Her new vachan to brother is higher on her list of priorities than her 7 vachans to her husband?!?!?!?! Yeh kaunsi Rajvanshi pratha hai?!?!?! for that matter yeh kaunsi pratha hai any where and any religion and any whatever?!?!?!?!?!?!?
And before anyone starts on Qing me, let me add the disclaimer that by default I am a woman, an Indian and a hindu but my thinking is gender neutral, universal and I happen to be a Kaanji Bhai when it comes to religion, 'Where there is religion there can never be truth and where there is truth there is no need for religion'.
And I am not going to be either traditional or modern here nor am I going to be gender biased - but when you see that an action of yours is hurting the one relation that is supposed to be the most special - how the hell can you keep silent?!?!?!?! - This act of keeping quiet by Jodha, is definitely not Dharma - as Krishna says to Draupadi in Mahabharata, 'Dharma's foundation is in empathy' - when one feels the pain of the other, any action taken to relieve that pain would be called Dharma!!!