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Balika Vadhu Written Update 19/8/2013 (Page 7)

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Posted: 20 August 2013 at 2:02am | IP Logged
Why Ganga was crying is a very rude question.Why will she not cry!She was living in this place for so many days.He is going for three years,she doesn't know she will ever come back here or not and I don't think ganga has any intentions to come back in jaitser.That means she is leaving forever but she couldn't see a single person who meant a lot for her.Jagya didn't talk to her also avoided her for almost 10 days and its a huge thing to bear.She knew only because of her Jagya said he will not go to manglore and he was upset which was visible.Nothing good happened with her that she will leave the place happily and tears will be happy tears.Luckily and unexpectedly she got a family where members were ready to sacrifice their life but now she is all alone.Also the person she loves and adores is going to be engaged with another person.Engagement means marriage is definitely going to happen its another thing that jagya might call off the marriage after the engagement but ganga doesn't know that.

Ganga is in love and she confessed in front of the mirror how can I give my happiness to someone else.But the great quality of ganga is she managed herself beacause she is not selfish.She would have thought expressing her feelings to Jagya if the same day she realized her feelings,jagya wouldn't have said yes to sanchi.That same day ganga drew the line because she is a woman who has immense self respect.She accepted that jagya is not for her,jagya said yes to sanchi that means jagya belongs to sanchi not her.She can't start planning and plotting to get jagya because in ganga's case thats the only way to get jagya.So she decided to ignore her feelings which is difficult to the core but ganga succeeded and how!

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Posted: 20 August 2013 at 2:41am | IP Logged
That way we can question why anandi cried so much at her divorce too. LOLLOL
 
She had already been  divorced through circumstances  from Jagya for such a long time.  Did the final signing of the legal document really mean anything at that point?

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Posted: 20 August 2013 at 3:49am | IP Logged
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That way we can question why anandi cried so much at her divorce too. LOLLOL
 
She had already been  divorced through circumstances  from Jagya for such a long time.  Did the final signing of the legal document really mean anything at that point?

Yes, there was no need for Anandi to cry during divorce and getting FBs of Jagya for a long time and it was odd that she never remembered how much Jagya insulted her.

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Posted: 20 August 2013 at 5:26am | IP Logged
Originally posted by aparnauma

Developing affection towards a person who helped her means those feelings have come out of gratitude.

Love for a man is all about wanting to share life with him.That desire to share life out of gratitude for that person cannot be termed as love.

If what she feels is love for that person she should go ahead and build her life which is worthy enough to share it with him.Make a beautiful life for herself and her child and ask him to share her life with him then I will accept it is love.

From what they have shown so far it does not look like love to me.It only looks like infatuation combined with gratitude.If people are convinced that it is love then it is up to them and their opinion.




surely no body is making you accept others POV If you are not convinced its up to you lets agree to disagree like i don't agree with you at all so you don't agree with me thats fine  but this gratitude will remain always in her Denying she is not in love with just because she has gratitude for him  then by this logic her love for him can never be termed as love Love is not some sky fallen thing Love is the name of affection , trust , respect , honor , a person becoming special to you above all others  , a desire  to share your life with him  , his happiness your happiness  , his pain your pain, care , concern  this all count in love and Ganga has all this for Jagaya in a purer and stronger form and this want to share life with him is not only because of gratitude  Where it is only  because of gratitude ? She has never seen such good person  in her entire life she herself said so  She has made a bond with his soul and The feelings have bloomed in her heart tomorrow they will only be more stronger It will be developed  further  not will take birth when they have already taken their birth in her heart They will grow up So she has fallen for him and this is love 

rest accept or not its up to you no forcing you to accept 

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Posted: 20 August 2013 at 5:37am | IP Logged
Originally posted by aparnauma


.Probably Jagya was at about the same age as Ganga is now.



no he was younger to her I believe Ganga is around 25 or 26 years now Read it on colors site 

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Posted: 20 August 2013 at 5:42am | IP Logged
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LOL criticizing Ganga now bec she doesn't look happy enough...ppl...I'm an only child, I left my parents and home to go for 3 years to do my bachelors in another country and at the airport and throughout the drive to the airport I felt like I was going to die and even my parents cried sending me inside the airport, there is a certain point at which family has to go and only passengers can continue and it's a miserable feeling leaving all that you know and love and are attached too and even after reaching that country, I cried that night ...I cried myself to sleep...that didn't change the fact that I graduated 1st class 3 years later but Ganga;'s emotions are very natural and I didn't expect anything else from her...of course she has to face a double whammy...leaving the person she loves, knowing he will get engaged that same night. Poor girl, cut her some slack.
 
