Originally posted by: charminggenie
Umm Don't think I agree with that Hades. The definition that you have given is way dated. The times and the situations it was made were different. This was never meant to be all about men, if you go by the folk tales that are exchanged during this festival , you would understand that all women talk are about themselves how Queen X and other women kept this fast when their husbands left for war. It was a choice then too! if you look at the actual Pooja, its always about the society women gathering together and exchanging that moment. This day was created to let them bond over a simple fact that their husbands have gone for long periods of war time.Society and the festival itself has made it clear that its end or evolution is in an individual's hand. The choice if keeping it together or not observing it, is very much open to all. So I really don't see it as an inequality!
If the emphasis in history was bonding when men were away at war, then why did fasting become a focal point. Why did it spread to all women instead of wives of soldiers? Why didn't men start sharing the fast till recent times?
The present day festival is one of choice. But also one of unfair peer pressure a lot of times. We cannot deny that the history and roots despite free will have heavy patriarchal influences. It may not be a social evil. It may be one of choice. But that doesn't mean we cannot acknowledge that it is still lopsided and can be improved.
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