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Posted: 24 July 2013 at 5:51am | IP Logged
Originally posted by hooked

Some of the opinions here just make no sense.

So Ratan is Ganga's unwanted husband - who she did not choose. Her aunt chose this rishta to get rid of the unwanted orphan niece. And Ganga has suffered all these years in that house like a slave. Getting beaten, burnt, raped, and had a baby who she has seen was kept hungry n crying coz she was made to finish her work before she cud attend the the baby.

She has heard only abuses from that entire household and she has seen her kid too get abused and called names when Ratan's new wife was expecting. Ganga has HEARD that Rat planned to kill her once his son was born.

After all this - that poor thing has planned time n again to make an escape and just run for her life. She has never had the luxury to first plan and fund a bank account and a fix a safe place with adequate security that she could safely go to.

And then - when she thought she could run away - she just ran. And for all her efforts got almost killed when Rat caught up with her. She has SEEN her son abused. 
How can a mother give up her child ??

That is not possible. It is not human to do so. You do not let a murderer have your kid so you can live. She'd rather die than allow that. If those of you who think she shud just give Mannu up - were real mothers - you would not think so.
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Now to why DS is helping Ganga. Dadisa too was a helpless woman who had no family n friends she cud turn to for help and she had not one but two small kids to take care off. She too had run off in the middle of the night from her molester Brother-in-law and escaped and brought up her kids.

Dadisa sees her own strength and spirit and her own situation in Ganga. That is why Dadisa has always been so fond and so protective of her. Anandi was just a child bride with an indomitable spirit. But Ganga has the spirit and the desperation n the danger. Dadisa can see why Ganga needs to be saved and Dadisa is thinking about all their safety. If they could just convince she's not here - Rat might leave them alone and go off to look elsewhere and in the mean time they cud call for help. That's her plan.

Cowards hand over the helpless to the butchers. Not the brave. And Dadisa is brave and has raised brave sons.



 
bravo... hooked... well said!!! especially the words in bold... worship smileys photo: We're not worthy worship.gif
well, what else can be said... victim bashers... here  victim bashers there... victim bashers everywhere... Sleepy Sleepy Sleepy Sleepy Sleepy

tom or day after... we will see a new post... RE: Why did ganga surrender herself to the singhs?? Sleepy  dear god!!! why? why?why?

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So glad you agree Flutter ! Big smileEmbarrassed

And if Ganga does come forth and hand over Mannu - there will stuff like - what kind of mother gives up a kid for her own safety ? she is not even a fit parent.

Ganga cannot win. Kabir's doha coming to life here - "sabay sahayak sabal ke, nibal na kou sahay". Everyone wants to help the strong, no one wants to stand for/with the weak. 

So the fact that Ratan is the madman here - he can justify any behaviour coz he has a gun in his hand. And Ganga has nothing so she shud even give up her life(read Mannu) and she is selfish if she doesn't !!!    SillyDamned if she does and damned if she doesn't.

Am so glad Dadisa shut her up in a box and took the decision out of her hands. Cool


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If ds wouldn't have say ganga to go in the chest or basant would have said where ganga is looking at the gun if sumi would have opened her mouth because of fear I would have definitely opened a thread asking how could you singhs!But thanks to my dearest singhs they are brave!proud of this family.If ganga comes out now all the efforts of singhs will be wasted but if she comes out we shouldn't blame her because she is enduring and feeling guilt and dying every second listening to the torture done to the singhs or even if she is not listening then the tension of what is happening definitely is intolerable.She has lived with this family for seven long month,s,if she comes out she will only come out thinking of saving them,she will take the last chance thinking ratan will leave the singhs.Its a bad situation and whatever ganga will do will be the right decision.This is what you should do when you say ganga is our daughter.I am literally feeling very proud of singhs.I expected what dadisa did but I didn't expected what basant is doing for ganga.Very difficult when you see your pregnent wife and little son is facing death.Superb.

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Charity does begin at home - as does courage. Dadisa is living proof of that. As is Ganga. What is not real is the way CV's have shown Ratan enter the hall on bikes with 20 goons and not a soul in the Haveli to stop them.

Blame Ganga all you want. But there are desperate women and if there aren't helpful people in strong places - these women will have no where to go except to drown themselves and strangle their kids.

Wud you like Ganga to do that ? Coz I know she'd rather do that than hand him to that despicable RAT.

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Why sing praises for that old woman Dadisa who is as big a criminal as Ratan? She killed Basant's first wife, now she doesnt care if Gehna also dies. She can definitely buy another wife for basant, who cares ?...Angry

She is worried about her dharam and the vachan she gave to a stranger... her vachan is more important than her grandson's life and DIL's life.  

Why cant she herself die and finish off with her vachan? Why should gehana, sumitra and Nandu suffer because of her selfish vachan?

Thank god at least she remembered Sumitra's words.


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Posted: 24 July 2013 at 4:08pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by samvi.

Originally posted by Shinya


How could someone even step into that trunk to hide when the life of five members of the family  was at stake?

Oh yeah ! dadisa was brave indeed to see her pregnant DIL tied to the pillar and a sword placed on her grandson's chest!! We all must salute her for her bravery. Silly

 


@bold - Well said Shinya. I would say a person is brave if s/he sacrifices his/her own life for others for good reasons...not when they are sacrificing others life for another person. Here she is sacrificing Gehna's(and her baby's life) and Makhaan's life for Ganga. She has NO RIGHT to do that. 

Ican't call Rat a loving dad, or even a dad though. But yes he will certainly not kill mannu. Once J or others know of this they will anyways go and get mannu back. So in this situation , before Rat kills Gehna something has to happen. 

Exactly, she can practise her 'pran jaaye par vachan na jaaye' on herself not on her family members... 

How stupid she tells sumitra it is better to die than break the promise she gave to ganga... how ridiculous... You die, old woman.. why ask your daughters in law to die? Sumitra had not asked you to bring that pain-in-the-neck home...

Poor Nandu was crying for his life and all that this old woman was remembering was her vachan or dhal or whatever bullshit.



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