Originally posted by: No2Pencil
When a guy approaches a girl, at that instant she decides if she's interested in him or not yes! partially rite, depends on girl too, Looks does matter -- yes it does but only this matter --NO, not at all..and there would be boys , how much drop - dead gorgeous they would be but when they open their mouth you wanna run..So yes i would be interested in good looking men but dat doesn't cut out the chance of not so good looking men either..i would give equal chance to both. and what all she can see is the looks, and that's what interests her.[/quote]
But you're NOT going to look into his personality unless he has a minimum standard in looks. And that standard is good looking for most girls. And that's the no.1 reason you're still single -- fear of cheating is an excuse; you'll go gaga and all willing to date a good looker.
Guys too reject based on personality if she's unbearable.
[quote]If the guy is average/ugly, interest is never going to be sparked and she'll never sustain the conversation so the guy has to quit. He has to accept the rejection, there's nothing he can do. -- hmm, again Looks matter initially..whats more terrible is when guy does verbal diarrhea and has no sense of talking...so if guy is average and he is funny and can talk properly it would totally make me hook. I have no problem in talking 😃. If guy is kinda reserved of course i would try my best to put in convo to see if he is genuinely interested or not.[/quote]
That never happens... they never get a chance! The girl just doesn't open her mouth!
Good looking guys need not be funny. They just need to be average to get any girl they like AND I'VE SEEN IT.
[quote]Rejection based on personality happens later on but if you're not able to strike a conversation cause the girl does not 'like' him (what it means here is that the girl does not like the guy's looks), you're never going to enter the 1st phase even. Dats true tho', I agree if u can't strike the convo with full efforts, most prolly person is not interested. Time to search a new one.[/quote]
Full effort?
[quote]So it's 50% about looks. 10% in my books 😆
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