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Sweetz Goldie

Joined: 12 August 2005
Posts: 1891

Posted: 28 August 2005 at 11:34pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by uma_shanmugam

marriages are made in heaven Smile. Does anyone agree with me on that? Those who are spiritual would agree. As we sometimes meet many people in our daily life and sometimes have interest on. But only with one special person we feel to live life long. Marriages can be love or arranged. Long back majority are arranged marriage. The pros & cons are when its arranged marriage, the parents check out all the information prior making the marriage arrangement. Love marriage is decided by both who love each other. Not all arranged marriage are happily lived and nor all love marriages breaks half way thru. So its all depends on how a person seriously take responsible of the marriages and commitments too. Compramising over small arguments and etc.. In arranged marriages, they bound more over respects and etc as its family decision, couple tend to fall in love after marriageg and life continous. In love marriage they get to know each other and marriages starts as bound of commitments. So as a summay both love or arranged marriages goes success only whn the person who are engaged to it try to make it happily travel in the journey of marriages. Embarrassed

Clap i agree with u.. it is fate.. who u marry.. and as far as love ora rranged marriage goes im for both i dun mind any and my family doesnt either.. n ur rt it does depend on the ppl n how much they are willing to compromise and understand eachother

uma_shanmugam Senior Member

Joined: 16 August 2005
Posts: 381

Posted: 28 August 2005 at 11:50pm | IP Logged
Thanks Sweetz,

If arranged marriage, then fall in love wit spouse and make if more merrier... if love marriage then, start with commitments seriously and stay on loving. Loving together, shouldering responsibilites together and growing older together something amazing.. keywords are compramise and show more love Tongue
pratyusha_gupta Newbie

Joined: 25 August 2005
Posts: 35

Posted: 29 August 2005 at 4:09am | IP Logged
hi alisa
        good topic for discussion.and i think its really very difficult to decide which one is the better love marriage is better than arrange marriage or is arrange marriage is better than love marriage.

and i think both has his own charm and importance.if both marriages are succesful for the respective couples then their marriage is always best.but if somehow it is unsuccesful then choice will always be the another one.isn't it.
and moreover marriages are made in how and in what way it will happen in our coming future, we can't say.
punjabiprincess Senior Member

Joined: 26 February 2005
Posts: 658

Posted: 29 August 2005 at 10:21am | IP Logged

Originally posted by sharanb

i dont mean to be negative but almost everybody in india has arranged marraiges and they hardly get divorces (i think) and people in the west mostly get love marraiges and we have the biggest divorce rates in the world

That is a good point, and I agree with you. Wink

fatty1 Goldie

Joined: 08 January 2005
Posts: 1643

Posted: 29 August 2005 at 5:53pm | IP Logged
at least you get to have a best friend! LOL
infiniteattract IF-Rockerz

Joined: 19 August 2005
Posts: 6357

Posted: 30 August 2005 at 5:08am | IP Logged
I think it really doesnt matter. Arranged or luv any marriage stands on understanding, trust and compromise to some level. So if u can do al these both will be succesful.

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