) ,atleast before divorce hearing ,shlokie did not actually make an effort to accept their married life or astha or fought for their marriage or love ,yes he saved astha several times bcoz situations were made but he himself did not move forward without situations to give the marriage a try other than blaming astha & insulting astha & abusing astha ( if u count SR )
shloke astha marriage worked bcoz of astha till swati died ,astha did not divorce him ,before astha's attempt shlokie did not make an effort himself ,he did not put forward & said astha dont leave ,he himself bashed astha the previous night of hearing ,he did not say to judge that i dont want divorce before astha in hearing before judge ,it was astha first ,anyway ,he took astha caveman style before,why ??bcoz his ego was hurt that astha left him ,a girl could dare to divorce shlokie ,yes ,it was his ego ,he said when astha left the house ,that u have soo much ego that u didnt listen to my baba & when astha accused him at NA's birthday & said i wont live with this man ,didnt shlokie twisted his finger & said LEAVE ,IN HARSH & INSULTING WAY ???he didnt want to bring astha back at that time ,he said that to NA ,it was NA WHO PUSHED HIM TO BRING BACK ASTHA ,thats why he did take her as caveman style saying how dare u insult my baba in car & also NA pushed shloke saying bring back astha in divorce proceeding ,i want her back ,that why shlokie said to judge ,he didnt want divorce at first time when judge gave them 6 months order
& it was astha's nature ,who sacrificed many things ,yes she sacrificed many things ,like her family ( though she is lucky to have such family to stick for her ) & like even herself to be with shlokie ,if she did not sacrifice & compromise seeing shlokie's attitude towards her would the marriage worked ????NO ,bcoz shlokie so far did not sacrifice or compromise anything atleast till swati died ,a relationship needs BOTH people to work for it ,what did shlokie do other than saving astha ???for the relationship ???NOTHING ,he tried to create hindrance for astha many times
swati was a head strong girl for her self respect was much important ,trust was more important than shlokie's love ,i dont see it was her immature love bcoz if trust doesnt exist relationship doesnt exist ,love cannot take relation further without trust ,shlokie did not trust her ,she thought its nothing without trust ,so she left ,nothing wrong with that ,yes shlokie might have begged her to come back as per one flashback but she didnt want to ,that does not mean shlokie didnt love her ,she was always in shlokie's mind even after his marriege even when he knew she was married ,who did stop him then moving ahead with his life with astha & doing what he is doing now with astha back then ???why didnt he do that before ???astha tried many times ,isnt it ??why didnt he move forward & accepted astha then as he is doing now ???
on the other hand it is astha who sacrificed self respect ,yes ,she did sacrifice that ,saying shlokie i fell in love with u 100000 times a day usually right after he used to abuse or insult her ,he also did not trust astha when aditi accused her ,he bashed her saying she has bad upbringing & all ,inspite astha gave him chance ,it was not shlokie who gave astha another chance ,IF ASTHA WAS THIS BAD TO SHLOKIE LIKE HE WAS TO ASTHA DO U THINK SHLOKIE WOULD HAVE GIVEN HER ANOTHER CHANCE ???HELL NO ,ATLEAST NOT SO FAR ,
a relationship needs two people to trust each other ,two people sacrifice & compromise for each other ,what did shlokie compromise & sacrificed so far for astha ???NADA
lets see if he sacrifice or compromise or trust astha in future
about shlokie being redeemed so now u r saying he is realizing astha's importance ,then its one kind of redeemption ,ok ,when did he realize her importance ,we exactly dont know from exactly when bcoz they didnt show his pov ,so far its all assumption
if he really would have loved astha dont u think atleast he would have felt remorse or tiny guilt if not redemption ,he would have atleast realized atleast for 5 minhutes how brutal & wrong he was ,wouldnt have he realised what he did to her at SR & AFTERWARDS ????SO let alone redeemption now ,we dont need it as per ur point ,but what about realization he was wrong ,he still didnt realixze he was wrong ,we didnt see anything for that so far ,if we love some person & we hurt them brutally wont we realize atleast that we did wrong ????? so if he realize ( if at all ) then it will be from now but not before
so he is accepting astha now as wifey what he couldnt before swati died ???why ????who stopped him ????baba ???or astha ????or what ???suddenly after swati died he is accepting astha as wife in full mood in fast speed ,so thats why the point of astha as second option comes to mind ,if he would have done it before swati died ,if CVS DID SHOW IT BEFORE SWATI DIED this full speed then ,WE WOULD HAVE NEVER SAID ASTHA AS SECOND OPTION
astha ,shlokie ,yes so far its destiny that is sticking them together ,i agree & also astha's sacrificing ,compromising nature & her letting go of her ego ,
love should happen despite all flaws ,all bad ,astha loved shlokie despite his bad flaws , did shlokie or would have shlokie love astha despite her flaws if in future if she have one ??? lets see then
by the way, did shlokie respect astha ever at least till swati died ???,i guess not ,lets see if he respect her in future
love means respect ,understanding ,trust ,we saw astha have those for shlokie lets see if shlokie have now those for astha ,which he did not have before
