Originally posted by -Shayari-Sorry to channel my innner Alison DiLaurentis (BTW any Pretty Little Liars followers on forum? CRAYY CRAYY Shit went down last night. ). Sorry off track.
Anyways.. yesterday and today.. a lot of different perspecitves are going around the forum and on two particular things .. Najma/Imran and AsYa's internet lovin. Well, I have my own thoughts on these two things and also a few other thoughts.. that I kinda need to get off my chest or Imma burst. First these are just my OWN thoughts and nothing else.. Ive stated them on multiple threads but Im just gonna compile them on one new thread by mwahh instead JUST OPINIONS. Everyone can have their own thoughts and perspectives on things which is why I respect them... I just would like to state how I see things.
I see things via contacts... Let me see how you see...
I think I will start with the MAJOR topic butterflying around the forum at the moment.
AsYa and the Internet/Skype watching fiasco.
Here is why I think there was ABS. NOTHING WRONG IN IT.
First. What is stalking and creepish? What some may find stalking and creepish.. others may not. To ME, if a loved one and someone dear to me were watching me sleep, YES I would be CONSCIOUS of it and rather annoyed and probably wouldnt be able to fall asleep myself. However, if that loved one and I had gone through some SERIOUS things and he/she TOLD me a reason for why he/she wants to watch me sleep, and asked me permission.. THEN I wouldn't be creeped out. I would be flattered. Honestly, Asad and Zoe have been through HELL for MONTHS. With not being able to tell eachother how they feel, to going to the alter and having their happiness be taken away from them, to watching eachother SUFFER, to being seperated for 1 month, to almost marrying the wrong person, to murder attempts and fake rape, I mean tell me one CRAZY shit they havent gone through. Asad BLAMES himself for what happened to Zoe.. and hell MOST of this forum also blamed him. The guy go Zoe back after SO long and Zoe asked him what he wished for and he said NOTHING. All he wants is Zoya and after PRESSURE from Zoe to say SOMETHING.. Asad presents his wish. And that too a wish that is SELFLESS. There is no PERSONAL Pleasure attached to it other than "PEACE OF MIND." Even in his own WISH (where Zoya's was in my opinions SELFISH- wanting the moon for herself, and wanting her hub to make her breakfast, and wanting her hub to be salman for her,..)..Asad's wish remained SELFLESS. All he wanted was to see the ONE GIRL who he has criticized, and yelled at, and SLAPPED at one point, and not trusted, whome he fell in love with but couldn't be with, who has faced so many murder attempts, and SUFFERED because of his blind trust in his lying and conniving so called bestie, TO BE AT PEACE and SLEEPING a SLEEP of PEACE. All Asad wanted was to BREATHE a sigh of relief that Zoe is with him, and they are together now, and she is happy and okay, and isn't in pain or suffering. How is this creepy? I mean. If Asad hadn't ASKED Zoya, and was keeping a camp outside her room and watching her without permission.. THEN thats creepy I think. But the guy ASKED HER and told her straight up WHY. Zoya didnt have to let him, and she could have herself said thats creepy Mr Khan and NO.. but if she was okay with it.. then how can we judge?
Thats my response and Honestly I found NOTHING wrong in it.
Asad's MAIN concern NOW is Zoya, and her happiness and making sure she NEVER suffers anymore especially at his hands. And even in his OWN wish.. he kept ZOYA and her happiness in mind. AsYa's lovestory isn't a PHYSICAL love story. Its a lovestory based on HEARTS, and EMOTIONS, and SUPPORTS of one another emotionally. Which is why all of these CUTSIE scenes.. I ADORE because these two are LIKE THAT. That doesn't mean i wouldn't mind some hugs and kisses.. but I understand WHY there isnt as well. They need TIME and I personally LIKE seeing them GROW together and see their RELATIONSHIP evolve. it makes their PHYSICALLY romantic moments even more SPECIAL.
That's great perspective
maybe since He took away her raton Ki neend...was kind of responsible for her sleeping on the floor in madrasa... Having nightmares since childhood ... Not able to sleep properly... He wishes that .. Though he cannot erase her past , his past ,their past.. he can at least give her so much happiness and a future together...so that they can fulfill their dreams together ...and He is hoping that now all that is behind them ... She can have a good night sleep... And watching her sleep peacefully .. He can take comfort in the fact that he had a part to play in her happiness..
I just would like to point out the parallels ONCE AGAIN between Asya and Ayra.
