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Posted: 16 August 2013 at 6:57am | IP Logged
Then, in that case, Jagya should have taken a stand about going on the 16th.
 
He should have said  f*** you to mom and saanchi and gone ahead with what he felt was right.
 
In life, not all issues are conducive to our best interests nor do they arrange themselves in convenient manners. 
 
 At that time Jagya  (or anyone) should take a stand and then face the consequences of whatever one's priorities are.

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Posted: 16 August 2013 at 6:58am | IP Logged
yea i agreeKools  no one opposed her ..and because of this saachi keeps on feeling that she is not doing anyhting wrong..

btw they are not shwoing anything abt mahi where is he?


Edited by lovesunshine - 16 August 2013 at 6:58am

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Posted: 16 August 2013 at 7:23am | IP Logged
He did say Censoredyou and ur silly happiness criterias in polite language . He did firmly tell them that education of some woman is more important than these rituals . But then they resorted to manipulation and going behind his back . Where he went wrong was in being honest , upfront with them and giving them intimation . For his honesty he got mother's sulky ire and tantrums . He should have used their very own methods ...simply left by telling lies .

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Posted: 16 August 2013 at 8:29am | IP Logged
He went wrong when he said yes to Sanchi rishta. He should have taken a stand then and there and should not have given in to any blackmail. It is his life and he has to decide with whom he wants (or does not want) to marry. 

Once he agreed for this rishta, he is expected to nibhao it. It is not that he agreed for family's sake and so he does not has any responsibility towards this rishta. So far, his behaviour towards Sanchi or Shekhars is not like he is someone (?) from Anandi's family and not like he is going to marry Sanchi. Sanchi is what we all know, so no sympathy with her, but a redeemed Jagya should not behave like this with his future wife and her family. It just shows that there are still flaws in him. Any man, who says to postpone the date of his engagement because he wants to go with another woman (even if he is just helping her) on the same date will be deemed to insult the relationship. 

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Posted: 16 August 2013 at 9:08am | IP Logged
Jagaya's only fault is that he is guilty of his past The past is his fault The mistakes he did Everyone is taking good advantage of that When  Anandi made him agree for marriage she cornered him for her's sake her heavy heart  , for family's sake even counted his past mistakes called him selfish , he hasn't changed yet  what not  she said there ?she scratched his guilt and made him agree to marry He didn't want to break anyone's heart previously he did for that he still hates himself  now he don't want to cause pain to anyone therefore he sacrificed and agreed Accepting Sanchi's proposal  DS and Sumi scratched his guilt They pounced on him saying after a long time Anandi's life is being settled don't do anything because of which her happiness is destroyed They both were glaring at him showing him fingers To him it was presented as Singhs , Shekhars are satisfied with the proposal even Sanchi was acting as in front of him if he didn;t accept her she will die therefore he sacrificed  Anandi looked a lot helpless there When he took a stand he didn't accept initially he was quite shocked and said no  how he was glared at by his family and Sumitra was literally saying what happened , what went wrong that you are behaving like this They only brought a proposal for you  Had Jagaya not accepted that Singhs would be bashing him he hasn't changed yet cannot do even one thing for them ( i believe forum members would be bashing him as well he is selfish For him brick bats are for everything here if he goes against his family to do something  for himself he is wrong if he does not then again wrong he should have taken a stand for himself LOL)

The flaws that being counted in him My question He told  Sanchi right before he knew that engagement is being on 16th Sanchi knew that he didn't,   he told her i am going to Mangalore on 16th Did the great would be fiancee bother to tell him that we have a 16th mahurat and after that no mahurat till four months ?No  Fault is hers here she is not even this much sincere to him What is his fault? Where are flaws in him ? He told her his plans even before he knew that mahurat is set for 16th  if he had flaws he would have gone quietly without telling her anything  but no he didn't This is called honesty, sincerity  but what he got in return? cheating from her . He tried to share his problem with his going to be  fiancee  she cut the call so flaws are in him he is not sincere ?Where he is not sincere to her ? For an important work if he is asking his engagement to be postponed where he told that work to his would be fiancee even before the mahurat was known to him so why it is his fault Just because the work is helping Ganga thats why we are making issue here lets say if he had got some emergency work of hospital then what we would be saying Leave the work Thop it on some other doctor who has other work to do too  and himself have his engagement otherwise he is not sincere to his fiancee  Help is help That is help too this is help too  so why questioning his redemption ? if he would not have been redeemed who would have dared to do this with him but he is total selfless here Is he asking anything for himself nothing From Sanchi to Singhs to Ganga he is trying hard to be sincere to be  everyone so why his fault ? when at fault are others


