Debate Mansion
Debate Mansion
Debate Mansion

India-Forums

   

Is it okay to say NO sometimes?!!!

ShantiAshtangi IF-Sizzlerz
ShantiAshtangi
ShantiAshtangi

Joined: 02 June 2013
Posts: 10853

Posted: 23 February 2014 at 4:06pm | IP Logged
Wink  Sometimes saying no can be detrimental, especially to good friends, coworkers, etc.  It is not humanly possible to do everything.  That is why saying no can be allowed sometimes.  But, some people don't look at it that way.  Is it okay to say NO sometimes?!!!  Please share your thoughts.  Smile

The following 2 member(s) liked the above post:

shweta2728Forever-KA

Avocado.Girl. Senior Member

Joined: 08 January 2014
Posts: 697

Posted: 24 February 2014 at 11:14am | IP Logged
THE ACCOUNT OF THE MEMBER WHO POSTED THIS MESSAGE HAS BEEN TEMPORARILY BANNED.

If you think this is an error please Contact us.

The following 1 member(s) liked the above post:

ShantiAshtangi

maha2us IF-Dazzler
maha2us
maha2us

Joined: 29 October 2007
Posts: 2851

Posted: 01 March 2014 at 9:58pm | IP Logged
This is what I will say. Whether I say 'yes' or 'no', what is important is taking care of myself. I will only disappoint someone if I say 'yes' to do something someone wanted me to do and then I myself find I can't do that. In that case, I am betraying myself. May be people say 'yes' not to betray someone but the biggest betrayal is betrayal of myself. Definitely I can say 'no' but I have to accept myself in this situation and not be rude to the other person. I can explain to that person, why I am unable to do what he wanted  from me. If that person is understanding, he would even help me to get me to do what he wants me to do. And thus, the relationship with him can continue being healthy. Of course, if he is not understanding, I have to find my own way to take care of myself because there is no meaning in accepting to do something not to lose a person and in that process if I lose myself. Even in work situation, if I have to say 'no' for some deadline, I have to honestly explain the practical issues of why I have to say 'no' because telling 'yes' would mean betrayal of myself as I could not accomplish the task within the deadline when I have genuine problems in completing the job. 
re123 IF-Sizzlerz
re123
re123

Joined: 23 July 2012
Posts: 18903

Posted: 02 March 2014 at 3:06am | IP Logged
saying  yes is not practical at all...if u can do say yes otherwise a no...
lovelygirly IF-Stunnerz
lovelygirly
lovelygirly

Joined: 04 November 2012
Posts: 27377

Posted: 02 March 2014 at 9:12am | IP Logged
its perfectly ok to say "no" to things that you are unable to or don't want to do...
but then one should positively accept and understand when he/she is denied by someone else Smile
ruky786 IF-Stunnerz
ruky786
ruky786

Joined: 12 August 2006
Posts: 40816

Posted: 02 March 2014 at 1:29pm | IP Logged
It is but I personally get the guilt feeling of turning someone down, then I feel bad and sometimes I end up helping or doing something for that person.
Forever-KA IF-Rockerz
Forever-KA
Forever-KA

Joined: 01 April 2009
Posts: 5426

Posted: 13 March 2014 at 7:26am | IP Logged
And people tell me "it is okay to say yes sometimes" .lol
 
everything is ok if you feel it is ok. no yes does not matter.
Qirat. Senior Member
Qirat.
Qirat.

Joined: 16 August 2009
Posts: 487

Posted: 18 March 2014 at 6:40am | IP Logged
Yaa I think it is okay to say no sometimes.. It is difficult to please all. Difficult to please one, difficult to please. Period! Disapprove

Go to top

Related Topics

  Topics Author Replies Views Last Post
Is it okay to not be DEEPLY RELIGIOUS?

2 3

Author: WhipCreamPantie   Replies: 18   Views: 1085

WhipCreamPantie 18 1085 05 March 2013 at 8:17pm by moomin4455
Is it human to hate or is it perfectly okay?

2 3 4 5 6 7 ... 16 17

Author: Summer3   Replies: 128   Views: 4259

Summer3 128 4259 08 January 2010 at 4:42am by Summer3
It's okay to slap your wife

2 3 4 5 6 7 ... 26 27

Author: Beyond_the_Veil   Replies: 208   Views: 12924

Beyond_the_Veil 208 12924 23 August 2009 at 9:28am by return_to_hades
Hate Crime in India OKAY?

Author: MrsAckles   Replies: 6   Views: 667

MrsAckles 6 667 30 October 2008 at 11:17am by jagdu
is it okay to be

Author: CuteManjot   Replies: 8   Views: 664

CuteManjot 8 664 14 October 2006 at 6:54am by IdeaQueen

Forum Quick Jump

Forum Category / Channels
Forums

Disclaimer: All Logos and Pictures of various Channels, Shows, Artistes, Media Houses, Companies, Brands etc. belong to their respective owners, and are used to merely visually identify the Channels, Shows, Companies, Brands, etc. to the viewer. Incase of any issue please contact the webmaster.

Popular Channels :
Star Plus | Zee TV | Sony TV | Colors TV | SAB TV | Life OK

Quick Links :
Top 100 TV Celebrities | Top 100 Bollywood Celebs | About Us | Contact Us | Advertise | Forum Index