Umaji these things need actual practice. Sandhya I dont think would have observed Bhabo doing these things. I mean she doesnt have any basic interest towards it. I can understand that. So it is good that she is learning things the hard way. She will learn, defo she will learn.
To be frank it is difficult to learn in RM with a bhabo like person hovering over you. Bhabo would be shouting criticizing and it is very difficult to apply your free mind with such a person around. You will always be tensed. But in SSM though she is stupid now, she will understand her mistakes and here it is only Sooraj. He will not shout or criticize at her mistake but def will make her understand her mistake in a gentle way and support her in a positive way to correct it.
It has been my personal experience. Because of my mom's extreme critical nature as well as my lack of interest I had never entered kitchen. Everyone had excepted me to be a flop in managing kitchen. But once I was out of house and started living in apartment with friends I learned things that too through mistakes only. I manage kitchen, grocery and all very well now, but for that still I need independance. If I see my mom around dont know still I am afraid π and I will allow her to do it.
@shobi telling you can make papad sabji and actually doing that are too different things. You can always tell others how things needs to be done. Trying doing it. As you said taking a list and going and doing things all alone are difficult things. I know when we were in apartment the tension we used to have. I still remember the first burnt bindi fry we had or the salty dal or half boiled rice. Grocery less said the better. Quantity would be either less or more. Thankfull all 3 of us were equally stupid. ππππ
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