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Posted: 24 July 2013 at 6:51am | IP Logged
I so totally hear you Missesha !

I meant - G can't help feeling soft for Jagya. She is like ashima. She has not declared it to anyone and she knows it is an impossible situation every which way. He is way way above her station - in terms of eligibility, education, money, status everything.

All I meant was - if G feels for him and cries in her room about it - is that so wrong ?

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Nobody has any problems with G2 falling for J.

The fact that they have shown her falling for J at this juncture of her life is unrealistic.She is at a stage in life when she can't even think of anything else but an obsession to make a life herself and for her son.She has too many things to consider at this stage even entertain such thoughts of life with J in her mind.

In reality when people are in that kind of situation  which currently G2 is in they don't even feel attracted to opposite sex.Here they have shown her falling for Jagya.Or even if they feel the attraction they do not indulge in entertaining such thoughts.in their minds.

When she has no life at all how can she be shown of dreaming of sharing her life with someone.

If she has been shown to have gratitude and trying to please him out of that gratitude at this stage that would have been more acceptable.

If they had shown her consider J as a friend guide and mentor and spend time talking to him learning from him and them gradually becoming friends it would have been much more realistic at this juncture.

When she knew that she is not suitable for him why have tears in her eyes when she saw him with Sanchi?

They are rushing  with JG2 love story and it is losing it's charm.

As for Ashima - I really do not know for what reason she was crying.He was never ever hers to begin with and she thinks she would have fought for him if it had not been for Anandi?Even if there had been no Anandi he would never been hers since he never felt about  her the same she did.So her crying over him and pining for him is also unrealistic.

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Posted: 24 July 2013 at 7:08am | IP Logged
Originally posted by hooked

I so totally hear you Missesha !

I meant - G can't help feeling soft for Jagya. She is like ashima. She has not declared it to anyone and she knows it is an impossible situation every which way. He is way way above her station - in terms of eligibility, education, money, status everything.

All I meant was - if G feels for him and cries in her room about it - is that so wrong ?
Particularly at this juncture I find it wrong, because her emotions for J will make her go weak and lose her focus. She has boundless challenges ahead of her to think about  a relationship.

We also cannot compare Ashi and G, because although they may be in similar boat somewhere, their situations are so totally different. Ashi only has one challenge in life - losing Shiv's love, but everything else is in place.

For G, nothing is in place, and with all that if she gives importance to her feelings then she will lose it all, including J. 

If she feels soft for J, she just has to shrug off that thought. It's unfortunate but practical. 

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Posted: 24 July 2013 at 7:09am | IP Logged
Originally posted by aparnauma

Nobody has any problems with G2 falling for J.

The fact that they have shown her falling for J at this juncture of her life is unrealistic.She is at a stage in life when she can't even think of anything else but an obsession to make a life herself and for her son.She has too many things to consider at this stage even entertain such thoughts of life with J in her mind.

In reality when people are in that kind of situation  which currently G2 is in they don't even feel attracted to opposite sex.Here they have shown her falling for Jagya.Or even if they feel the attraction they do not indulge in entertaining such thoughts.in their minds.

When she has no life at all how can she be shown of dreaming of sharing her life with someone.

If she has been shown to have gratitude and trying to please him out of that gratitude at this stage that would have been more acceptable.

If they had shown her consider J as a friend guide and mentor and spend time talking to him learning from him and them gradually becoming friends it would have been much more realistic at this juncture.

When she knew that she is not suitable for him why have tears in her eyes when she saw him with Sanchi?

They are rushing  with JG2 love story and it is losing it's charm.

As for Ashima - I really do not know for what reason she was crying.He was never ever hers to begin with and she thinks she would have fought for him if it had not been for Anandi?Even if there had been no Anandi he would never been hers since he never felt about  her the same she did.So her crying over him and pining for him is also unrealistic.

@bold - Now you've hit it on the head.
YES - this I  completely agree with.
Ganga has other targets to achieve first. I was among those who hated her sobbing endlessly when she had so many more important things to work on.
But what I disliked was - each of her actions being judged thru a prism of her wanting J and her being grabby and her being too too ambitious and her not being grateful and her going straight for the prince and being a classic cinderella !!

I felt accusing her of this was pretty unfair. That's all.

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But how is it possible to fall in love in time!How can we expect that first ganga will get divorce from ratan then she will get the custody of mannu then she will say lets fall in love!This is the right time!Is she cheating ratan singh by falling in love as she is married!Was it a marriage!Ganga was only living with ratan singh because she was compelled as ratan will kill her if she tries to escape also she has nowhere to go.Does ganga even know the divorce procedure its only because of singhs she was ready to give divorce otherwise if she would not have met singhs and successfully escaped she would never got a divorce.That means as then no chance of divorce so she should have remain single forever.Child's love is child's love that can't replace the spouses love.Every feeling of love is different so every feeling is important.Ganga has taken almost six months to fall in love with jagya.Thats enough for a damsel in distress to fall in love with her knight in shining armour .This is the first time she has loved someone.In her age 99% people fall in love two three times and also forget the love and get married to the fourth person.

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Posted: 24 July 2013 at 8:20am | IP Logged
No one is saying that Ganga is cheating RAT, but it is wrong in the eyes of law to have extra marital affairs, and hence it will affect her big time especially when court cases & custodies are concerned. She needs to be careful.

While having feelings for someone is not in your control, your emotions are. Unfortunately Ganga's existing situations & priorities do not give her the liberty to sweet dream about  a relationship. There is lot at stake.

No one is saying that a child's love is sufficient. It is nice to have a man, but not in the inappropriate way, where one ends up losing everything instead of gaining all. 

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Posted: 24 July 2013 at 8:35am | IP Logged
But Ganga is not thinking of marrying Jagaya she loves him she has kept that to herself it pains her to see him with someone else but she has kept that to herself Its been shown clearly she is struggling enough to control her feelings Now its natural for a person to fall in love with her benefactor The production and growing up of these feelings are  very much not in control of a person It happens when where you don't realize ( these are not filmy words but a truth ) but she hasn't shared that with him neither she has any plans to get into any relationship with him she is making her own life where she has stopped? How it is unrealistic that a person has fallen for someone who is her soul healer? How can mind be fixed in one thing all other thoughts should not cross the mind ?How can a person put a lock on dreams and wishes that it should not come in my mind I don't understand where cvs are rushing and where they have been so unrealistic ConfusedThey are so slow and realistic 

What problems it will create for her in getting her child ? Rat what can Rat do of one sided love story ? what problem court will have of it and it is no way creating hurdles for her in  what she is trying to achieve she is marching towards it if she has stopped then tell me 

Falling in love with your saviour and have a desire that you can share your life with him is not  wrong i don't see it is anyway wrong when she is  not planning and plotting to achieve it She is at her place and wished him well with Sanchi Her pain is only to herself and she knows she won't be able to achieve what her heart is desiring to have him in her life because of her position  she is no match for him She even reprimanded herself in temple i cannot  have such feelings for him  she is quiet Doing what she is suppose to do 




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