Originally posted by -ForeverYours-
Color coding your argument for the ease of mine:
Every time they are showing Assad and zoya hug , that too after marriage. If not elders, at least Assad and zoya are grown ups. What is that they want to express which they can't speak out or express.
Behaving this way after marriage in public, they are conforming every viewerthat their is no love in them, just lust is pulling each other. It's better both zoya and Assad book a room and have sex and get over each other. I am sure next morning they can't even stand each other presence. Such a disgusting couple.
Showing all this they are insulting the marriage institution completely.
Cvs plz take care what you show to audience. Just playing mitwa bg music you cannot create any love magic while showing such type of romance. It's become laughing stock
1. Alright, first and foremost let me get this straight. This "holy institution of marriage" is essentially nothing but a contract for the sake of the judgmental societies present in this pitiful Earth. From the eyes of a couple, marriage is just an emblem the lifelong commitment they made to each other, it can only exists between two people who love each other and are willing to make that commitment to each other. So how is hugging Asad an insult to the marriage institution when A. that "institution" doesn't even EXIST between Zoya and Ayaan when there is no love between them to even call that a marriage and B. Zoya LOVES Asad and a nikah-nama, wedding rings, or 7 pheras can never come above love. Those things only hold value when love is present. So yeah, just seeing how affectionately "marriage institution" was thrown around as justification for the argument, I couldn't get into my main point without clearing this up.
I think you too know very well its a contract and legal contracts has its own principles. Love is a complete different aspect. Take this one at a time. either be in love or be in marriage, you cannot be in between. Even if you are acting for some time, do the acting 100%, why mix both and ruin both. I dont deny that Love is above all . But in this so called world there should be some lines drawn to keep it clean, else you know the concept of what live in relationships and what are the pros and cons of it.
2. First of all the elders they hugged in front of, please, if everyone started giving shits about people like them humankind is all said and done for. "I need to kill Hrithik Roshan's wife so I can get married to him? Why? Because Razia did that to get married to Gafoor?" See how much sense that makes? So please, these elders are not even worth discussing. As for love vs. lust--Asad and Zoya love each other and if you can't see that after 11 or so months, then I can't help you there. The most I can do in that case is suggest that you rewatch the show. When they hugged before the stupidity of this track, it was oh-so-romantic and lovey-dovey. And now just because she's "married" to someone she doesn't even love, the emotions and reasons behind the hugs changed into lust? With all due respect, how can a nikha-nama be given the right to change the name of the one emotion above all that makes us human? And since when did a hug become a sexual gesture? Regardless, they aren't trying to express anything, they are just finding comfort in each other, that's what two people in love do especially when they are going through a difficult phase. Their "lust" is not cheapening the "Institution of Marriage" rather the label of "lust" and suggestions like "booking a room in a hotel for a one night stand" are cheapening the feeling and essence of love.
Maybe I just a big fan of common sense.
Who is denying they are not lovers, And dont just rubbish elders so easily. It was all good before she is not into this acting. but now things are in different turn, Hug is not a sexual gesture, but it can be seen that way by others around, its a fact when everyone knows that they both are lovers.
And true lovers dont need to do all these in my pov. And its not correct to show that way thats why my post is also meant for CVs to read. I dont know what Gul wants to convey to audience.