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Was Dilshad's 10 day challenge right or wrong?
Even during the time Dilshad made that challenge, there was a nagging doubt in my mind whether what she did was really correct or not. but then under the circumstances she was perhaps justified in doing so. But now after everything that has happened since then, i am once again feeling that Dilshad should not have fallen under emotional pressure and made that decision that day. After all it was about her son's whole life and the decision to get him married should not have been made so abruptly just because Shirin her sauten cursed her children.
Dilshad has always lived life with dignity and pride and raised her children well... So she should have had more faith in herself and the ability of her children.. she has never done any wrong to them so she should have had more faith in Allah that he will not let her children suffer as Shirin cursed and she should have walked out from there with dignity without making that vow to get Asad married in 10 days just to show them.
Agree Dilshad had some inkling that Asad loved Zoya even at that time and her hunch was proved right later so the marriage ultimately wasn't a forced one and Asad was happy with it. but what i am trying to say is that your children's marriage or any other important decision regarding their life should not be made under emotional pressure and fear because of something somebody said.. If somebody cursed you (as Shirin did), Karma will make them suffer and not you.
So i feel Dilshad's challenge on that day was not an entirely correct thing hence the marriage didn't happen during the 10 day time frame.
Shirin's curse will it come true?
Shirin cursed that Dilshad's children will never be happy. Today it is proving to be right.. Asad is a completely broken man and if he marries Tanveer he will be sad for the rest of his life.
A lot of people believes in bad -dua and curses... But does it really come true.. I believe it comes true, if you don't have faith in yourself.. If you yourself believes that things will become wrong in your life, it will. and here first of all Dilshad didn't have faith. her decision was because of lack of faith in herself and fear of what Shirin said becoming true..
And then Asad doesn't have faith and belief in himself.. As a result he is falling under Tanveer's manipulations.. But both Asad and Dilshad are good people and they never wished anyone any harm...they do not deserve this fate... Zoya has an abundance of faith, both in herself and in Asad as well. So Zoya is surely going to save this family from their plight.
And another point is that Shirin is also not a bad person at heart. what ever she said that day she did because of a MU created by Raziya and she looked genuinely sad on the day Asad's Nikah got broken.. So perhaps Shirin would now wish Asad well?
But regardless of the circumstances, cursing someone with ill fate is not something good, hence Shirin's children are suffering equally today... It's time Shirin realized this. Perhaps she will when Nikhath's marriage gets broken again.
Badi Bi and her challenge was it right?
Badi Bi i always feel should never have taken matters on her own hands and act as if she is Agatha Christi or Miss Maple..
But then even Badi Bi's intentions were good.. she wanted to expose Raziya and make her son and his family free from Raziya's evil clutches.. her methods are wrong but her intentions are not.
Badi BI's challenge, she made sure that it was in a way successful and she manged to throw Raziya out of the house by Humaira.. but Badi Bi won the challenge by hook and crook and not in an honest way and she wasn't actually successful in exposing Raziya. Raziya returned back.
But now it looks like Badi Bi's good intentions and wishes might come true in the form of Rajini...Badi Bi challenged Raziya that she will make Humaira throw her out of the house and it didn't really happen that way but now Rajini , Humaira's alter ego would expose Raziya and bring Badi Bi out?
Imran and tanveer:
Today's F 32 articles makes me wonder if there is still any love lost between Imran and Tanveer.. Is that the reason why he was wearing that necklace which everyone assumes is related to Tanveer.. What is Imran's story? does he really love Nikhath?
Or is he just selfish and getting married to Nikhath is because of his ambitions of achieving power and money just like Tanveer.. Is both Imran and Tanveer's power hungriness overcoming even their love and making them do selfish evil deeds and destroy others lives, that too of a brother and sister.. surely they will not succeed in destroying two innocent lives.
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