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Posted: 17 August 2013 at 11:33pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sectoreight

Leaving aside saanchi's nature, I don't know if Jagya has approached the marriage issue with any seriousness of thought.
 
I mean, marriage means physical intimacy. 
Does he think he will be able to be intimate with saanchi?
 
It's not just living together like roommates and going shopping.
Please! don't give ideas to creatives. I don't want to again see - "mujhse nahi hoga". 

Jokes apart, it is not about physical intimacy  (they should not show physical intimacy part in 8 PM show.) , marriage is more about being together for each other in every circumstances sharing everything - sukh as well as duck. And that's what is lacking in Jagya in this marriage proposal. Sanchi may be plannin/plotting but she is trying to involve in her future family (in her own nasty way with mask). But Jagya is bonding just with Ganga, at present he is not bonding with even his own family. 

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Posted: 17 August 2013 at 11:41pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by SPuja

Originally posted by sectoreight

Leaving aside saanchi's nature, I don't know if Jagya has approached the marriage issue with any seriousness of thought.
 
I mean, marriage means physical intimacy. 
Does he think he will be able to be intimate with saanchi?
 
It's not just living together like roommates and going shopping.
Please! don't give ideas to creatives. I don't want to again see - "mujhse nahi hoga". 

Jokes apart, it is not about physical intimacy  (they should not show physical intimacy part in 8 PM show.) , marriage is more about being together for each other in every circumstances sharing everything - sukh as well as duck. And that's what is lacking in Jagya in this marriage proposal. Sanchi may be plannin/plotting but she is trying to involve in her future family (in her own nasty way with mask). But Jagya is bonding just with Ganga, at present he is not bonding with even his own family. 


He is a doctor. and he may use viagra.LOL
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Posted: 18 August 2013 at 4:52am | IP Logged
The disinterest Jagya shows in Saanchi and the Shekhars is perhaps the best part of the serial . 

For all her villainy that is on a winning spree this is where she loses .

I have heard so much about 'Anandi's saasra' that i am fed up .

The Shekhars r treated like royalty at the haveli . Spoilt Ira NEEDS  a tough damad who does not give her daughter any over importance . It is the NEED of mother daughter duo .

It s also the need of Sumitra who is dancing and twirling at the prospect of the proposal .

Uptill now Jagya has been perfect . And i hope he continues this way . He is accused of not attempting to enjoy his sasural's company but i have not seen one scene of the sasural members attempting to appreciate him . They are busy appreciating their spoilt daughter . Where they have fursat to attempt any camaraderie , they should lift their eyes from their daughter's face na . Rather they were disgusted with this damad and said yes forcefully and r now busy admiring their own spoilt child . Whereas he works all day , and is struggling to keep his family wishes , they r free and their daughter too , though she goes to college . In hindu marraiges there is solid attempt from girl's family which i see as zero in this serial . So many serials have i seen where the hero dances on the sasural's ishaaras and gives more importance to it than his own family that speaking strictly for myself , i find it refreshing .


Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 18 August 2013 at 4:55am

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Posted: 18 August 2013 at 4:59am | IP Logged
frankly, sumi and sachi may tihnk they have won, but only thing they have cummulatively achieved is to drive jagya even further away from them.at present jagya is aware only of sumi's utterly disgusting emotional blackmail and dsnt even know 10% of the manipulations sachi has done..once he realises tht, its showtime for Mz Shekhar..she is going to be royally thrashed, anandi;s saasra be damned..even the so-called redeemed jagya will not tolerate her harkats..
secondly, i dnt see why jagya shudnt or cant have a say in the date of his own engagement..sumi is talking so irrationally, it makes me wonder where she hit her head and leaked most of her brains out..just coz the guy is not free on the date she dumps on his head at such short notice, he is doing man-maani??? come on..this same medieval attitude is wht had turned him away from his family the first time round..and now, they are simply pushing their luck by annoying him day in and day out..
if the engagement happens 4 months later, why is it such a big deal?? its not like apocalypse is coming and the world will get destroyed on the 29th day, 3 months later..anyways, Mz. shekhar is "studying" (wonder what??all i see her doing is manipulate people), so there is no hurry with the wedding, she aint pregnant tht has to be hushed up..then wht on earth is the killing emergency??
and putting him in such situations, manipulating him, pushing his patience and testing his love for his family might just make him lose it and call off the wedding..the women are just plain stupid for trying tht..
also, there was sum debate abt nibhaoing the rishta.. i agree to the statement, but also wud like to add tht everytime sachi makes a genuine effort, jagya does reciprocate..but all she does is manipulate the scene..he has never ill-treated her, never flirted behind her back with ex-flame, never brushed her off when she asked for time, never compared her to other women in his life (KOOLS will know which show am talking of Wink ) its not even tht he proposed marriage and then not making good his vows.. if he has to nibhao the marriage, so does she..if she had tried to SUPPORT him ,instead of her machinations, she wud have found a wall of support from him as well.. if the question is of ganga going to b'lore, she wud have volunteered to accompany them (wud have been difficult to digest tho), instead of this farce..and he wud have truely appreciated it..

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Posted: 18 August 2013 at 5:03am | IP Logged
making love in a dirty shack LOLLOLLOLLOL

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Posted: 18 August 2013 at 5:03am | IP Logged
Exactly my thoughts anu ...what i have been saying through the entire thread . Read it if u have time . The manipulations disgust me . 

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Posted: 18 August 2013 at 5:07am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sectoreight

making love in a dirty shack LOL

Yeah , and u won't believe it but the boy was a tycoon who could have taken her abroad for their honeymoon and deflowered her on a big round bed with satin sheets in the best 5 star hotel ...and they were getting married the NEXT morning , but so much was the 'pavitra' hurry that they did it on hay when they were out on a date and it seems these uncontrollable hormones were 'pavitra' . I gave up .


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Posted: 18 August 2013 at 5:12am | IP Logged
kools, i did glance thru the thread but superficially..what is annyoing most is tht all the adjustments are to be made by jagya..so tht Mz.Shekhar can put her pretty feet on the table and lord over him..an example close to home, u know abt my wedding date..tht time is when i have to submit my thesis before my MD exam.. but the only other date was inconvenient to all..sugato had most of his thesis work during that time, and it was too soon for both the families to arrange..so finally, i bowed down..but wen i did so, sugato is going out of his way to help me write my papers, helping me edit them, getting me material, etc..both of us acknowledged tht we ahve to make adjustments.. but in jagya-sachi's relation all i see, is sachi dishin out demands, and jagya complying without as much as a Thank You..as if its sachi's birthright to be a brat..if only she knew what a brat jagya was in his pre-sachi days..she wud have given up her games and hailed him as king of manipulation..

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