Originally posted by city-musings
Did I watch another show called the vampire diaries or what are you saying? Damon clearly NEVER told Elena that Stefan was the better choice he just said that he's the better brother, he'd have never gone off to Elena and say 'Stefan's the better one, stay with him' blahblahblah because that'd lower his chances of being with Elena. When by God's sake did Stefan claim that Damon was the wrong choice? Maybe the compelled Stefan might have said that but he did that to push her away. To let go. Don't twist the facts around.
Stefan on the other hand can you blame him for having negative thoughts about his brother? The guy killed his best-friend, and has done what not. Forcing him turn was selfish yes but Stefan admitted to that and he apologized to Damon something that Damon has never done I mean for crying out loud he justified killing Lexie because of 'his guilt' and to top it all off when Stefan and Elena broke up Damon wasn't even sorry, and on the other hand Stefan said 'I'm not happy about Elena, but I'm not not happy for you either' Stefan was going to remove himself out of the equation he was going to leave that is something that Damon Salvatore has never done. If you want to compare both the brothers, you know I can mention a LOT of things which Damon did to Elena, Stefan, Lexie, Bonnie, Caroline, Matt, Jeremy and who not. But I ain't got enough time for that. The only thing is the way Stefan redeemed himself for everything horrible he was and how Damon did nothing for his actions.
Elena is no longer a person and yet people who ship them pretend to be Elena stans it's like please. People love Elena only as long as she's pleasing her Damon. Damon won't ever walk away because he's not a good person. Stefan is and will forever be the superior choice. I never say Damon doesn't deserve love but the thing is why is it that people only recognize Damon's heartbreak? The only difference is that Katherine told Damon from the very beginning that she wanted them both, she never led him on. He knew exactly what he was walking into. Elena on the other hand continuously told Stefan that he had nothing to worry about. The only reason he allowed himself to fall so deeply for her was because he thought that she loved him and him alone, but had he known? He would have walked away. If we want to get technical about it, shouldn't we be sympathizing with Stefan more? But no, somehow because Damon was rejected once, people think that it's completely okay for him to then put his own little brother through that pain so that he can gain his own happiness. I don't follow that logic and I never will.
Now this here is only to state the point that Elena isn't the only one to be blamed. People act like Damon was oh so innocent and wicked Elena lured or seduced him in to her. That just pisses me off. Loving a character doesn't mean you agree with every little or stupidity they do. You don't worship at their altar.
Damon told Elena that he was wrong for her and so did Stefan. That is a fact. But I think Damon did wrong things but thats because he never found love, he was still hurt over Katherine and he had fallen for Elena but he NEVER left because he cared about Stefan and Elena. He loved Elena. But he never tried to separate them! No one, and I repeat, no one in TVD is a saint.
Elena is just so irritating. See, she loved Stefan. Stefan had nothing to worry about but then what happened? She realises she is in love with Damon? I mean SERIOUSLY? 😕 It was so random!
And now suddenly she wants Stefan to remember her too 😲 Just for her own needs? Now she'll tell damon that she's changed. She doesn't love him. she loves Stefan! I genuinely think that Elena needs to get her brains back. She needs to decide dude. This is so stupid!
If she cared about Stefan shouldn't she try and protect him from all the pain he's been through. Wouldn't she want him to move on? But NO. Miss G wants both the brothers to remember her and love her and want her while she can keep switching between the two. Don't you think?
So who is selfish here? Damon? Stefan? Or ELENA?
Who is wrong? Elena. She has lost everyone she cares about and yet just wants the two brothers to love her? She CLEARLY led Stefan on in yesterday's episode.
And about Damon. I don't think he is always right but at this point, he is right. If your love comes and tells you that she loves you, you wont send her away! Damon has loved her for far too long to move on. He has ALWAYS taken care of Stefan, Elena and the others. He thinks differently, not wrongly. He has his own point of views. They are different, not wrong.
Edited by DoNotDisturb - 10 years ago