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stonex IF-Dazzler
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Posted: 06 June 2005 at 6:14am | IP Logged
Always family. I have seen so many people marrying out of love when the parents did not agree and most are not happy as they dont have a family as they dont get along after that. They always say that I have everything but what I dont have is family which I have and they always feel something is missing . specially when they is a festival to famiy functions they attend of others and they see the unity.
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Posted: 06 June 2005 at 8:45am | IP Logged
Originally posted by pj04

i think it is very individual decision. if it were to me i would choose family...here is why

1) i find it hard to discard years of love and loyalty(given by your family) in hopes of future love and loyalty.

2)family is real and concrete.....love is an emotion(it might be true/it might not)...i won't realise it until it is too late. i have often heard people say that you willl know when you meet the right one....however i have rarely come across a person who could assure me or himself for that matter that his love is true. love is always relative.

3)i could never forgive myself if any member of my family had to go through humiliation or any other problem bcoz i decided to pursue my heart.

4) i know my family loves me and wants the best for me....if they are not agreeing with my choice.....they might be seeing something that i fail to see bcoz of my love blindness.

 i completely agree with pj as i also believe the same

SaNjAnA_xoxo Newbie
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Posted: 06 June 2005 at 8:40pm | IP Logged
its funny cuz ive actually never given this a thought....and im really
hoping that i never fall into a situation like this cuz i dont know what
i would do!!!!!!

-sanju
sowmyaa IF-Dazzler
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Posted: 07 June 2005 at 6:47pm | IP Logged
I totally agree with PJ and I would choose family for sure. I don't think you can creat new relations after breaking old ones...
kamille Newbie
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Posted: 07 June 2005 at 10:27pm | IP Logged
I'd definitely choose family, although it will totally depend from person to person. I don't think I could ever lead a happy life knowing that I have hurt my parents.
dannyk IF-Veteran Member
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Posted: 15 November 2005 at 7:42am | IP Logged
really difficult to answer ... and difficult to choose also ...

as one side those family is there due to them you are at this stage .. and the love on bais of which you are planning your future life ...
sweet freedom IF-Dazzler
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Posted: 15 November 2005 at 9:51am | IP Logged
well i wouldnt get into that situation cos my mum would want me to ghave a successfull marriage but if it didnt happen to me i would chose family def.
cuteabs Senior Member
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Posted: 15 November 2005 at 1:01pm | IP Logged
ummmm a very hard decision to make.

i would definitely stick with my parents. i wont marry a guy whom they dont like.
the easiest thing to do is to obey my parents wont marry him & also wont marry anyone else.lead my life without a partner Cry coz i cant marry someone if i no by heart i love someone else its like decieving my going to b hubby.i canteven force myself to give that love wat he deserves from his wife. Confused

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