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Posted: 15 August 2013 at 4:07am | IP Logged
I say how about first hand experience... I am ready to offer you my flirting services CM.. LOL


Ok on a serious note...here, you talk..and talk...and create this imaginary sense / personality of someone with whom you talk..

How is that even cheating..?!

And anyway, nothing beats actual physical presence in case of humans..

So if you are in a relationship, and if you are happy...at max you would engage in e-flirting..which is cool..and you wouldn;t be here 24 hrs a day..

If you get way too personal with someone..to reach a stage where you end up questioning your feelings about a virtual ID..and lets say you are in a relationship..then its pretty obvious..you are not happy in the real wrld relationship...so wake up call, the real life relationship is anyway not worth it...

And then ofcourse the third possibility...maybe you were born to inspire Kjo.. of this new age romance saga...mile chat kiya, aur pyaar ho gaya..lol ( You have got mail!)


And lastly... these internet romances more often than not are two desperate lonely people..who are so deluded to not recognize that they freaking know nothing about the other person..he/she very well be fabricating a whole fake world...so again not cheating and its fine..because desperate, lonely, dleuded people are good at finding things to mess up their life with and hence 7 samundar paar ka romance is well lesser of all evils..


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Posted: 15 August 2013 at 5:53am | IP Logged
Originally posted by CestMoi



What is your take on E-Flings especially when one is involved in a relationship out in the real world. Do you think it is cheating on one's partner with a virtual identity. And where would you draw the line in terms of feelings, involvement and time.

I shall input my thoughts as we go along. So please discuss away, I would love to hear what is your take on E-Flings and if you would call it cheating considering one isn't single.


And what good is the partner , if he/she can't keep the other busy enough from flirting online ? TongueLOL

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Posted: 15 August 2013 at 5:57am | IP Logged
To be honest , this is pretty serious . It was just two days ago i guess, when i read that article . The lover told his girl that he would love her for life . And the girl waited for days when he would finally do so offline . An when he didn't , she was off ... Forever ! 

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Some friendly flirting, whether in real life or virtual by nature is completely natural and normal even if you are in a committed relationship. There is a difference between flirting with the intent to hook up, get something more and just flirting in a friendly, teasing manner. It becomes cheating only when you want more, blur your boundaries or cross them. Boundaries can vary from couple to couple.

 

If you can comfortably tell you significant other about flirting and be open about things like how you find someone cute, or how someone always hits on you, or how you spend time with a flirtatious friend – then you should be fine. However, if you feel the need to hide, lie, deceive or if you suffer guilty pangs and discomfort – then you have a problem. You're probably crossing that line between being faithful and cheating.

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Posted: 15 August 2013 at 11:12am | IP Logged
How different are mental affairs vs physical affairs? Aren't they both considered cheating...

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Posted: 15 August 2013 at 11:58am | IP Logged
Originally posted by CestMoi

Originally posted by enigmatic_zephy

I say how about first hand experience... I am ready to offer you my flirting services CM.. LOL



You keep changing your seats every other day. One day you are a dudette and the next a dude. Now how am I supposed to have a fling with you when you aren't even sure of your own gender LOL

I rather hit on a girl than someone who doesn't know what he or she is LOLLOL


As for the rest, later man, don't know why I opened a topic when I have tons on my plate, silly me. But I have full faith on DMians that they will carry on the discussion. It seems like we do have two sides already to have a good discussion on it.

I know who I am...I just don't tell..people assume what they want to... and the play along..its fun to see their reactions.. LOL


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