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Posted: 20 August 2013 at 12:11am | IP Logged
Originally posted by hooked

Can the CV's answer why Anandi has been two timing Shiv till now ? 
 
 
Anandi is a greedy little gold digger! LOLLOLLOL
 
 

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Posted: 20 August 2013 at 3:25am | IP Logged
Anandi has become the unofficial representative for Haveli. She represents sumitra and dadisa.

Here the detractors are thinking of anandi as only Jagya's ex to the exclusion of her relationship with other haveli people.

So her passing the heirloom is ok.

As shiv has given her all the love and respect, the question of two timing does not arise. Her friendship with Jagya is a sign of her confidence. if she felt uncomfortable, then the question of her two timing arises.


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Posted: 20 August 2013 at 6:19am | IP Logged
leaves , generally  i agree with u but

while her  friendhip with her ex since she knows and grew up with him since childhood is a fact of life

while her feelings for the Singhs too r unavoidable as it is a fact of her life

and Shiv , her new husband accepted her voluntarily with the facts

her passing on Singh family heirlooms is NOT ok nor is her grooming Jagya's bride and decking her nor the lecture to mothers on motherhood when she herself does not know a thing about the subject .

She can pleasantly participate in ex's engagement but stay out with dignity 

this over involvement looks odd .

Also , decking up her nanand for ex is very odd , her father too had felt very uncomfortable and he was not stupid

even nanand needs to know that bhabi is keeping herself out . Actually nanand will welcome it .

nanand also needs to know that insulting Shiv the elder brother and saying i will do engagement without him did not go well with bhabi . She digests a lot of things but draws the line somewhere .

sectoreight is correct , the cummerbund should be passed on by Dadisa or Sumitra.

In most hindu cultures the bua gets the privilege of naming the child but
parents decide beforehand and tell the bua and she merely does the ritual to pass on tradition

what they r doing is turn each function into Anandi's lecture and emphasizing her iconic personality

they r doing typically the fault of other serials . If this continues BV will lose its touch ...especially Anandi being the reason to unite Jagya with Ganga

their love story should be independent of Anandi for then she becomes unreal and annoying both .




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Posted: 20 August 2013 at 7:16am | IP Logged
Originally posted by leavesandwaves

Anandi has become the unofficial representative for Haveli. She represents sumitra and dadisa.

Here the detractors are thinking of anandi as only Jagya's ex to the exclusion of her relationship with other haveli people.

So her passing the heirloom is ok.

 
No, her passing on the heirloom is NOT okay.  It simply is NOT okay.
 
What do you mean 'the detractors of anandi are thinking of her only as Jagya's ex to the exclusion of her relationship with other haveli people'..  ?
 
In the matter of the cummerbund,  how is it appropriate for her even if she has a relationship with the other haveli people? 
 
What is the relationship which gives her the right to pass on a family heirloom of belonging to new bahus of the haveli?  Is anandi her saas (Mother in law)?   If anandi were a divorced mother in law, then maybe it is okay. 
 
They kept anandi as their daughter and still see her as their daughter.     Even if she feels she has relationship with haveli folks, she must be cogniscant of what her relationship is. 
 
Daughters of the household don't hand over heirlooms to new bahus.
 
 it is always the place of the elder ladies from one generation to another.
 
Here anandi was giving it over as ex-dil to new dil.  She was slipping into the role of Jagya's ex herself.  We (the so-called detractors) did not assign her to that role as you claim.
 
And unofficial representative is precisely that.  The very fact that you feel the need to qualify the word representative with 'unofficial'  shows that she is just a self-appointed representative. Nobody else has bothered to call her spokesperson for the haveli in haveli related matters. 
 
Unless she is asked to do something, she should not do it.
 
If she was asked to name the baby, only then she can do it.  But she cant just jump up on her own and start naming the baby without haveli folk's invitation.
 
 
 
 
 
 

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Posted: 20 August 2013 at 7:24am | IP Logged
Originally posted by leavesandwaves



As shiv has given her all the love and respect, the question of two timing does not arise. Her friendship with Jagya is a sign of her confidence. if she felt uncomfortable, then the question of her two timing arises.
 
To the contrary, The fact that she is so comfortable with Jagya itself is a sign of two timing.
 
If she were only one timing, she would just focus on shiv, and not involve herself so much in jagya's life. she would keep a distance. LOL
 
You want to be close to haveli folk, well and good.  But is it so necessary to be close to Jagya as well?  Be cordial, fine. Be civilized fine. Don't need to hold a grudge against him. That too is fine... but the other day when saanchi and he were talking ... she just walked into his room without knocking. why? 
 
And she may not want jagya but she clings to all haveli  jewellery which was given to her in his name??

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Posted: 20 August 2013 at 7:34am | IP Logged
she just walked into his room without knocking. why? 

extremely intrusive although i don't like Saanchi .

And she may not want jagya but she clings to all haveli  jewellery which was given to her in his name??

LOLLOLLOL So true .

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Posted: 20 August 2013 at 7:36am | IP Logged
Remember, she herself gave the cummerbund over to saanchi as Jagya's ex.
 
She said "yeh pehle mera tha,  ab se yeh tumhara" LOLLOL
 
Did she give it over as representative of haveli folk or did she give it over as Jagya's ex? You tell me. ROFL
 
Anandi herself revels in the role of Jagya's ex.
 
It is one thing to accept it as just a simple matter of fact - for legal and social reasons - that she was once indeed married to Jagya.
 
But to revel in it, and to take on the role of molding saanchi in her own image and tutoring saanchi on how to be a good wife to Jagdish is taking it too far.   She considers herself an expert on the subject of being Jagya's ex.  Silly

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Posted: 20 August 2013 at 7:40am | IP Logged
Originally posted by koolsadhu1000


extremely intrusive although i don't like Saanchi .
 
Yes kools,  you don't like saanchi and neither do I, but I am not talking about who else was in the room.
 
I am talking about the complete freedom with which she walks in the door as if she has a right to be in the room.   I would still consider it intrusive even if there was no one else besides Jagya in the room.
 
Just because she was once married to him, doesn't give her the right to walk into the room even if he is alone. 
 
Do you remember how badi maasi found gauri in Jagya's bedroom when he had just come out of his bath and was draped only in a towel.   Then she had dragged gauri out and given her a big lecture of not walking into men's rooms and invading their privacy.  even though gauri was from the city, badi maasi told her that there were boundaries between men and women LOLLOL
 
Would anandi walk into bhairon's room even though she is his daughter?  Isnt there that much distance between anandi and bhairon?  so too there should be same distance between jagya and anandi.

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