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Posted: 06 January 2014 at 9:42pm | IP Logged
Piu welcome to the forum and hats off to you and your husband for standing up for what you believed in.
I also understand the importance of a supportive partner as I also went from a liberal family to a conservative family. I am also a ambitious girl and post marriage it was my husband who had supported me so that I could enjoy a career of my choice.
As Geetha said we also get frustrated by Sandhya at times and are really really waiting to see Sooraj and Sandhya getting liberated from Bhabo. Believe me every DABHIAN in this forum wants it Big smile
 
My take is this for the liberation. When that happens neither Sooraj nor Sandhya should feel guilty about it. It has to be for a strong reason. I see 2 possibilites.
One is they have connected the lead pair with Ramayana , that means some question is going to come on Sandhya's chastity and that will be the breaking point for Sooraj to take a stand beside his wife as Bhabo might not want a bahu whose chastity is a question mark.
 
Another option is the 2nd DIL of Bhabo Meena the antagonist has done a Baby Swap in her greed to get a boy child. Sandhya is going to investigate this post training. Bhabo will be against arresting Meena. Sandhya might decide to resign from IPS post and Sooraj will ask her to stand by truth and arrest Meena and consequence of this both of them might have to walk out of their parivaar.
 
The story drags at points and the CVs have made many bloopers with respect to academic track and IPS track but from a story point they are in right track.
 


Edited by shruthiravi - 06 January 2014 at 9:40pm

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Posted: 06 January 2014 at 9:49pm | IP Logged
Nice Post.

Reading ur reply after a long time Umaji. Nice reply. 

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Posted: 06 January 2014 at 11:53pm | IP Logged
very nice post...agree with uma ji.

btw ur views r very nice.

to create more threads like this TM.

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Posted: 07 January 2014 at 12:05am | IP Logged
brilliant post piu...me too confused with the characters of this show aftr following this show for the last two weeks...there is no consistency in the characterization... a girl who dreamed to become an IPS officer from her childhood is not confident when she is just few meters away from her goal...

i really want to ask one more thing...the cv's showing tht sandhya is so dumb in cooking and housechore works...only good in studies and and have a brain to solve all the issues...so she is smart..isn't it...then why they r showing her so dumb in housechore works...hvn't she learned anything from her 2 year marrital life..n how come the younger bahu emily is so clever in all the housechore works...she even belong to another community but she is brilliant in managing the house compared to sandhya...how come she learned everything so fast...as i remember emily was a modern girl and it's like a magic to see a new emily completely different to her earlier life...why these unrealistic characterization creatives...


Edited by SanaJasmine - 07 January 2014 at 12:11am

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Posted: 07 January 2014 at 12:09am | IP Logged
Originally posted by manzilmukul

Originally posted by ..PT..

@m nice post!
@neil, n m 
Dabh is a complicated show, requires lots of complex thinking n mature understanding n sacrifices (our time), u can't just watch one epi n decide! 

I bet by the time agent Zakir finishes, u wld have become dabh fans! 

@Blue..
Well though the comment is not directed towards me but I will answer the MATURITY AND COMPLEXITY PART..I never thought I will but.. I will definitely share my own story..I am the bahu of a VERY CONSERVATIVE FAMILY..A family where Bahus were supposed to adorn pallus and not even sit near proximity of MIL's ,We even did purdah from our  MALE In laws...
my mother's home ,Yes I was a girl who belonged to a home where Women were LIBERAL..the transformation was too much to bear..But I will tell you what the REAL meaning of SACRIFICE means...My husband stood for me ,Stood up for anything that was WRONG AND REGRESSIVE..Not only for me but SETTING AN EXAMPLE FOR ALL THOSE COMING BAHUS OF OUR FAMILY.Believe me when I say it He loves his OWN mother more than ANYTHING IN THIS WORLD-YES MORE THAN SURAJ DOES.But just because FAMILY COMES FIRST he never bowed his HEAD TO WHAT WAS WRONG!!Honestly  my MIL understood ,she was reprimanded for all that was negative..THAT WAS NOT HURTING HER ...THAT WAS STANDING FOR WHAT WAS RIGHT...
I wear business suits to work.We are modern in every sense of the word not only in  thinking and treating women with respect but also focussing on warmth of emotions rather than burdening each other in the name of sanskaars

You won't believe but we live in different cities because I HAD DREAMS ...I HAD DREAMS which could be fulfilled in this way...
We had moments of apprehensions but HE ONLY SAYS ..YOU WILL FOLLOW YOUR DREAM NO MATTER WHAT??
This is what a HUSBAND STANDS FOR NOT ONLY WITH EACH OTHER BUT FOR EACH OTHER...

wow...piu...I'm just proud of u n jeeju...Hug

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Posted: 07 January 2014 at 1:15am | IP Logged
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Posted: 07 January 2014 at 1:36am | IP Logged
@Sana Sandhya is not dumb in household chores. She knows to do most things. But Bhabo had expected a DIL who is extremely efficient in household tasks. Sandhya is not that I mean a super efficient housewife. She has some flaws here and there. So the entire HG makes fun of even small small mistakes of Sandhya because they believe since she has aspirations outside family she is not a good housewife. And Bhabo mostly gets instigated by this and puts down Sandhya everytime. They are just showing the way the society treats a woman who has career ambitions and to our frustration sometimes they make her really dumb also to prove their point.
 
Coming to Emily. Her u-turn was unbelievable. But I have taken her as a lady who tries to adapt to new circumstances and reads the situation and reacts accordingly for her own benefit. Emily had married into the family under difficult circumstances. She was pregnant before marriage and her husband didnt accept her. She was not liked by Bhabo because she belonged to another community. So it was upto her she adjusted to the family for her benefit as well as that of child. Bhabo had expected her not at all jell with the family. But Emily is proving Bhabo wrong by trying to understand customs, performing all household tasks super efficiently. CVs aim was to tell do not hold prejudice against a person just because that person belongs to another community. Religion/caste does not decide how good or bad a person is. But instead of showing the progress of Emily realistically they just made a u-turn and made her super efficient to put their point across.

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Posted: 07 January 2014 at 2:08am | IP Logged
Originally posted by shruthiravi

@Sana Sandhya is not dumb in household chores. She knows to do most things. But Bhabo had expected a DIL who is extremely efficient in household tasks. Sandhya is not that I mean a super efficient housewife. She has some flaws here and there. So the entire HG makes fun of even small small mistakes of Sandhya because they believe since she has aspirations outside family she is not a good housewife. And Bhabo mostly gets instigated by this and puts down Sandhya everytime. They are just showing the way the society treats a woman who has career ambitions and to our frustration sometimes they make her really dumb also to prove their point.
 
Coming to Emily. Her u-turn was unbelievable. But I have taken her as a lady who tries to adapt to new circumstances and reads the situation and reacts accordingly for her own benefit. Emily had married into the family under difficult circumstances. She was pregnant before marriage and her husband didnt accept her. She was not liked by Bhabo because she belonged to another community. So it was upto her she adjusted to the family for her benefit as well as that of child. Bhabo had expected her not at all jell with the family. But Emily is proving Bhabo wrong by trying to understand customs, performing all household tasks super efficiently. CVs aim was to tell do not hold prejudice against a person just because that person belongs to another community. Religion/caste does not decide how good or bad a person is. But instead of showing the progress of Emily realistically they just made a u-turn and made her super efficient to put their point across.
yeahh..ok...thnx for clearing my confusion..Hug.yeahh...babho expects more from sandhya...but sometimes  i felt sandhya acts so dumb... just my opinion...Smile

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