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Originally posted by: sashashyamLashy dear, please do NOT say They are BOTH. She is no begum. She is a terminally stupid, cerebrally challenged little twit from a tinpot little riyasat, who needs to be taught a very sharp lesson. When, how and by whom I do not know. Of course it is not going to happen.
Don't you see what the CVs have done? They have buried any chance of real magic in this relationship for good. It is now never going to be the kind of love I described again and again and again recently.
I am going off the air for the rest of this week. I need a break from both this serial and this forum.
But I still love you, despite your incomprehensible BOTH.
Shyamala Aunty
His expressions 1 second after the tirade compelled me to put 'both' instead of Jodha alone...She's slipped...but, he's slipping too...and if not the CVs I don't know who else to blame! Because, I know PS and RT are capable of far more than this!
I'll paste here what I wrote elsewhere...
One receives as much disrespect as one allows! We've learnt that Jodha is never going to change - not any time soon! If saving her life (and NOT blaming her for her mistakes) has not brought about changes, I don't know what else will. What I fail to understand is what exactly has she done NOW, that HE'S changing so drastically? Is it the lack of female company at Amer that's getting to him?
Many state that he is giving Jodha all that leverage because he gets a kick out of her behaviour and he is attracted to her. I ask, which emperor would take it all in stride and stand back quietly. People will take this person for a ride if they got drift of the fact that this is how he behaved with his loved ones (or people he was attracted to). The closer circle surrounding him will work this weakness of the Emperor to their advantage - pretend to like/love him just so they could be in his good books - and then misuse it (far more than the serial Ruqs or MA)! He is a born Royal - born to believe he's the leader. For such a man, there is only so much even he can take from the one he loves most!
[If the 'love' angle is what everyone's about then why does even the most docile of us get annoyed with our mother/husband (whoever it is we loved most) if they humiliated us in front of our friends...do we just stand back and smile like we were watching something amusing? Then, why is Jalal doing so? Wasn't he the most powerful man then? Wasn't his respect partially responsible for keeping his forces/people/subject under control - at least for that sake, I wish he took her to task for challenging him time and again]
So, what if he loves her? So what if my man loves me? I have so much more respect for him only because he doesn't take such nonsense from me! He knows to stand up for himself if I might cross the line! One doesn't have to be abusive for that - one just needs self-respect! The least Jalal could have done was walk away - instead we get to see his Majnu avtaar in the very next scene. Jalal has to be THE MAN! He can be a guy who would do ANYTHING for the sake of his loved ones when needed, and yet will NOT take nonsense from anyone when unjustified too! That is quite how he was until I think the entire Mohan fiasco. Suddenly, that Jalal is missing.
Today, he briefly he snapped at her and then again next scene he's back to watching nari-thya? Only because he gives her so much space does she treat him like that...if he didn't allow that, she would think twice before blurting out such! (Like how she was for a few episodes post that suicide attempt)
Therefore, today I've decided to blame Jalal just as much as Jo...like how society blames the PARENT for a child turning into a spoilt brat (possibly more than the child itself!) 😛
Yes, I still love them both...
However, today I feel like I have lesser right than the other day to compel you to watch or to stay back for our sakes...💔Yet, I'd plead with you to visit the forum - even if you don't watch the episodes - even if you don't want to analyze - but, for our sakes!
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