Posted: 07 January 2014 at 4:40pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by justbeinghuman
Originally posted by Prasai
di today the fist scene and shlok's restless made me think like suchi always say, shlok knows niranjan's truth behind the door. instead of being angry to anjali for making swati go out of his life, a small part of me says, his hate might be a show off as well as his anger that his mother did not stand by him, her kids.
anjali may be thinking that her kids do not know but in fact they know, hence shlok showing niranjan, niranjan's true ugly face by putting on niranjan's mask. showing him that this is the hidious face you are hiding from the word because people like niranjan, pretending so perfectly, often fail to see the evilness of thier own face...but i would not assert this point as yet because there is not much evidence shown as yet..
..living in the same house when Sojal can see, I can say the kids might have saw it too..that's why they don't know how to share back love has they never seen shades of loves..in different ways of be it parents primarily.
Shlok has secured his love NA accepted that his love of son is the first priority. Aastha tough is true in her way when pati love how can be she a Bahu. Adhikaar is by dharja of pati love.
Pati love made shlok jealous for Aastha kirloskar. He knows Aastha will be in comfort and will be seeking love..whereas shlok is feeling innerly bad drinking at gulp says more how rust rated and jealous he is..even moms love makes hubby jealous ..me an example too. Same way wife loves makes a father or mother in law jealous.the EBP way now..that's why the mirror has been broken..tow are same now..
Now father love satisfied and accepted sons first priority love is him.. But and it is true as blood is thicker than water.and it leads to worship be it in wrong.
Now shlok has to show EBP Aastha kirloskar that heart connections is higher..the inner heart is broken by kirloaksar love.
Yes kalandi is true and the way she gave support is reunion is true too..but her mom love didn't see the inner of shlok or Aastha yet..of Aastha own turmoil of doing good or bad as she saw shlok out side of the house in different way..yes ajju is right when hearts separate the desperate ness of connections will make them feel for each other...time heels.
Varad was true for Bhai and shlok accepts it but he felt jealous for varad love of Bhai that says more of jealousy..he wants Aastha at any cost he is a man and loved Aastha ..man when in love will reach to heights to bring their lady love..the thareeka alaag was wrong let's see how shlok will bring Aastha.
Loved cvs way of bringing mayake love over and none..jyothi was seeking mayake was sent home when she was really in trouble...where as Aastha mom add her stay in comfort as the truth is not known and trusted lie as thruth..truth of real love hidden ..
Loved cvs showing of varad and anajli one way of shlok..NA In between And the other abhay,sojal and jaya..jaya the society is hanging around a the track is in society issue.
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very aptly said, may i call you madhu, jealously encompass all relations, i have seen mom/dad getting jealous of daughter's/son's spouse because previously mom/dad was daughter's/son's world, now there is someone-spouse that has become more important to the daughter/son than mom/dad, so jealousy is there where there is emotional attachment (the higher the degree of emotional attachment the higher jealousy) whatever relation it is, human relations are very tricky. it then becomes very difficult for the daughter/son to juggle between both spousal/parental relations,
Kalindi is right now relating aastha's present with her past exprience, but she forgets that no two individuals are similar, there are always differences, she keeps on relating anjali with her ex mil from anjali's bitter talks, she fails to see anjali's intentions, anjali is different than her ex mil, anjali has not yet physically abused sojal or astha like shulbhatai, she in fact corrects sojal's and astha's behaviour to protect from NA (the sweet talker with evil intensions). kalindi keeps judging shlok and anjali from her past experience which is faulty, she should take present facts and then analyze and act becoming astha's mom. she is seeing herself as ashta right now (she should not become astha and anjali should not become her ex mil and shlok should not become her ex husband) which will lead to faulty hasty decisions from her side, i think she is being prejudiced in this case. aju is right when she said give some time, first understand the problem, find root cause, ask for facts and then go to the solution, instead of right away jumping to solutions that may not be relevant to the root cause of the problem.
Sure HONEY,call me MADHU DI feels connected..
Well said, no two individuals story or reality are same..neither character but characteristics can be in some carried from family..the well being and raising I say..kalandi insecurities have been haunting her and from beginning ..again once again nice comparision of shulbhathai and Anjali..for kalandi past..you have indepth in touch point. Yes anajli was or has been motivated by NA..as many elder still fallow their hubby and fallow their hubby..the behind person and intentions always mismatched. Anajali taunted by words but didn't go in extremes that says her nature..words may be harsher but actions says more.
Where as shulbhathai actions and words are true mask..and she all by herself and abuses jyothi for her own means again a different way of possessive to keep adhikaar in hand on son and daughter showing free to son..raising I say..kalandi has to know the real shlok then maybe NA.first the truth of shlok didn't do anything should be out to trust shlok..Then the question of why shlok did this will arise and may point to the real culprit who is behind.
Fast desicions in case of realtionships judgement is not suitable all the time ..sometimes time given or opportunity given the real love or truth will be out. If all being ex it wil be more hatred and no value of true love and the sun won't been seen for kavya..not only that..love means not only saying I love you it a factor of many attribute..I love u ,is a start saying the feelings..care and concern.attriaction,decication to commitment,leaning,seeking,procuring,and giving is love and it deepens as love seeks more ..the life runs and flows. Many can be added to virtue of loves as attributes of character and oe oneself add more.
Jealousy or possessive may be in not a fit. But can say a fit in together in heart love connected thru souls..she is mine and he is mine ,.a couple relationship is not shared by anyone..where's all relations-are shared that creates the one soul and all senses and in one of hearty and deep love..
Loving another means caring deeply for that person, being good to that person, wanting the best for that person, not using that person (not treating that person as a means) but treating him or her as an end in themselves. Loving another means learning how to be there, be stable, be invested in, be committed to another human being.Loving another person means learning how to be open, how to share oneself, how not to hide oneself, how to stay present, be very attentive.It is difficult to find the "right" person.It is just as difficult, if not even more so, to learn how to be the *right* person for a relationship.Most people are more focused on trying to find the right person rather than become the right type of person for a relationship.
Two sides of a coin..same seeking the best at the end of day or next day to balance and even..if not possessive my kids will not love me back,if not loving and possessive and giving I want be seeking from my hubby as all can't talk from heart or see inner.
Thank you for a wonderful post. You have the truth of true Realtionships. Like the words are easy to write or say but maintains them is tough, ones EXPEREINCE in flow of life makes one maintain and give more. Well written like your apt scripting and pointing skills. No deviation fully focused and attentive.