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Now Ami coming to selflessness and gratitude part. Now we are saying Sooraj sacrificied selflessly for Sandhya's dream and Sandhya in gratitude wants to re-wed and most probably consummate the marriage. Let me give another perspective
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Sandhya had sacrificied her dream for her marriage when she decided to not go back with her brother as well as not take the divorce route. She decided to love her husband when she came back with him post accident, in addition to that she supported him in becoming a confident young man by taking him through WTC. Was that not selflessness. Did she expect anything in return. Even when DSPs wife ask her in the party for studies or even when Ankur compels her to speak to Sooraj about her dream she says that part is over and her responsibilities are changed.
So cant we say Sooraj after knowing about his wife's dream has decided to support and sacrifice for her as part of his gratitude for accepting him for what he is.
So selflessness and gratitude can change from whose perspective you are looking at. I would say let us keep things like selflessness and gratitude apart in the marital relationship. Let us see whether the action of the spouse is beneficial to the couple as a whole in long run. I mean are the actions taken into account by the " me" factor or the " we" factor. I would say instead of pondering upon sacrifice, selflessness, gratitude etc.. spouses should understand and accept their differences and support each other in achieving mutual goals so that in the long run it is not only beneficial for them but also for the kids as only parents in a mutually respected and satisfied relationship can raise kids who will work for the betterment of not only family but also of the society.
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