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Posted: 16 August 2013 at 5:08am | IP Logged
I thought Dadi Bua was the most honest character on KTLK...granted her words were harsh...but she spoke the truth all the time..!

It is all very well to mouth polite platitudes...to guard against someone's feelings getting hurt...but sometimes, I think...what is more important...having your feelings protected or knowing exactly where you stand with someone...

I am not saying hurting people is a virtue,,,but is being truthful and upfront a sin..and being ready to accept the same in return,,,lavishing false praise just so someone is happy.,,,aren't you sort of being condescending when you assume someone can't handle the truth..

I think I deserve the truth..I think everybody deserves the truth..and if I have even a small amount of respect for someone, then I must tell them the truth! And if someone has the least respect for me, then they must tell me the truth too!

So, what do you like to hear or tell- the truth or platitudes?


Edited by Sujatha.rao - 16 August 2013 at 5:16am

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Posted: 16 August 2013 at 5:29am | IP Logged
I like to tell and hear the truth but if I realize my truth might hurt someone then i prefer silence more than speaking the truth and it worked out well for me ...

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Posted: 16 August 2013 at 5:39am | IP Logged
The truth... But I may qualify to be a diplomat at times when I know that the truth would make no difference to someone! Nice post Akka... Sorry haven't been around a lot, but loving your presence here!! <3

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Posted: 16 August 2013 at 7:06am | IP Logged

So, what do you like to hear or tell- the truth or platitudes?

 

First of all nice to see you are back active in the forum 

 

An important topic mam 

 

You know studied in a convent taught me to be a truthful person, and also I get used hear that the people who are telling the truth are God children. so me too carry out this concept " telling the truth " for a long time but this society didn't allows me to continue further as every time when I tell the truth most  of the time return was negative as very rarely I got the positive respond . But now I feel that these religious concepts are not applicable to this society but I don't want to lie to  any body but never going to tell the truth as now I try to remain silent ,as I feel silent is the best option I have to be happy . I am not God sujath ji I am a Human being

 

I don't mine whether the people are telling me the truth or the lie I give the important  to my heart and my brain and respond to it , because of this most of the people are get used to tell me that I am proud , but I am happy about that as it wants  hurts me .

 

At last what I would like to say as it's difficult to find people like Mahatma Gandhi ji or Mr. Nelson Mandela any more    

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Posted: 16 August 2013 at 7:08am | IP Logged
I would always prefer truth , but that doesnt means i want to hurt someone by saying truth . 

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Posted: 16 August 2013 at 8:44am | IP Logged
Ab main bolungi toh sab bolenge ki bolti hainLOL LOL

Bhai hamare baare main toh aap jaante hee ho...main toh jo sach hain vo bol deti hoon,and phir dusro ke feelings ke baare main sochte baitho aur usse vahi galti karne do toh mere liye vo naasamjhi hui...atleast agar jo sach hain vo boldo toh aisa lagta hain ki hum koi beimaani nahi kar rahe hain v r true to them and honest in our relation...

And maine iss forum main ek baat sikhi hain, mere baare main sach bolna ho toh koi meri feelings ke baare nahi sochta toh main kyu duniya ki sochuLOL...and top of it I HATE JHOOTAngry mujhe jhooto se sakth nafrat hainAngry Angry mujhe agar koi jhoot bole toh main uski jaan bhi le sakti hoon Evil Smile LOL

Edited by Pardeshi.Mithu - 16 August 2013 at 8:47am

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Posted: 16 August 2013 at 9:34am | IP Logged
I used to prefer being nice to a person rather than hurting them...
 
But there are many negative outcomes of that
1. I will hurt myself that am not able to talk the truth and will be boiling inside
2. I cannot get work done by people, they take me granted
3. I will not help other person improve...especially during appraisals..
 
But there is slowly change now...
 
But sometimes we should praise people also to make them feel good...which is very important...

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Posted: 16 August 2013 at 10:20am | IP Logged
Well according to me everyone loves truth but no one can handle it... We all says please say everything at my face, dont talk behind the back but no one likes when they say directly to you... so this intimately lie rules..!!

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