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Is getting married everything ?

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Posted: 14 August 2013 at 11:45am | IP Logged
Hi guys, I have been watching Qubool Hai these days and thinking why are they hurrying to get Najma married. I mean she's too young and just out of college. Why don't they encourage her to study further or help Asad in his business. Okay, for a minute lets think that Asad n his family is conservative. But what happened to Zoya ? She is from NY no ? Neither does she talk of doing a job herself nor is she encouraging the family members to help Najma in getting a job and become independent. I thought they wanted to show that Zoya has progressive views and is modern in her outlook then why doesn't she talk about a woman building an image for herself rather than being a housewife ? Come on, nowadays every girl tries to achieve something for herself rather than getting proposals immediately after college and becoming a housewife. I am really miffed with this idea ! 


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Thanks guys so much for your replies. I am happy at least some of you agree with me. I am doing my postgrad and I plan to get a job n be as capable of earning bread for my family as my future-whoever-husband would be. I don't want my kids to look up to their father for everything. I don't despise the idea of being a housewife. If someone likes it then its their choice. But in the show, it seems like they are trying to get rid of Najma ??? I mean at least ask her what she wants to do with her life. They are well to do, she can study further or do some job and be a strong woman. Didn't Gul's promotion for the show begin with Zoya talking about a progressive society ??? In which progressive society do u marry off a just-out-of college girl ? Najma looks so young and naive. At least let her mature and let her take things as it comes. I am disappointed with Zoya's character. I don't expect anyone else to think of it but seems like Zoya is soon turning into a run-of-the-mill bahu ! In my opinion, every woman should be given enough independence to lead her life as she wants and definitely marriage in NOT everything. Its a part of life and should not be the sole aim of life. When will these serial makers understand that we are a part of a rapidly changing society and even though we watch their shows, we will not put up with underwhelming women oriented roles. We want to see a strong woman force and how they emerge as leaders barring all odds !!!


Edited by durba - 14 August 2013 at 1:55pm

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Posted: 14 August 2013 at 11:51am | IP Logged
EXACTLY!!! I don't understand the BIG hurry in getting college going girls married on this show. Nikhat, Humeira, Najma. By those standards AsYa shd've been married with 2 kids by now!!!

N it's supposed to be a progressive Indian family living in a city. Have they heard of graduation/post graduation n career for girls or probably the main aim in life is to get their girls married on the very next day of their 18th b'day!!!

How ridiculous is that!!! Angry

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Posted: 14 August 2013 at 11:54am | IP Logged
You know what would be funny. If Najma ends up being married. But Asad and Zoya are still stuck in the engaged position. 

All this marriage talk is annoying. 

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Posted: 14 August 2013 at 11:54am | IP Logged
Apparently, the stupid Cvs could not think of anything else to move forward this so called 'The Different Isshhtory'.  So they come up with this plane stupid idea.
 
I am afraid next will be Nuzzhat and she might have a crush on ImranOuch
 
Hey Maa, Maataji!!LOL

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Posted: 14 August 2013 at 11:56am | IP Logged
Thand rakho yaar QH me kisi ka nikah nahi hone wala hai itni jaldi.all girls complete their study n get job u just wait n watch

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Posted: 14 August 2013 at 11:57am | IP Logged
I agree with you, but I think that after the rejection of marriage by Najma, Zoya was supported in her decision.

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Posted: 14 August 2013 at 11:59am | IP Logged

Yupp, it literally pissed me off when people tell you to get married at a certain age. Granted there is a biological clock ticking inside every woman but that doesn't mean that marriage is the solution. I think it's very important for a woman to complete her education and get a career that she loves and wants to do.

But I think when Najma says no to the boy, Zoya will be understanding. Still, the women on the show need a career. Or at least a job. 

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Posted: 14 August 2013 at 11:59am | IP Logged
Originally posted by moniloveasya

Thand rakho yaar QH me kisi ka nikah nahi hone wala hai itni jaldi.all girls complete their study n get job u just wait n watch
 
I liked thatTongue. You are quite a thinker, ain't youLOL.

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