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Posted: 16 August 2013 at 9:48am | IP Logged
Originally posted by SPuja


Once he agreed for this rishta, he is expected to nibhao it. It is not that he agreed for family's sake and so he does not has any responsibility towards this rishta.  Sanchi is what we all know, so no sympathy with her, but a redeemed Jagya should not behave like this with his future wife and her family. It just shows that there are still flaws in him.
 
Yes!!!  This part in red is exactly what I have been screaming from the rooftops LOLLOL
 

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Posted: 16 August 2013 at 9:52am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sectoreight

Originally posted by SPuja


Once he agreed for this rishta, he is expected to nibhao it. It is not that he agreed for family's sake and so he does not has any responsibility towards this rishta.  Sanchi is what we all know, so no sympathy with her, but a redeemed Jagya should not behave like this with his future wife and her family. It just shows that there are still flaws in him.
 
Yes!!!  This part in red is exactly what I have been screaming from the rooftops LOLLOL
 


Sometimes it is better to have some flaws like this.LOL

Otherwise the wrong person will get the benefit.

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Posted: 16 August 2013 at 10:05am | IP Logged
Originally posted by leavesandwaves

Originally posted by sectoreight

Originally posted by SPuja


Once he agreed for this rishta, he is expected to nibhao it. It is not that he agreed for family's sake and so he does not has any responsibility towards this rishta.  Sanchi is what we all know, so no sympathy with her, but a redeemed Jagya should not behave like this with his future wife and her family. It just shows that there are still flaws in him.
 
Yes!!!  This part in red is exactly what I have been screaming from the rooftops LOLLOL
 


Sometimes it is better to have some flaws like this.LOL

Otherwise the wrong person will get the benefit.


 Behave like what? He's letting his family make him a kurbaani ka bakra...I guess to avoid another eagle eyed glare from Sumitra he has decided to auction off his future to Sanchi and Shekars, he is willing to become Anandi's brother in law because his family is giving him no other option...Jagya tu decide karle BUT SOCH LENA WOH ANANDI KE SASRA HAI...When has his future wife or her family ever sat down to privately chat with him like educated and civilized individuals? Jagya, why don't you explain your likes and dislikes? Jagya, why are you so hell bent on going with Ganga...maybe if they asked this he could answer them because he does have a brain somewhere in his tortured head.
 
 He could give the answer which would shut them all up for good. He could say that I found this hopeless girl and I thought I could give her a new life, she became my pupil and I dug deep and found out what her dreams are, and tried to give them shape...she was a tortured soul and it was hard to get her up on her two feet to stand tall but she did it for her child and I watched and cheered her on from the sidelines...I saw her grow and prosper...imagine having a child...adopting an orphan...raising him or her and finally one day when they are about to go toff to college , you cannot see them off...you planned and plotted and you fixed dates and tried explaining things to your family but instead of listening to you or suggesting alternative,s your family pushed you away and threatened you...and your WIFE TO BE hung up the phone on you when you tried to explain your feelings to her...

 So your dream remains unfulfilled...after months of waiting for the day when you get to see that hopeless girl start her new life and see the look on her face as she goes to a new city and starts her studies like an independent and modern girl, you have to stay behind just to put a ring on some girl's finger...on a day which sould have been your victory day, a day to see that you are capable of doing some good to someone after doing so much wrong and after falling so low in your own eyes, this could have perhaps elevated Jagya in his own eyes to a higher level ...of being worthy in society...he can't go. He promised Ganga he would go and he had to watch that shatter to pieces too ...on top of that there is NO ONE TO UNDERSTAND Jagya and pat him on the back and say "beta we applaud you for your noble work and I think you deserve to see this noble thing through till the end and after that we your family cannot wait to see that smile on your face"...

 Why should Jagya behave well for his blind family? Selfish wife to be and incompetent and blind in-laws to be? Why should he when the whole world gets to walk all over him?
 

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