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i think it is very individual decision. if it were to me i would choose family...here is why
1) i find it hard to discard years of love and loyalty(given by your family) in hopes of future love and loyalty.
2)family is real and concrete.....love is an emotion(it might be true/it might not)...i won't realise it until it is too late. i have often heard people say that you willl know when you meet the right one....however i have rarely come across a person who could assure me or himself for that matter that his love is true. love is always relative.
3)i could never forgive myself if any member of my family had to go through humiliation or any other problem bcoz i decided to pursue my heart.
4) i know my family loves me and wants the best for me....if they are not agreeing with my choice.....they might be seeing something that i fail to see bcoz of my love blindness.
i completely agree with pj as i also believe the same
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