Just as Asad wanted to watch the love of his love sleep in PEACE because of EVERYTHING she has gone through which he blames himself for.. Aayan is also keeping an eye on Humeira.. although he wants her to WAKE UP, he too is watching her and feels he is to blame for her state. What a way to depict the parallels between these couples. Both couples are always in the SAME line but in their own separate ways as well. I truly enjoyed BOTH of the "watching the love of my life sleep" moments on both couples. BOTH seperate and unique in their situations, but in a sense similar in REASONING.
I am glad that they are parallels and not a quadrangle
Imran and Najma and Nikhat.
Honestly I just am SO CONFUSED with the angle right now.
I think the Creatives are trying their LEVEL BEST to try to PAINT Imran as a VICTIM of CIRCUMSTANCE and try to make us accept him ..especially by having Tanveer (Amrapali was EXCELLENT today btw) by having tanveer JUSTIFY everything and explainn everything that happened between her and Imran.
SEE, if after that story Imran had told Tanveer to TAKE A HIKE and told her do whatever she wants whether its tells Najma the truth or not.. I would have been PROUD of the guy.. that LOOK he is finally taking a stand for his "LOVE". But he RUINED his own case by feeding the cat more money. WHY IS HE TRYING TO HUSH IT UP. Dude, COME CLEAN. If you come clean NOW at least we can say YOU TRIED to change and make things RIGHT. If he tells Nikhat the truth and Najma the truth.. Id be HAPPY for Imran and his efforts. But the guy is the EPITOME of COWARDNESS and the HEIGHT of stupidity. I understand his position at times.. but he isnt making ANY effort to CORRECT his mistakes. Who do i blame? Cv's or Imran? I still LOVE imran and najma's background music but thats where it ends. I cant continue enjoying fb's and background scores if Imran and Najma continue this CHEAP romance they have going on. Even Najma is disappointing me. This girl's character is slowly being BUTCHERED. She is TOO immature and childish and confused right now. she doesnt KNOW what love is.. she just thinks she is in love.. wasn't she happy when Imran WASN"t in her life? How much does this guy mean to you exactly? On one hand she doesnt wanna hurt Nikhat and on the other hand she doesnt want to stand up for he so called love with Imran.. she is SO CONFUSED. like HONEST to GOD ill be happy with WHATEVER you choose for yourself just OWN UP TO IT.
Iwhat is cringe worthy is that despite Imran's redemption.. He was so callous about Najma that she broke the engagement. He moved on with the speed of light.
Also the back story ...about Imran Najma
they were told by Gul a few days back that they have been in love years ago. It looks like those MS episodes where all the characters from other shows are friends from childhood and they come to know about it that day only...
Humeira's illness-- I want it to be a PSYCHOLOGICAL illness. Ive posted this on another thread on why.
Today we got a GLIMPSE into Humeira's illness and Raazia stating the meds need to be given to humz for the rest of her life and she cant take more of the meds only in emergency cause too much can cause sideeffects.
I think Humeria's illness is PSYCHOLOGICAL and I do NOT think its physical. I think it MAY have started out creatively as a physical illness.. but I think CV's are changing it to psychologicall just as they changed things int he storyline.. this too is being altered.
Psychological makes sense cause of the fact that meds need to be given throughout hUmeira's life. Psychological illness is the type of illness were meds need to be given (restricted amounts) throughout a persons life because the symptoms can be surpressed and the disorders may seem cured but once a person goes off the meds.. relapse chances increase. Psychological illness is something that truly NEVER goes away.. Here humz is being given a medication for the rest of her life. If it was CANCER or something, Humz would have to be treated medically.. chemotherapy, radiation, she would have to make hospital visits, she would be given a TIMELINE on her life.
The only thing we have seen on Humeira's illness is FAINTING and medication. Nothing else. And right now the Rajni fiasco. Which is why i really think all she has is a personality disorder. And her alter ego's get TRIGGERED under certain circumstances which is why she may have spells of fainting but by giving her the medication after fainting.. she is able to remain as Humeira. I dont have a PHD on Psychology.. I just did bachelors, but as far as i know i think this is the best explanation for what CV"s are trying to portray.
Finally I think from a CREATIVE standpoint.. Humeira should have a psych disorder more so than the overdone and cliche'ed cancer tracks.. because it would add to the similarity between Humeira and Asad. Aayan and Zoe are similar in nature.. very outgoing, outspoken, do Shaayari, are happy go lucky, not afraid to speak out, while Asad and Humeira are also similar int hat they are more quiet and reserved, and are cultured or rather bounded in culture, they don't speak out as much. Asad has OCD so if humz is shown with a psychological disorder it would add to the parallels between the couples and characters.
All bets are off... Gul can take it anywhere
Anyways that all i have! Im sorry for the length of this! I just had a LOT to say so i said it. Would love feedback as always.