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Posted: 11 March 2014 at 12:01am | IP Logged
Originally posted by LoveProfusion

Originally posted by zorrro

Originally posted by LoveProfusion

 Today's world is about online dating.
Whats wrong with the off line mode? Confused

Nothing, but I like to see what is out there.  Smile
You mean idle curiosity! LOL
 
Originally posted by LoveProfusion

Would you want to be with someone who had an abusive marriage?

 
It would be dangerous to be with the abuser and not the victim.


Edited by zorrro - 11 March 2014 at 12:01am

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Posted: 11 March 2014 at 1:07am | IP Logged
Have you ever put an ad on a matrimonial website or newspaper. Following are some of the most funniest ads that you might find out there . Have any of you posted this?

Hello To Viewvers My Name is Santheesha , I am single i dont have Famale,If any one whant to marrie to me u can visite to my home. I am not a good education but i working all field in bangalroe.. if u like me u welcome to my heart... when ever u whant to meet pls viset my resident or send u letter.. Thanks yours Regards Santheesha (R U there Mr.???)



- i want very simple girl. from brahmin educated family from orissa state he
is also know about RAMAYAN, GEETA BHAGABATA, and other homework (Homework?)




- Wants a woman who knows me better and can adjust with me forever. She may never create any difficulties in my life or her life by which the entire life can run smoothly. thank you (The principle of running life smoothly was never so easy!)



- She should be good looking and should have a service. She Shoulsd have one brother and one sister. She should be educated. (ain't it unique !! 1 brother 1 sister criteria !)



- I am a happy-go-lucky kind of person. Enjoys every moments of life. I love to make friendship. Becauese friendship is a first step of love. I am looking for my dreamgirl who will love me more than i. Because i love myself a lot. If u think that is u then why to late come on ... hold my hand forever !!! (The dilwale dulhaniya effect)



- i am simple boy.I have lot ofproblemin mylife because ofmylucknow i amlooking onegirlshe caremeandloveme lot lot lot (I don't know why but this is one of my favorites)



- My wife should be as 'Parwati' as in Kahani Ghar Ghar Ki and as Tulsi as in KSBKBT... (Ok I haven't seen these soaps but I am sure he must be demanding too much, ain't he?)



- i want a girl with no drinks if she wants she can wear jeans in house but while steping out of house she should give recpect to our cast (by not wearing her jeans? ahem...)



- HYE I AM A GOOD LOKING GUY,WHO HAS THE CAPABILITY TO MAKE ANY BODY TO LOUGH.I BELIEVE IN GOD AND ACCORDING TO ME FRIENDS ARE THE REAL MESSENGER OF GOD. THE 3 THINGS I AM LOOKING FROM A GIRL ,THEY ARE 1.THEY MUST BELIEVE IN GOD.2. THEY HAVE TO LIKE MY PROFFESION AND THEY SHOULD NOT GET BORED WITH ME WHEN I WILL TRY TO MAKE THEM LOUGH. (all of us are loughing)



- whatever she may be but she should feel that she is going to be someone bride and she must think of the future life if she is toolike this she would bde called the lady of the lamp (I am clueless, I feel so lost)



- i love my patner i marriage the patner ok i search my patner and i love the patner ok thik hai the patner has a graduate ok (I am again clueless but I liked the use of "ok". The person is suffering from "Ok-syndrome")



- HI IAM VERY COOL NUATHER OK MY HOBBY IS SEE T.V AND NEWS OK I HAVE 1 CAR AND 1 BONWL OK MY MOTHER ALSO GOOD OK MY FARUET WORLD IS OK (the "ok syndrome" again)



- looking for a well groomed bride. well behaved & knowing to cook chicken. Should be familiar to handle (hmm...handle?)



- HANDSOME, SMART LOOKING, TRYING IN MODELLING INTERESTED IN MEDICINE, HAVING NO GIRL FRIENDS AT ALL. BUT WAS THERE IN MY SCHOOL TIME . I SHOWED THEM ALL RELEASED MOVIES (hmm...)



