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Posted: 10 March 2014 at 9:54pm | IP Logged
I am shocked by SHAADI.COM and the responses I get for my ad.  Confused  There are lots of people on there trying to find a partner.   This is the kind of response I got today for my ad:
"My sister went to USA on a Fiance Visa and got married in 2002.   Her husband abused her both physically and mentally. Then she was rescued by the COPS in a dangerous
condition.  After this event (approximately 5 months after her marriage) her husband applied
for divorce which never ended until 2008. This was an arranged marriage and the groom and his family is known to our family. She went through many hurdles in her life and Mr. Makkar,
a punjabi person helped her during the economic hardship. To return him this favor my sister agreed to help him by sponsoring Makkar's brother on family petition. This was an understanding between the parties involved and there was no real relationship.  The first divorce got finalized in 2008, and the second one in 2010."
I politely declined, at least someone was being honest.  But, I say I am looking for love.  Would you want to be with someone who had an abusive marriage?  

Please share your thoughts as this is a serious topic and I value all your opinions from all forums.  

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Posted: 10 March 2014 at 10:29pm | IP Logged
that's the thing about life, not everyone comes with a perfect or pretty past ... everyone needs love; unless the person is the type you should stay away from don't let a past like that get in the way of getting to know that person... after all it's not her fault that happened to her ... who knows she may be the sweetest gem of a person you'll ever meet Smile

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Posted: 10 March 2014 at 10:33pm | IP Logged
in the first instance,i wouldn't even post on such sites 
scams and trolls are inevitable

and looking for a partner online is not a good option in my opinion

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Posted: 10 March 2014 at 10:35pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by LadyDabangg

in the first instance,i wouldn't even post on such sites 
scams and trolls are inevitable

and looking for a partner online is not a good option in my opinion

yes I agree about the online thing... I personally would be too scared to ever use an online dating site 

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Posted: 10 March 2014 at 10:42pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by -Dynamite-

Originally posted by LadyDabangg

in the first instance,i wouldn't even post on such sites 
scams and trolls are inevitable

and looking for a partner online is not a good option in my opinion

yes I agree about the online thing... I personally would be too scared to ever use an online dating site 
people cheat and falsify their data in real life
online is much more riskier

plus absence of personal touch

its better to meet the person and know him in personally than online

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Posted: 10 March 2014 at 11:18pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by LadyDabangg

in the first instance,i wouldn't even post on such sites 
scams and trolls are inevitable

and looking for a partner online is not a good option in my opinion

Smile  Thanks for your opinion Divya.  Today's world is about online dating.  You just have to be careful and if you meet the right person, everything is good.

I always run everything by my parents.  And of course, I am going to meet in person.


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Posted: 10 March 2014 at 11:55pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by LoveProfusion

 Today's world is about online dating.
Whats wrong with the off line mode? Confused

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Posted: 10 March 2014 at 11:57pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by zorrro

Originally posted by LoveProfusion

 Today's world is about online dating.
Whats wrong with the off line mode? Confused

Nothing, but I like to see what is out there.  Smile

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