Balika Vadhu Written Update 19/8/2013 - Page 6

Originally posted by: zephyr29

 

Well said, Mehwish 👏

People like us feel torn when we have to part from family and friends, even if it is for a short time or for something as beneficial as our studies and ambitions.

 

But just imagine Ganga's case, she's the proverbial frog in the well, not aware of the big world outside and here she was brave enough to take the 1st step out of her comfort zone just for the sake of her and her son's bright future.

 

Earlier she knew Dr.Sa would be accompanying her and guiding her when she first joins her the college which probably would have gone some way in her showing a bit of enthusiasm even amidst all the sadness of parting. But now even that possibility has been unfairly snatched from her because of some people's irrational plotting & scheming and she has to navigate a strange city and culture so different and so far away from her home all on her own.

 

So of course not at all surprised that she showed sadness in leaving Jaitser, in fact it would have looked weird if she was happy and enthusiastic 😕.

 

 My mom said that whole week leading up to my departure that this is the proudest moment for her and my Dad and I also knew that I'm going for myself, no one will benefit more from this trip than me but yet I will never forget that the person who ran around for my visa, passport and ticket- my Dad, a tough man himself, cried when I waved goodbye to him...and I'll never forget that it took my mom a long time to let go of my hand and only I know how I felt when the plane took off and I stared below at everything I love...as it disappeared from my view...

 Ganga has become a living breathing project for Jagya and it was time to present that project and see it in all its glory but he has to miss it, terrible feeling for him...and for Ganga, the person who helped her reach there will be nowhere in sight when she  reaches her final stop...new city, new people, new language, everything will be disturbing for her...even sleeping in a new bed at night, likely in a hostel room is so disturbing...Jagya knew abt all these things , that's why  he wanted to go with her...she is like a bird, she just learned to fly but she needs guidance still, her wings are still a bit fragile.

Originally posted by: saba113

Ganga certainly don't have a crush on Jagaya  combined with gratitude  it is love otherwise what is love ?Her feelings for him are much more deeper  and stronger than only a  crush 

 Ganga worships Jagya, she sees him like he's a God, Sriti said it in an interview...it's a very very strong kind of love...in her miserable existence she learned a lot about the character of human beings, she retained innocence despite seeing the worst side of humanity in living form but that doesn't mean that she still needs to see the world, she has in fact seen too much of it...the wrongs of it, Jagya showed her what is still right in the world and she made a wise decision the day she gave her heart to him.

Ganga doesn't expect too much from people and she is selfless, pure and not the possessive kind...she won't ever entertain the idea of being Jagya's wife or fantasizing about him the way we do when we are in love with someone- imagining spending our days and nights with that person, I think that is OOC for Ganga...what Ganga needs is a hint that Jagya is also in love with her, then those other more womanly feelings will come forward otherwise she wouldn't dare go that way and imagine wanting to spend her life with him or admiring his physical good looks and all...even if Jagya proposes marriage to her himself, I have a feeling she will refuse because that's her nature...she will never feel like his equal or good enough for Singhs so probably ristha will happen only if Jagya proposes and his family is there with him...and with that confirmed rishta only I see Ganga feelings developing into a stronger, more human type of love, right now it's very very spiritual ...only after some assurance that he loves her and wants her will she feel any other desire...

You don't have crush on your god you  have pure love,  you worship him   Ganga too worships Jagaya just like that  Anandi too worshipped Jagaya but she was made to believe  by her elders that husbands are like gods here no body made Ganga believe that she made this bond with her benefactor on her own  There is difference between Jagaya and Ganga  Jagaya was young boy married at a tender age when he didn't know what is love and what is marriage , at teenage he was reunited with Anandi His elders forced in his mind from childhood Anandi is your life partner , your true love , his love for Anandi was no love but an affection developed out of habit His friendship with her was true, love was mere affection , a teenage crush Ganga on contrary fell for Jagaya on her own , nobody forced in mind anything she fell for him seeing his goodness and this love will continue 

Thank you Khushi for written update. I am glad I didn't watch the episode.
Instead of showing inspirational stories, it is all about engagement/ marriage.
Look at this lady who is 73 years old and she is getting phd this saturday. Ms. Aravindhavalli, said, "I married when I was in class IX, and was part of a large, joint family. For many years, I was completely immersed in daily chores."
These kind of storylines will be inspirational to younger generation than showing how to plot to become a dr's wife.

Very interesting discussion and points of view on love of Ganga, Anandi and Sanchi for Jagia. 

well said Jan50.