- iam pradip my family histoy my two brother two sister and fater&mother sister complity marred (somebody please explain in comments section how to get married 'completely'?)



- iam very simpel and hanest. i have three sister one brother and parent. i am doing postal sarvice and tailor master my original resdence at kalahandi diste naw iam staing at rayagada dist.(I doubt the presence of some of our batchmates...:))



- my name is farhan and i am unmarried. pleaes you marrige me pleaes pleaes pleaes pleaes pleaes pleaes pleaes (height of desperation!)



- Iwant one girl who love me or my mother. she love me heartly or she havea frank she's skin colour 'normal'not a black or not a whitey. IThink the main think is heart if your heart is beautiful then you are beautiful. but iam not a handsome person or not a good looking. but my Mom say that Iam a good person. My father already expired . iam ''AEKLAUTA''. THE CHOICE IS YOUR. bye bye.(Its gonna be Saas-Bahu...)



- good looking girl, smart and inteligent girl, working effeciency is must.



- iam kanan. i do owo businas.one sistar.he was marred.




- hello i am a good charactarised man. i want to run my life happily.i'divorced my first wife.her charactor is not good'. i expect the good minded'and clean habits girl who may be in the same caste or other caste accepted ... (but credit cards not accepted) .



- my colour is black,but my heart is white.i like social service



- i'm looking out for who lives in bombay, girl simple who trust me lot should be roman catholic, LOVE ME ONLY. (Now that criterion is a must, isn't it?)



- to be married on jan-2005. working woman perferable (this guy has fixed the marriage date too! But he is yet to find a bride. I wish him best luck on behalf of all of us. I am sure he will get one soon.)



- i would like a beautyfull girl. and i do not want her any treasure. because girl is the mahalakshmi. (Wow...Now she is going to be a luckygirl!)



- ssc failed three times and worked with privated ltd company which not paying salary at present. (Any takers ?)



- The partner must be tall to matchup. Working lady is preferable. Must be loving in nature. having no children problem. (A girl is supposed to know this before the marriage...????).

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Posted: 11 March 2014 at 1:37am | IP Logged
What a  collection  Vinzy LOL

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Posted: 11 March 2014 at 2:44am | IP Logged

i love my patner i marriage the patner ok i search my patner and i love the patner ok thik hai the patner has a graduate ok (I am again clueless but I liked the use of "ok". The person is suffering from "Ok-syndrome")

ROFLROFL

@TM I don't think dating online is a good idea
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Posted: 11 March 2014 at 7:41am | IP Logged

Whether it is Shaadi.com or western dating sites like E-Harmony or Match.com, there always is a certain amount of risk associated with it. Most members are genuine and come from decent backgrounds. But there are also many scammers, perverts, sociopaths also lurking out there. You have to proceed with caution, use best judgment and do your homework before proceeding.

 

When it comes to marriage and relationships it isn't just online sites that have risks. Even traditional arrange marriages can end up in abusive relationships, cheating or conning for money.

 

As for the other questions. Everyone has set expectations in a relationship. Personally for me it doesn't matter if the person is a divorcee, abuse victim or even a rape victim. If I click with a person and there is genuine affection and chemistry, the other background factors seem frivolous.

 

IMO if you are looking for "love" and "see what's out there" I would recommend using the western sites like Match.com, Chemistry.com, E-Harmony, OKCupid etc. These sites have people actually seeking to date, fall in love and marriage is on the books only if it works out. Shaadi.com, BharatMatrimony and other south Asian sites are actually for people seeking to get married. People are seeking to find a good significant other from a good family. The concept and approach to love is very different.

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Posted: 11 March 2014 at 8:39am | IP Logged

 As per my Filipino colleague, he copied his Match@com bio from a used car website. says ''- White. - Good condition. - Reliable. - Cheap. - Some evidence of rear end damage. ''TongueOuchLOL

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