Balika Vadhu - Written Update - Oct 5/13- From Bad to Worse

Shekhars play placating the princess - they try to feed Silly her favorite foods.  She finally eats a bit then refuses when bhabhi offers more sandwhich.  Daddu wants to take her for outing.  

Ganges ironing Daktarsa's shirt.  He asks why she is doing it herself instead of giving it to washer?  She says it is only work she can do as they won't let her do anything else.  J tells her they need to move elsewhere after wedding & he's spoken to purohit about marriage in temple.  Ganga says with the creation of one relationship others will be broken.  This is not right.  J says this relationship got created the moment he placed Sindoor on her forehead.  Also, that Basant is with them and has blessed JaGan union.  Jagya says eventually all in the family will accept them.

The family decide to go to mandir for puja because they have been invited to some maha-aarati by panditji.

Sanchi's friends come to visit her and speak with Ira, who informs them she is drowning in grief.

Shiv wants to bring case against Jagya.  Anandi drops the glass she brought to the room.  She tries to tell Shiv that this is a situational wrong and J was not at fault.  Shiv says he did same thing to you & Gauri.  Anandi defends J and says he has changed.  Shiv says he has not changed and can't believe A is siding with her.  A says she is not on anyone's side.  She accepts that J's actions has hurt others, but J did what he thought was everyone's best interests.  That J realized this relationship was not right for SaJa because their outlooks are very different.  Shiv says he realized this at the cusp of marriage not before...he didn't think about the impact of his mind change on everyone.  Anandi says she cares for both families... that J made efforts to make the match work... Shiv says J didn't make efforts, Sa made all efforts.  A tries to explain that it looked like Sa was changing then...Shiv questions about her thinking then vis a vis now.  A says everytime she thought Sa had changed, she would see something that would make her doubt Sa was genuinely changing...Shiv asks Y she thinks Sa was not genuine.  A thinks there are many little things like Sa bribing pandit to get date of her choice for wedding.  Shiv asks why A didn't tell him this b4...A says Sa is her own too and she wanted to give Sa another chance.  Shiv asks clean Q - who she thinks is right for J - G or S?  A says that Sa is not appropriate for J or the Singhs.  Shiv says if this what you thought then why maintain silence?  What was she waiting for - the humiliation of Sanchi and the family? 

VO:  Sometimes even deepthinking people don't go to the depth of the problem...and end up hurting those they love.  

Precap:  Silly ka Soocide😆 while JaGan taking pheras.  

what an apt title 👍🏼

It was a good episode. Liked the AnSh convo. Looking forward to see how this track proceeds.

 

Precap: Sa's own mother has declared that she doesnt want to maintain any relation with the singh family. But Sa is quite sure.. that she will cut her wrist and her mom will run back to singhs 🤢

that sanchi is really very pathetic and a very unlucky girl

i mean her family loves her the most n so much but she hardly respect 

and cherish the love given by her family  ( agree she has been a spoilt child)

she is so rude with anandi but still anandi doesn't bother her rudeness n let go it 😵

i really want sanchi's true colors to come out in front of whole shekhar

family  ASAP and she should get the same treatment what anandi is going through right now 😈 

missed the episode but ansh's convo or argument looks good...shiv is somewhat right that anandi should have told it to someone(dadisa, shiv or maybe bhairon)...she should have told it to shiv and even told him what she wants to do about it...if she would have requested shiv would not have said anything to anyone

shiv wants to case a file against jagya...for what? jagya was clear about breaking marriage with saanchi...he did not betrayed her and kept any secret relation with ganga...that was bad ...can one case a file just for breaking an engagement?...now saanchi will attempt suicide and shiv will definitely file a case against jagya and he may even use his power to make the case stronger and even his wife's past...from the update and few comments it seems shiv was using very rude words and twisting every thing anandi did 

jagan scene must be good...rest looks nonsense...who wants to see the barbie doll gets pampered by her family...we know the results and don't want to see the crime happening 🤢

I enjoyed AnSh convo. Shiv was bang on with all his questions to Anandi. These are the same questions forum members had asked regarding A's behaviour.

I actually enjoyed both yesterday and today's episode. 

The questions asked by Bhairon to J, and Shiv to Anandi, are the same doubts / facts,  that were discussed by forum members regarding J & A.

I thoroughly enjoyed Shiv's fiery avtaar and sharpness in his thoughts today. 

Same precap fron 3 episodes...Enough cvs😡