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who is wrong Prachi or Sanchi?

ApoorvaFan Goldie

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Posted: 19 September 2013 at 10:16am | IP Logged
In the last 2 to 3 episodes we are seeing again and again how Prachi is behaving in a selfish way.. she is not understanding the view point of the family and she even told apology to Sunil that her family behaved badly...
sometimes I feel, if real parents are there, they can be hard at times when required but when someone else is trying to wear parents shoes, they tend to be over caring and protective.
Sanchi is not teaching Prachi what is right or wrong. Instead of putting her foot down, she is trying to adjust/oblige every thing in the name of making Prachi happy.
Tomorrow more issues will crop up due to Sunil;s family and Prachi will support them only by putting Sanchi under pressure.
Is it Sanchi;s over protective nature and trying  to be a good parent though she is a sibling and not a parent, the root cause for all this?
Did sanchi fail in bringing up her siblings with more responsibility and ability to understand the family ?
is it Prachi's inherent nature or Sanchi trying to be good mom syndrome... what is the major issue here?

Edited by ApoorvaFan - 22 September 2013 at 10:05pm

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soapbubble IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 19 September 2013 at 11:10am | IP Logged
It's true that Saachi has spoilt her siblings a little, but see the diff between Prachi and Addu - he is more considerate, more loving and caring than Prachi.
It also matters how a person is - Saachi has bigdaaoed them slightly by doing more than her share but beyond a point it's up to the person also.

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..geeth.. IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 19 September 2013 at 11:11am | IP Logged
I think its Prachi's inherent nature to be insensitive towards her family and being selfish. Ermm I dont think its entirely Saachi's fault. She is over protective but there were moments were Saachi tried to make Prachi more responsible and treat her grand mothers well.  

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ak75 IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 19 September 2013 at 12:08pm | IP Logged
Good point. Grandparents and siblings can fulfill the role of parents only to a certain extent. When parents put their foot down and refuse something we accept it thinking that they are doing so for our good. 
If Sanchi objects then Prachi will create a huge scene.DV gave Sanchi a good advice when he said to think what their father would have done in the same situation. Sanchi is trying her best to be a good parent and sister to her siblings.  Prachi on her part is not understanding Sanchi's limitations. She is after all her sister and only few years older and not her mother.
Prachi is insensitive , selfish and thinks only of her future. Sanchi is selfless and protects them too much which is also not required. So its 50-50. Both have to change.

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hinz Viewbie

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Posted: 19 September 2013 at 1:05pm | IP Logged

Saachi has spoilt the kids a little but thats not her fault, she is afterall taking care of all matters and had to play mum to both her siblings from a very young age...Prachi cant see anything beyond herself and thats her nature, though her attitude can be tamed, her inherent selfish nature doesnt let her consider anything else apart from her own needs...Saachi is being submissive in this case coz she hasnt married and the fear of the same happening to her little sister bothers her greatly.

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ApoorvaFan Goldie

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Posted: 19 September 2013 at 11:51pm | IP Logged
Soapbubble, geetu, ak75 and Hina,
Thank you for responding.. Like you all mentioned Prachi;s selfish nature is a major cause for this at the same time, even Sanchi is trying to be a good mom... which is adding to the situation.

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Heema22 IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 20 September 2013 at 6:55pm | IP Logged
I am glad you made this post . I was thinking about this issue too.who is wrong and who is right ? Is Sachi making choice between what's right and what's easy ? Or she is a sibling and trying very hard to be parents which is very hard to do . Prachi is spoiled child doesn't understand disappointments  is part of your life. Sachi needs to know its impossible to protect  Prachi against disappointment in life. If she is thinking that she is Prachi's parent then Her primary job as a parent is to prepare Prachi  for how the world really works. In the real world, you don't always get what you want . Sachi needs to know that Prachi doesn't have to love you every minute of every day. She'll get over the disappointment of having been told "no." But she won't get over the effects of being spoiled.One painful duty fulfilled makes the next plainer and easier.
   As my experience , I accept that there is no right or wrong . There is many ways to see same situation . But in this situation Prachi need to evaluate Prachi's demands before she goes out of her way and capability to fulfill them .

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Bhavi03 IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 20 September 2013 at 10:39pm | IP Logged
offcourse saanchi is very much over protective...but i dont think that it's her fault..she lost her parents and she very well know the imp of parents in upbringing of children...she does notwant prachi and adduu to suffer from any kind of she is lit bit overprotective towards them...fault in this case here is of prachi only,she is not understanding imp of her tai in her life..Ouch i mean prachi is not a kid she is a grown up girl..she knows very well what sacrifices saachi has given to make their life better.. Ouchi hope dhruv plays a imp role in making prachi understood the imp of saachi in their life Embarrassed 

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