Posted: 24 August 2013 at 1:10am | IP Logged
Originally posted by bonnefille
Originally posted by toothbrush13
Something that has been bothering me... whenever asked about living-in, Ankita denies it and refuses to talk about it, but Sushant talks about it in every single interview. I obviously have no idea about what they have discussed between themselves or what her thoughts are on this, but just as a reader/viewer it makes me uncomfortable.
Can they come up with one story, just for my mann ki shanti? Their inconsistencies on these things are stressful to keep up with.
Though in a sense it exemplifies what Sushant was talking about... when he talks about it nobody really cares, if Ankita talked about it she would get judged so hard. Double standard duniya, tch tch tch.
But I don't think she has denied being in a live-in-relationship any time recently, has she? The one time she had was really long ago. Who knows if asked today, she might accept? No one really has asked her the question in recent times and that's why somebody really needs to take an interview of hers. If she denies it now after Sushant's tom-tomming about their live-in-relationship, then I would say there is some serious problem of communication between the two.
It has been ages since we have got an interview of hers.. if we do now .. she wont deny it.. bcuz Sushant has been saying it quite often in his interviews now that they are living in..
So she knows he is saying it out in the open now...
When she denied it last year... she totally contradicted what sushant said a year before that...
obviously she didnt read that interview of his.. and I guess they didnt really sit down and discuss what they should be saying in their interviews so that they dont contradict themselves..
That time they "got away with it" bcuz Sushant hadnt entered bwood. .. but now if they they slip up in what they say.. people will easily bring it up and question them..
It did bother me last time when Ankita denied it... not bcuz she was denying... but both were giving diff. answers... I was like "arey jo bhi bolo... sach ya jhooth.. lekin ek hi sach ya ek hi jhooth bolo .. "
Also, the reason Sushant has been talking about his LIR in every single interview is because his film is based on it. So that does not really irk me, I just do not want Sushant to give out a fictitious month when nothing is fixed for their marriage. He could just say that we plan to marry, but have not fixed any particular date. To say, that we will marry by end of this year or early next year can leave the fans high and dry and the media disillusioned if it does not happen in the said time period.
Maybe they have decided to make the wedding happen for sure with a year and half so thats why he is saying it?
But in whole, I do not mind if they have different approaches to how they appear individually in a relationship. It is not like Ankita has denied the very existence of Sushant in her life. They are two different individuals in a relationship. It will be boring if they behave similarly. So, Sushant can be on the roof tops, while Ankita can be the reserved one. Even in the case of Shahrukh and Gauri, Gauri used to get embarrassed by Shahrukh's constant declaration of love for her to the media.
I do not mind Sushant constantly bringing up Ankita in conversation, as there are anyway very few men in the industry who give due credit to their partners. If not for Sushant's clarification, Ankita would have been just another name rumored for HNY. And I don't think he goes OTT by giving too many details. I still do not know anything way too personal about them.
I dont think Sushant is giving out too many details or anything... he is pretty much saying the same thing ..., but many times since there are so many interviews that he is giving.. "We are in a live-in rel'ship and I am cool about it.." "Ankita is transparent , diplomatic , transparent , talented , not a hypocrite.."
Nothing more and nothing less than that...
About the Press conf... I didnt like it much either... how was this a debate?.. too one sided...
I was grinning when I saw Vani fumbling... lol.. I think more than her being nervous or out of place... she was fumbling bcuz she wasnt sure how to go about her answer...should she talk in a way that "promotes" what the film is saying.. or what reflects the person she is and her beliefs?..
Especially since she had to speak just after Pari finished rambling on and on and vociferously put forth her points all favoring one POV ...
I think she did quite well...
Now I am feeling ki.. chalo .. theek hi hai Sushant didnt say much
... better to talk less and say "To each his own.." instead of ... feeling the pressure of putting on some supportive stance for everything your co-star and the writer is saying...
Wish they just had a "normal" press conf instead of this...
Chalo.. that is over.. now the real fun starts... JDJ , CNWK , I2 ... wohooo
Edited by lunza - 24 August 2013 at 1:21am