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Posted: 08 January 2014 at 6:10am | IP Logged
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Originally posted by Missesha

I feel Anandi is rushing through. She hasn't thought enough regarding this adoption. Just emotions and will-power are not enough in this case. A lot of empathy and thought needs to be put behind for this child who needs extra care. Anandi still does not know if Amol is equally looking for parental love in AnSh. She does not know anything about Amol's wishes, his nature, his fears, his requirements etc. and whether she would be able to provide all that Amol requires. Shiv too is not fully into this adoption. He is just doing this for A's sake.

I found Ira and Anoop quiet real. Except for those two lines 'meri pasand', 'meri marzi' everything else that Irawati said made perfect sense. She is not against adoption or helping a child with disability.  Her point was simple, Why do Anandi and Shiv willingly want to take pains for the rest of their lives?' Everyone knows that managing a disabled child is so hard and parents have to make lot more sacrifices than ordinary. So Ira does not want her children (AnSh) to go through that willingly. It would have been a different case if AnSh's biological child had a disability.

There was nothing negative about what she said and it's not like she is going to ridicule the child if he starts living with them. But it is not easy to deal with a disabled child, especially if all members of adopting family fail to love him as his own.

It is very easy for daddu and Alok to say that family will take care of the child,  but they didn't think what if Shiv gets transferred to another place? How will they support a child who needs attention 24x7?

I honestly feel that AnSh should have their own babies first based on their stage and phase of life. They can adopt a few years down the line when they are experienced parents already.

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@RED
I think CVs should have shown AnSh bonding with Amol for few days in orphange before bringing him to KB...he should meet all the family members in orphanage itself else Amol will feel very strange in new house with so many new people...had Amol been some new born i would have not minded much but since he is already 6 yrs old i think AnSh shoud know him first and let him know them

@BOLD
Even i feel the same...just imagine if Anandi gets pregnant with twins later on...how will she manage then or is she ready to keep Amol under somecaretaker's guidance when she gets pregnant? Anandi shouldget overwith unexpected first(pregnancy) and then take over expected things(adoption)

I feel this track is very good and sweet but due to these loop holes like Anandi's rush and Shiv's immediate agreement to everything Anandi says is making this track quiet lousy...hope when Amol comes to KB CVs concentrate more on Amol bonding with the family and AnSh managing his medical tretament and education than all the cheap drama where Saanchi just returns from some cafe and starts taunting poor Amol CryCry

Most of the recent tracks seem to be rushed (except of course Sanchi drama) and creatives never show discussions in family before taking a decision - the decisions are taken on emotional basis. At least in this track, there was some discussion and family members put forward their views. The track is good, but like some previous tracks- CVs did not do their homework. If they could show practical aspects more clearly and Anandi-Shiv and family members discussing more clearly about future of this child- it would have been better. Dramatic entry (during anniversary celebration) may be good for twist, but CVs should know the real procedure of adopting a child. Sanchi and some others (may be relatives/neighbours) will sure taunt Anandi (if not directly Amol) for his disabilityAngry

Shiv and Anandi should discuss the adoption like above mentioned scenario of Anandi being pregnant, or like some other member mentioned that what if both Shiv and Anandi meet with an accident and die?    

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