Pareeksha bytes - Page 5

Posted: 9 years ago
Originally posted by Arshics




Nice to see you Reemz after a long time.

Well, the main problem I had was that the crisis did not call for Kumud to hurt herself so

They no longer have the dard ka rishta, or the barriers they had when she was married to pramaad , she is his wife now and so can reach out to him directly.

this was a normal fight on the marriage scale, and so the solution of hurting herself was too exaggerated

There saras wanted her to walk out on her husband and he was her ex love and here she just wants him to think not react so angrily to his younger brother and she is his wife

zameen asman ka faraq




Pain is exactly what is they are experiencing. She reached out to him directly on Monday. With a very reasonable argument that she will try and needs time. When everything else failed, she resorted to this.

She doesn't want saras to lose faith in God. 

It is the dard ka rishta that is revisiting them. Because saras is in so much pain. It is not a simple jhagda between him.n kumud. It is a case where danny wanted to walk out and where he accused saras.

When he didn't listen to her argument, she used elders' names. Fair enough for me. Its like telling someone if u can't think straight atleast do this for elders and God. 

Edited by pasumarthisa - 9 years ago
Posted: 9 years ago
Originally posted by *Reemz*


Kumud is doing this for Saras. If he detaches himself from a relationship, it affects him and Danny is like his son. Kumud knows that! If she walked out with him then the chances of reconciliation are very slim. Has Kumud left him? No! She's only thinking of Saras even if it means temporarily upsetting him.

Regarding the diya. What emotional blackmail are we on about? Even Saras ripped his hand with a pen so Kumud stands up for herself in front of Pramad. Saras should be in the prayer, he should be beside Kumud but he's not. Pain is what connects them and it's a bit filmy but it's also in sync with Samud's relationship. Kumud was painfully calling out to Saras and Saras felt restless. That's SK for me anyway :)

She didn't leave him even for a minute. Is thinking about him all the time.

Didn't we see how much she pleaded with him. She is using 'saraswati' and 'parents' as a last resort so that saras has no other option but to budge.


Posted: 9 years ago
Originally posted by pasumarthisa



She didn't leave him even for a minute. Is thinking about him all the time.

Didn't we see how much she pleaded with him. She is using 'saraswati' and 'parents' as a last resort so that saras has no other option but to budge.



but why budge suddenly, why she cant give him little time. its not so easy to forget whatever happened and carry on. ofcourse she is with saras. trying to help him out but at what cost? hurting him more by hurting herself. she herself took time to come out of her miseries. no one forced her. 
Posted: 9 years ago
Originally posted by KusumSingh04



but why budge suddenly, why she cant give him little time. its not so easy to forget whatever happened and carry on. ofcourse she is with saras. trying to help him out but at what cost? hurting him more by hurting herself. she herself took time to come out of her miseries. no one forced her. 

It's his faith in God that kept him together all these years. She does not want to lose it. On Monday when he dismissed that things won't be right, she said that it's fine but come to aarti. 

Like everyone is saying, didn't saras cut his hand to threaten her. He is in a serious situation and she thinks it's not that serious.

Posted: 9 years ago
Originally posted by pasumarthisa




It's his faith in God that kept him together all these years. She does not want to lose it. On Monday when he dismissed that things won't be right, she said that it's fine but come to aarti.

Like everyone is saying, didn't saras cut his hand to threaten her. He is in a serious situation and she thinks it's not that serious.

But saras didn't have that much impact on kumud because she still continued to tolerate violence from pramad...but saras is not like that.. the moment he sees kumud in pain, he forgets his pain...
Posted: 9 years ago
Originally posted by KusumSingh04



but why budge suddenly, why she cant give him little time. its not so easy to forget whatever happened and carry on. ofcourse she is with saras. trying to help him out but at what cost? hurting him more by hurting herself. she herself took time to come out of her miseries. no one forced her. 

Santhi,
here I am inclined to agree with Kusum, the natural reaction would have been to give him space and time, such a reaction on day 9, when she has tried all and not succeeded would have made sense, but it is too premature of her to assume that he has lost all faith.

he is just angry, and reacting in anger, let him be, would be more normal

this was a bit over dramatic
Posted: 9 years ago
Originally posted by Arshics



Santhi,
here I am inclined to agree with Kusum, the natural reaction would have been to give him space and time, such a reaction on day 9, when she has tried all and not succeeded would have made sense, but it is too premature of her to assume that he has lost all faith.

he is just angry, and reacting in anger, let him be, would be more normal

this was a bit over dramatic

Agree it's a Lil dramatic but she warned him. Its similar to where I come from. And is consistent with her n saras's characterization. 

Posted: 9 years ago
Originally posted by shubh-aarambh


But saras didn't have that much impact on kumud because she still continued to tolerate violence from pramad...but saras is not like that.. the moment he sees kumud in pain, he forgets his pain...

He didn't have much impact because he was part of the problem and she didn't forgive him fully at that time. 
Posted: 9 years ago
Originally posted by pasumarthisa




He didn't have much impact because he was part of the problem and she didn't forgive him fully at that time.
This fact cannot be ignored that kumud, inspite of being married to pramad, didn't forget saras and his love, though she was angry... but her anger with saras has nothing to do with her tolerating pramad's violence ...if she is angry with saras, then she will continue to get hurt by pramad? as she is not ready to hear saras...? 😕
Posted: 9 years ago
Originally posted by pasumarthisa



Agree it's a Lil dramatic but she warned him. Its similar to where I come from. And is consistent with her n saras's characterization. 



That is true, it is consistent with Kumud, she doesnt take things lightly and it is in her character to make things right, come what may

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