Well said, Mehwish Clap
People like us feel torn when we have to part from family and friends, even if it is for a short time or for something as beneficial as our studies and ambitions.
 
But just imagine Ganga's case, she's the proverbial frog in the well, not aware of the big world outside and here she was brave enough to take the 1st step out of her comfort zone just for the sake of her and her son's bright future.
 
Earlier she knew Dr.Sa would be accompanying her and guiding her when she first joins her the college which probably would have gone some way in her showing a bit of enthusiasm even amidst all the sadness of parting. But now even that possibility has been unfairly snatched from her because of some people's irrational plotting & scheming and she has to navigate a strange city and culture so different and so far away from her home all on her own.
 
So of course not at all surprised that she showed sadness in leaving Jaitser, in fact it would have looked weird if she was happy and enthusiastic Confused.
 


 My mom said that whole week leading up to my departure that this is the proudest moment for her and my Dad and I also knew that I'm going for myself, no one will benefit more from this trip than me but yet I will never forget that the person who ran around for my visa, passport and ticket- my Dad, a tough man himself, cried when I waved goodbye to him...and I'll never forget that it took my mom a long time to let go of my hand and only I know how I felt when the plane took off and I stared below at everything I love...as it disappeared from my view...

 Ganga has become a living breathing project for Jagya and it was time to present that project and see it in all its glory but he has to miss it, terrible feeling for him...and for Ganga, the person who helped her reach there will be nowhere in sight when she  reaches her final stop...new city, new people, new language, everything will be disturbing for her...even sleeping in a new bed at night, likely in a hostel room is so disturbing...Jagya knew abt all these things , that's why  he wanted to go with her...she is like a bird, she just learned to fly but she needs guidance still, her wings are still a bit fragile.

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Posted: 20 August 2013 at 5:45am | IP Logged
Originally posted by saba113

Originally posted by aparnauma

I really wonder if Ganga and Sanchi are in love with Jagya.

Ganga has become a mother without ever knowing what it means to be a woman.She comes across someone who is emotionally still a child.Her feelings towards Jagya is more like a crush combined with gratitude.So I really feel that this seperation is good for both Jagya and Ganga.
Jagya has to realise that what he feels towards  this child woman is not sense responsibility but something deeper than that.
Ganga needs to see the world and see what it has gto to offer before she settles for Jagya.



Ganga certainly don't have a crush on Jagaya  combined with gratitude  it is love otherwise what is love ?Her feelings for him are much more deeper  and stronger than only a  crush 


 Ganga worships Jagya, she sees him like he's a God, Sriti said it in an interview...it's a very very strong kind of love...in her miserable existence she learned a lot about the character of human beings, she retained innocence despite seeing the worst side of humanity in living form but that doesn't mean that she still needs to see the world, she has in fact seen too much of it...the wrongs of it, Jagya showed her what is still right in the world and she made a wise decision the day she gave her heart to him.

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Posted: 20 August 2013 at 5:52am | IP Logged
Ganga doesn't expect too much from people and she is selfless, pure and not the possessive kind...she won't ever entertain the idea of being Jagya's wife or fantasizing about him the way we do when we are in love with someone- imagining spending our days and nights with that person, I think that is OOC for Ganga...what Ganga needs is a hint that Jagya is also in love with her, then those other more womanly feelings will come forward otherwise she wouldn't dare go that way and imagine wanting to spend her life with him or admiring his physical good looks and all...even if Jagya proposes marriage to her himself, I have a feeling she will refuse because that's her nature...she will never feel like his equal or good enough for Singhs so probably ristha will happen only if Jagya proposes and his family is there with him...and with that confirmed rishta only I see Ganga feelings developing into a stronger, more human type of love, right now it's very very spiritual ...only after some assurance that he loves her and wants her will she feel any other desire...

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