Originally posted by Aleena.Rahman
I hate Soham too for this reason , but when I see it from his point of view, he has had a crush on Bani for eternity , i won't call it love , two people who never spent time together or talked can never be "in love" with each other or "love" each other . Bani never cared for Soham , and Soham had a crush . Until you get to know somebody you cannot love them or be in love with them. So Soham is just mad he didn't get Bani , now he is just using Rajji as a medium to vent out his anger . Now coming to the part where he constantly rambles about Bani , well its his lifelong nature , he used to do it then , he does it now , till he really falls in love he will keep on doing it . And he just feels awkward with Rajji cause he never ever in his wildest dreams thought his friend , the girl who used to root for him and Bani is now his wife , so out of all this things going on in his mind he cannot think straight , a person cannot forget a crush overnight , especially when they thought they were getting married to their crush , Soham is just in shock and in an awkward position , more awkward because he knows his wife knows he has a crush on bani, so its all very overwhelming for him. Give him time , the poor jerk will come to his senses , but if he is a true moron he will forever obsess with bani and end up running after her if Parmeet leaves bani. What i suggest for Rajji is to give soham at least 5 months , if he is obssessed with Bani , rajji should leave him , meanwhile she should keep her brains and not fall for Soham or have expectations from him , the guy is crazy enough to jump off a bridge for bani , its an obsession , not love.
Agree with you 100%
. Soham is obsessed with Bani,, I do understand his state of shock and frustration with the marriage and all. But today, it was one more straw that Soham pulled
.. and if this continues, I agree with you that Rajji should leave this jerk for good! I was starting to like Soham-Rajji pairing but now, having second thoughts! Rajji definitely deserves someone much better who loves her and no one else!