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jonee

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Posted: 10 years ago

dsr - hey, i also am not happy with the education and success bit posted out there - so what if someone found success without completing their education - they did find success didnt they?

and their lucky they did without having to go thru the grind - not many are so fortunate😊

and as far as this actors lives are concerned etc, each one to their own - its not actors or actresses alone who have one or more relationships - it happens everywhere in the real world - and there is nothing wrong if circumstances indicate that one does not want to carry on - its better than getting married, having kids and then realising you dont want to live with each other - and people do make mistakes - everyone is human😊 and also it does not mean that they are not from good familes- there can be no generalisations to anything - particularly nowadays😊

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Posted: 10 years ago

This content was originally posted by: jonee
dsr - hey, i also am not happy with the education and success bit posted out there - so what if someone found success without completing their education - they did find success didnt they?
and their lucky they did without having to go thru the grind - not many are so fortunate😊
and as far as this actors lives are concerned etc, each one to their own - its not actors or actresses alone who have one or more relationships - it happens everywhere in the real world - and there is nothing wrong if circumstances indicate that one does not want to carry on - its better than getting married, having kids and then realising you dont want to live with each other - and people do make mistakes - everyone is human😊 and also it does not mean that they are not from good familes- there can be no generalisations to anything - particularly nowadays😊

Live-in is a better option according to me than constant fighting, divorce, extra marital affairs. If not anything else, there is atleast more freedom and truthfulness in such a relationship.

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bingyy

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Posted: 10 years ago

This content was originally posted by: nostalgic_soul

I truly love u for this post!U have stated the facts so maturely and awesomely!Things u have stated are completely true,I also wish for only the bestesttt things for this soo much sweeet ,china doll girl like her!she is a beautiful soul in and out with a brilliant background in studies and belongs to a consrvative family!She can defffo do much much better!
It's jst tht sometimes we love the couples soo much tht this kind of thoughts comes even without our desire!

thank u ,particularly i like the fact that time & time   again shrenu made it clear that she shares strictly professional relationship with her co actors & that chemistry comes from respect ,that just means that she is very smart lady & she   respects & values herself very much & whether opposite person is attracted or not ,she is definitely not interested ,mostly because most male actors in the industry r like bees ,i dont know how to put it anymore nicely ,
& honestly any female actors who like these kind of advances from costar (with due respect ) & ready to have live in relationships or already had been in live in relationship with male actor are normally    had been in live in relationship (previously) before   they come in to the media ,so these things are normal for   them ,(just search the google with the name & u will know exactly about what   i am talking about ) ,as they are used to the idea ,so far i dont get any vibe like that from shrenu & she made it very clear     & so i salute her for that ,woh din gaye jab actors when they used to like each other ,married each other instantly or dated each other normally like any other normal couples without having any live in arrangements .
it doesnt matter how many shows ,concerts u do with ur costar in country or foreign & u do have live in relationships    with these excuse that show hai ,concert hai & then boom , after shows ,concert ends ,relationships end ,these things    dont go with indian   culture , may be in hollywood .
& waise bhi ,most guy who no matter how many years    had been in live in relationships doesnt want to get seriously involved or get married   to a girl who already had been in live in relationship ,thats the way (hypocrisy i know ) world males work on .

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Operaqueen

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Posted: 10 years ago

This content was originally posted by: jonee
dsr - hey, i also am not happy with the education and success bit posted out there - so what if someone found success without completing their education - they did find success didnt they?
and their lucky they did without having to go thru the grind - not many are so fortunate😊
and as far as this actors lives are concerned etc, each one to their own - its not actors or actresses alone who have one or more relationships - it happens everywhere in the real world - and there is nothing wrong if circumstances indicate that one does not want to carry on - its better than getting married, having kids and then realising you dont want to live with each other - and people do make mistakes - everyone is human😊 and also it does not mean that they are not from good familes- there can be no generalisations to anything - particularly nowadays😊

true that Jonee Ji! We are somehow made to believe that one has to end up forever with your first love,. Good if you do, but even if you do not it is not a bad thing. People change all the time,so what seemed like a ideal relationship at one point may not be perfect anymore.

Edited by Operaqueen - 10 years ago

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Operaqueen

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Posted: 10 years ago

This content was originally posted by: dsr11

Live-in is a better option according to me than constant fighting, divorce, extra marital affairs. If not anything else, there is atleast more freedom and truthfulness in such a relationship.

I agree with you Rekha better a happy live in relationship than a unhappy marraige. and getting married does not make people morally or ethically better. Extra marital affairs are a proof of that.

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bingyy

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Posted: 10 years ago

This content was originally posted by: dsr11
@bingyy
i agree with you about how awesome Shrenu and her parents are.

Disagree that all other actresses/actors are from good-for-nothing, uncaring families. if someone chooses not to earn degrees but still is able to find success and happiness in life, whats wrong with it?

oops sorry for double post ,

Edited by bingyy - 10 years ago

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bingyy

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Posted: 10 years ago

This content was originally posted by: bingyy

no no ,dont take me wrong 😆,,
i m not saying they r good for nothing 😆,at the end success matters , but mostly they dont have option for any other profession ,like media industry is very tough ,things changes & fluctuates mostly for all actors ,if they have shows for 5 years ,then for next 4 years they may dont have any , things like that ,
its not they have uncaring parents ,they have definitely caring parents may be ,but may be media actors dont count their parents say (if they have any) particularly to the fact to have live in relationships.because these kind of relationships are very risky specially in showbiz ,just that actors move on quickly.

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jonee

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Posted: 10 years ago

OQ ji - hi there

abso true abt relationships - thats the way it is and only time reveals/ everything - its the way of life😊

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dsr11

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Posted: 10 years ago

This content was originally posted by: bingyy

no no ,dont take me wrong 😆,,
i m not saying they r good for nothing 😆,at the end success matters , but mostly they dont have option for any other profession ,like media industry is very tough ,things changes & fluctuates mostly for all actors ,if they have shows for 5 years ,then for next 4 years they may dont have any , things like that ,
its not they have uncaring parents ,they have definitely caring parents may be ,but may be media actors dont count their parents say (if they have any) particularly to the fact to have live in relationships.because these kind of relationships are very risky specially in showbiz ,just that actors move on quickly.

That's where you and I differ bingyy *shake hands*. My slogan- 'at the end happiness matters'

When you're an adult you can take advise from anyone(including parents) but act according to your mind/heart. That way even if something goes wrong you won't blame someone else for it. If you think marriages are safer and happier than live-ins then I would just say that statistics scream the opposite.

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bingyy

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Posted: 10 years ago

its just that i dont get the vibe from shrenu that she wants to be in live in relationship, yes if my favourite couple date offscreen i would be happy & more than happy if that survives , i just dont want any bashing for shrenu without any reasons if she is having just friendly professional relationship with her costar ,as a fan i simply dont like the fact when fans of particular jodi is sooo bother about shrenu's relationship status or her answer ,its not like she makes or breaks anythings ,its like if shrenu is single so things are ok ,if not then its like world is finished for particular fans , so far she made it clear that she is professional ,if fans want to bark ,then they are targetting wrong trees.

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