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Posted: 14 August 2013 at 10:54am | IP Logged

I haven't watched today's episode but after watching yesterday's episode something puzzling me.I have been thinking " does sandhya love her husband as suraj "

I know she cares about him because he is caring person..he is very nice with everyone ,he has a heart of gold and he love her etc…but does she love him?

Caring and loving is different from one another .Actually caring can be felt by anyone even to those people whom you don't personally know. Like if you see old ppl you help them it is care but Loving can only be felt to a special person in your life.You care for this person even knowing his or her faults. You are committed to sticking together even through the most difficult circumstances. You can tell this person anything about yourself, even if the truth doesn't flatter you, and you know that your partner will accept you.
You know that your partner will stand by you no matter what, and you are prepared to commit to your partner for the rest of your life.you can't imagine life without him or her.you feel a strong bond of trust. You make them feel special..you would do anything to make them happy..

BUT I didn't see sandy feeling this way..I felt so bad seeing suraj's face yesterday ..even babasa knows how suraj is going to feel so how come you doesn't understand your partner's feelings? he had done so hard work in shop...used to take her to night college and stay there to make tea...even he was going to sell his name until she said yes to go to college..

does she has any feelings for him?i know she is doing this to make his mum happy but can't you share your feelings or problem with your husband?does someone else needs to tell you how your husband is going to feel ?

what do you think ? what love means to you ? what is the difference between love and care? or like we are husband and wife so love doesn't matter ?



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Posted: 14 August 2013 at 11:03am | IP Logged
I agree with your points sangita... There will be one person with whom we can share everything, etc etc whatever you said...

But  Above all there is one thing for love which makes it so special.. ie., we would never want our love to feel the pain which we suffer... we would only want them to be happy.. That is exactly what SurYa were doing here... Today's epi explained it so well.. Both Surya spoke out their heart how they want the other to be happy only happy..

Also this happiness doubles only by sharing ... They understood that too...

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Posted: 14 August 2013 at 11:40am | IP Logged
Originally posted by shobhana_dabh

I agree with your points sangita... There will be one person with whom we can share everything, etc etc whatever you said...

But  Above all there is one thing for love which makes it so special.. ie., we would never want our love to feel the pain which we suffer... we would only want them to be happy.. That is exactly what SurYa were doing here... Today's epi explained it so well.. Both Surya spoke out their heart how they want the other to be happy only happy..

Also this happiness doubles only by sharing ... They understood that too...

thanks shobhi for reply ..
I haven't watched today's epi...what would have happened if babasa didn't remind her about suraj's feeling and his trust on her or suraj didn't overhear their convo...even srk said so LOL suraj said he will make this work ..u don't need to worry ..only she trust him 

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Posted: 14 August 2013 at 1:31pm | IP Logged
bhabhasa himself agreed with sandy lastly bcz he knws wt sandy s doing right.ur question to shobana.

if not.she will lose...then MP.no dream...then all truth will come out one by one to suraj..then angan drama..lol

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Posted: 14 August 2013 at 1:37pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by -Liebe-

bhabhasa himself agreed with sandy lastly bcz he knws wt sandy s doing right.ur question to shobana.

if not.she will lose...then MP.no dream...then all truth will come out one by one to suraj..then angan drama..lol

LOL thanks sindu ..sick of angan drama..bhabsa saved us

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Posted: 14 August 2013 at 1:45pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by nep3

Originally posted by -Liebe-

bhabhasa himself agreed with sandy lastly bcz he knws wt sandy s doing right.ur question to shobana.

if not.she will lose...then MP.no dream...then all truth will come out one by one to suraj..then angan drama..lol

LOL thanks sindu ..sick of angan drama..bhabsa saved us



welcome nep3LOL.dnt be too happy..AD wont go anywhere its roaming daabh forum now...soon it will reach RMLOL

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Posted: 14 August 2013 at 1:53pm | IP Logged
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I think Sandy CARES a lot about Suraj and his happiness...Sandy wants Suraj to be happy and always smiling...

But Sandy does not know what makes Suraj happy??? She knows only one thing that Suraj is happiest when Bhabho is happy and satisfied...Chavi is happy...other RP members are happy...so Sandy was more inclined to make them happy which indirectly made Suraj happy...Sandy got that one right.

What Sandy did not realize is that Suraj will be HAPPIEST in the whole world when she herself achieves her dreams...many times Suraj declared openly that the day Sandy becomes IPS officer, that day will be the happiest of all for Suraj...

When it comes to Bhabho's happiness vs Suraj's happiness, Sandy gives Bhabho more importance...that is the hurdle that Sandy is yet to cross...the day Sandy starts giving importance to Suraj's happiness over Bhabho's happiness then you can say that Sandy loves Suraj...and in tonight's episode, we saw Sandy crossing that hurdle...she finally is giving Suraj's happiness more weight than Bhabho's happiness.

LOVE is between two and only two people...CARE is between so many people.







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Posted: 14 August 2013 at 2:13pm | IP Logged
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I think Sandy CARES a lot about Suraj and his happiness...Sandy wants Suraj to be happy and always smiling...

But Sandy does not know what makes Suraj happy??? She knows only one thing that Suraj is happiest when Bhabho is happy and satisfied...Chavi is happy...other RP members are happy...so Sandy was more inclined to make them happy which indirectly made Suraj happy...Sandy got that one right.

What Sandy did not realize is that Suraj will be HAPPIEST in the whole world when she herself achieves her dreams...many times Suraj declared openly that the day Sandy becomes IPS officer, that day will be the happiest of all for Suraj...

When it comes to Bhabho's happiness vs Suraj's happiness, Sandy gives Bhabho more importance...that is the hurdle that Sandy is yet to cross...the day Sandy starts giving importance to Suraj's happiness over Bhabho's happiness then you can say that Sandy loves Suraj...and in tonight's episode, we saw Sandy crossing that hurdle...she finally is giving Suraj's happiness more weight than Bhabho's happiness.

LOVE if between two and only two people...CARE is between so many people.
@ bold true ...true love will triumph in the end Smile



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