but i dont think astha & shlok both fought for their marriage ,it was astha all alone till swati died for their marriage who fought ,it was astha all alone fought for their love ( if u call shloke loved astha before ) ,atleast before divorce hearing ,shlokie did not actually make an effort to accept their married life or astha or fought for their marriage or love ,yes he saved astha several times bcoz situations were made but he himself did not move forward without situations to give the marriage a try other than blaming astha & insulting astha & abusing astha ( if u count SR )
shloke astha marriage worked bcoz of astha till swati died ,astha did not divorce him ,before astha's attempt shlokie did not make an effort himself ,he did not put forward & said astha dont leave ,he himself bashed astha the previous night of hearing ,he did not say to judge that i dont want divorce before astha in hearing before judge ,it was astha first ,anyway ,he took astha caveman style before,why ??bcoz his ego was hurt that astha left him ,a girl could dare to divorce shlokie ,yes ,it was his ego ,he said when astha left the house ,that u have soo much ego that u didnt listen to my baba & when astha accused him at NA's birthday & said i wont live with this man ,didnt shlokie twisted his finger & said LEAVE ,IN HARSH & INSULTING WAY ???he didnt want to bring astha back at that time ,he said that to NA ,it was NA WHO PUSHED HIM TO BRING BACK ASTHA ,thats why he did take her as caveman style saying how dare u insult my baba in car & also NA pushed shloke saying bring back astha in divorce proceeding ,i want her back ,that why shlokie said to judge ,he didnt want divorce at first time when judge gave them 6 months order
& it was astha's nature ,who sacrificed many things ,yes she sacrificed many things ,like her family ( though she is lucky to have such family to stick for her ) & like even herself to be with shlokie ,if she did not sacrifice & compromise seeing shlokie's attitude towards her would the marriage worked ????NO ,bcoz shlokie so far did not sacrifice or compromise anything atleast till swati died ,a relationship needs BOTH people to work for it ,what did shlokie do other than saving astha ???for the relationship ???NOTHING ,he tried to create hindrance for astha many times
swati was a head strong girl for her self respect was much important ,trust was more important than shlokie's love ,i dont see it was her immature love bcoz if trust doesnt exist relationship doesnt exist ,love cannot take relation further without trust ,shlokie did not trust her ,she thought its nothing without trust ,so she left ,nothing wrong with that ,yes shlokie might have begged her to come back as per one flashback but she didnt want to ,that does not mean shlokie didnt love her ,she was always in shlokie's mind even after his marriege even when he knew she was married ,who did stop him then moving ahead with his life with astha & doing what he is doing now with astha back then ???why didnt he do that before ???astha tried many times ,isnt it ??why didnt he move forward & accepted astha then as he is doing now ???
on the other hand it is astha who sacrificed self respect ,yes ,she did sacrifice that ,saying shlokie i fell in love with u 100000 times a day usually right after he used to abuse or insult her ,he also did not trust astha when aditi accused her ,he bashed her saying she has bad upbringing & all ,inspite astha gave him chance ,it was not shlokie who gave astha another chance ,IF ASTHA WAS THIS BAD TO SHLOKIE LIKE HE WAS TO ASTHA DO U THINK SHLOKIE WOULD HAVE GIVEN HER ANOTHER CHANCE ???HELL NO ,ATLEAST NOT SO FAR ,
a relationship needs two people to trust each other ,two people sacrifice & compromise for each other ,what did shlokie compromise & sacrificed so far for astha ???NADA
lets see if he sacrifice or compromise or trust astha in future
about shlokie being redeemed so now u r saying he is realizing astha's importance ,then its one kind of redeemption ,ok ,when did he realize her importance ,we exactly dont know from exactly when bcoz they didnt show his pov ,so far its all assumption
if he really would have loved astha dont u think atleast he would have felt remorse or tiny guilt if not redemption ,he would have atleast realized atleast for 5 minhutes how brutal & wrong he was ,wouldnt have he realised what he did to her at SR & AFTERWARDS ????SO let alone redeemption now ,we dont need it as per ur point ,but what about realization he was wrong ,he still didnt realixze he was wrong ,we didnt see anything for that so far ,if we love some person & we hurt them brutally wont we realize atleast that we did wrong ????? so if he realize ( if at all ) then it will be from now but not before
so he is accepting astha now as wifey what he couldnt before swati died ???why ????who stopped him ????baba ???or astha ????or what ???suddenly after swati died he is accepting astha as wife in full mood in fast speed ,so thats why the point of astha as second option comes to mind ,if he would have done it before swati died ,if CVS DID SHOW IT BEFORE SWATI DIED this full speed then ,WE WOULD HAVE NEVER SAID ASTHA AS SECOND OPTION
astha ,shlokie ,yes so far its destiny that is sticking them together ,i agree & also astha's sacrificing ,compromising nature & her letting go of her ego ,
love should happen despite all flaws ,all bad ,astha loved shlokie despite his bad flaws , did shlokie or would have shlokie love astha despite her flaws if in future if she have one ??? lets see then
by the way, did shlokie respect astha ever at least till swati died ???,i guess not ,lets see if he respect her in future
love means respect ,understanding ,trust ,we saw astha have those for shlokie lets see if shlokie have now those for astha ,which he did not have before
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