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Posted: 21 August 2013 at 10:40am | IP Logged
Originally posted by koolsadhu1000


So acc to me

he had one bad marraige and he does not sleep around with women . 

 
I would disagree with this.  I will further tweak my earlier statement to say that he had 2.5 shaadis (the child marriage with gauri doesn't count really but it sort of counts too...so half shaadi).
 
LOLLOLLOL
 
But I disagree he had only one bad marriage.   If he had maintained a safe distance from anandi and been clinical towards her,  I would have agreed that anandi was just a road-side casualty not deserving of being counted.  But he came back and ran after her even though they were legally divorced , which shows he did value her as a wife,  so then it will definitely be two marriages.
 
But he is  not a womanizer.  That much I agree with.
 
Just a serial marrier,  a serial husband. LOLLOL

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Posted: 21 August 2013 at 10:44am | IP Logged
Originally posted by koolsadhu1000


And the family ...well , they r ruthlessly using his guilty conscience .

 
 
Because he lets them use his guilty conscience.  He is weak-minded.
 
I believe he can have it all if he himself takes a stand.
 
Even the saanchi case could have been handled politely without upsetting anandi's saasra.
 
He could just have said "I don't mean to insult you or the depth of saanchi's feelings for me, but I just don't feel that way about her. I see her as a little sister" or something like that. "  
 
The tone of voice would have been what would have determined whether they got insulted or not.
 
If he had been arrogant and said "she is not good enough for me" or something like that, only then would it be insulting.
 
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Posted: 21 August 2013 at 10:45am | IP Logged
Thats what im trying to say ...he is NOT into women . A  womanizer is totally different . The 2 .5 Shaadis used to be sarcastic towards him r a mere matter of perspective LOL [ the 2 .5 shaadi waalla one can call himLOL]

but from what i see , Jagya does not sleep around . 

But hey . Shiv's brother Mahi does .LOL

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Posted: 21 August 2013 at 10:46am | IP Logged
Jagya reminds me of Ross on 'Friends'.
 
Three divorces before the age of thirty. 
 
His friends all used to poke fun at him. LOL

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Posted: 21 August 2013 at 10:48am | IP Logged
Because he lets them use his guilty conscience.  He is weak-minded.

Not necessarily dear . Sometimes the guilt of the past is so much that one takes a conscious decision to curb his personal wishes and that requires immense mental strength .

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Posted: 21 August 2013 at 10:50am | IP Logged
Originally posted by koolsadhu1000


but from what i see , Jagya does not sleep around . 

But hey . Shiv's brother Mahi does .LOL
 
This too is a matter of perspective.  Mahi fell in love with ashima (one woman) ... he cannot be called a womanizer either.   And he didn't do it purely to satisfy his physical needs,  he was genuinely caught up in emotions.  In fact, he wants to take it further. But this woman has cut off her email and changed her phone number and moved her home.  so what can he do LOLLOL
 
And Jagya too would have had pre-marital sex, but Gauri didn't let him for two years when they stayed together at Kunda tai's.  She was very particular that they be married first. LOLLOL  So if Jagya did not sleep around,  full credit goes to gauri not to jagya himself.
 
 
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Posted: 21 August 2013 at 10:58am | IP Logged
You r deliberately missing the pointLOLLOL

If Gauri did not let him , he could have slept with others till she let him , was there any stopping

he was the king of manipulation then .

But he was true to the woman and the woman WAS his wife or at least interested in him .

Where Mahi is concerned

the woman has evinced NO interest in him 

was interested in his bro

was not even dating him

and u urself made a post about  what great emotions he got caught up in just on one afternoon of an outingLOL

so Mahi sleeps with women he doesn't even court and who r uninterested in a serious commitment with him .

Still 

i won't be hard on him , he is a decent chap on the whole .

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Posted: 21 August 2013 at 11:00am | IP Logged
Originally posted by koolsadhu1000

You r deliberately missing the pointLOLLOL

LOLLOL Yes, I am choosing not to get your point!! I like talking to you Kools. Heart
 
 If I got all your points, we would never have a conversation LOLLOL.  I would just hit the like button and it would stop at that. ROFL
 
I look for excuses to provoke you into conversation.

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