I am shocked by SHAADI.COM and the responses I get for my ad. 😕 There are lots of people on there trying to find a partner. This is the kind of response I got today for my ad:
"My sister went to USA on a Fiance Visa and got married in 2002. Her husband abused her both physically and mentally. Then she was rescued by the COPS in a dangerous
condition. After this event (approximately 5 months after her marriage) her husband applied
for divorce which never ended until 2008. This was an arranged marriage and the groom and his family is known to our family. She went through many hurdles in her life and Mr. Makkar,
a punjabi person helped her during the economic hardship. To return him this favor my sister agreed to help him by sponsoring Makkar's brother on family petition. This was an understanding between the parties involved and there was no real relationship. The first divorce got finalized in 2008, and the second one in 2010."
I politely declined, at least someone was being honest. But, I say I am looking for love. Would you want to be with someone who had an abusive marriage?
Please share your thoughts as this is a serious topic and I value all your opinions from all forums.