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do you have to have sex with some1 to prove that you love them? I was talking to a frnd and she said that she only did it with her bf because he didn't think she loved him, so to prove to him, she had sex with him. I was very surprised. Does love really make you do stuff like that? if you have to do stuff like that to prove to some guy u love them, then im glad im not in love! what do u think guys!
1)does love make you do stuff like that....yes, the notion of love often makes people act almost stupidly.
2) was it right....honestly ...fear and insecurity are parts of parcel called love but sex is hardly a way to convince someone of genuinity of one's feeling.however sex is an physical expression of love, also man (who seems to equate the feeling to physical gratification)and women(who are happy to feel love emotionally in its abstract form) look at love differently, to this add in raging harmones, healthy amount of curosity and peer pressure(close friends often insist on juicy detailsand make you feel like a failure it you are keeping the relationship platonic)...the result is a demand like it happened with your friend.
what your friend should have done is try to avoid sex, maybe talk some sense into her bf and help him with his fears/insecurity. while this might have made thier relationship strong, it could have also broken it(depends on the maturity of the guy and how badly he wanted to go physical).
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lol... yea I heard that expression before "Sex is like Food ... the better it tastes the more you want of it." And i don't think having knowledge about sex makes anyone exactly "pervertive" or "nasty" lol... it really is something everyone should get in touch with no matter how "uncomfortable" you might feel to talk about it.
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i think that if u have to have sex to prove that u love a guy then there's no point in the relationship if the lad doesnt trust u then y should u have to stuff lke that 4 him i think thta love is about
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