Posted: 17 August 2013 at 2:15am | IP Logged
Originally posted by arshicritic
Originally posted by hotdogg
Originally posted by P020167
Haven't seen the episode yet...but loved your post.
I am on vacation so will reply on your updates wheneverI will get a chance.
From your updates, one thing is clear, truth is out and VC family is in reality show now...no more "all about Pramad are rumors"...
30 days...does this mean after a month there is no Pramad :) It will be interseting to see how SaMud wil unite.
..in 30 days there won't even be a show to speak of...
SLB has / is probably moving out...SP has given an extension till Nov...there is a desperate rush to become more TRP friendly...
however, today saras has made a promise to himself that in 30 days he will make kumud's marriage with pramad work out...
So in line with TRPs...we could also see a Samud become a Pramud...courtesy saras who may become a platonic friend of kumud...and possible godfather to pramud's kids..
No pramaad will die, that is on the cards.
Everything sweet smelling and rosy - pramaad will be reformed - so Kumud wins, her family was right to let her go back with the sharabi
Pramud - will not happen - Kumud will remain, "wiasi hi jaisi gayi thi" oh he will die before their suhagrat happens.
Saras wins his kasam, so he is the hero
Pramaad dies, so Kumud is free
Widow remarriage - good social message,
All will bless it
Kumud again will do it for bapu, swallow her dard and marry Saras
So she remains the sanskari bahu beti
And sp will proudly tout the nayee soch
And we will note that:
No matter how bad a marriage, there's no getting out
Death is the only release
Remarriage only for family, not for self
Kumud was 'untouched ' by pramaad so is pure to be accepted by Saras
As I said everything sweet and rosy!
Pseudo nayee soch!
The real nayee soch - of a trail blazing woman who spurns marriage
Of a truly modern father who asks his daughter to get out before its too late
Of a truly progressive lover who will show her that she is wrong to cling to this relationship - not happening!
Arshi - playing devils advocate hard here but apart from that one incident she hasn't really faced domestic violence as she stood up to it...so this one month long marriage does have a right to have a second chance. I mean yes u can walk out but then it's like the whole 'these days girls don't understand the meaning of marriage. They don't value the relation' this society definitely exists.
If my husband was an alcoholic I can write it down in blood that my mum(who is pretty modern n has always given me great freedom) would say beta don't give up! You can change him. Have faith in God. Divorce is still a big taboo in our society as fear is always that then this girl becomes untouchable! N it's not just parents...it's also a fact that most men unless they are a divorcee themselves won't want to go down the alleyway of marrying a divorced girl so the fear in parents always remain that kahi their daughter doesn't end up alone her whole life.
In Desai's case it's even more sensitive as they have seen Dukhba all alone. Yes she has this big family but its always different having ur 'own' family n perhaps in that sense I understand where dukba is coming from. She has been thru being alone n not having a jeevan saathi n if Kumud wants to give her marriage one more chance then so be it. There is a choti umeed Ki Kiran that perhaps she can change Pramaad. She managed to change Saras!
The nayi soch that SP are pining on isnt that bad but i still don't want Pramad to change and for kumud to accept her as pati n all cos then i won't be able to watch saras kumud get married n now she is stuck in Pramaad memories!
Love the dies before suhaag raat bit!! Hehe! She can run in her shaadi ka jora and all nahiiin...full on filmy! (Yuck!!)
Hero is walking away in the sunset with his bag and kumud is running after him(after sasurji says jaa kumud jaa...jee le apni Zindagi mera beta to waapas nahi aayega!' Lol!!