I agree with you. Some people make intentional mistakes others unintentional. One should not divorce the spouse without knowing the exact reason for their infidelity. Sometimes what we see is not true. Spouses should analyse the whole situation before come to a conclusion.
We all try to blame others for separation or EMR or divorce. If we see the problem inside out from our side then we will find out that Yes, we have some flaws too that lead our spouses to go behid us. and make abitter decision. Not that it happened in my family but I have seen its happening around us: whether we live in Indian Society or Western Society.
I agree with you. Some people make intentional mistakes others unintentional. One should not divorce the spouse without knowing the exact reason for their infidelity. Sometimes what we see is not true. Spouses should analyse the whole situation before come to a conclusion.
We all try to blame others for separation or EMR or divorce. If we see the problem inside out from our side then we will find out that Yes, we have some flaws too that lead our spouses to go behid us. and make abitter decision. Not that it happened in my family but I have seen its happening around us: whether we live in Indian Society or Western Society.
I dont think that an affair is necessarily because there could be something wrong with the spouse and therefore he/she looks elsewhere. And of course it is hard to forgive and harder to forget.
BUT-
Despite everything around someone that shatters the trust or the bond, to actually make a clean cut. Bye-bye is really tough when it comes down to it.
It seemed as though he held love above responsibility and I felt it shouldnt be so especially for parents. But it's a movie so I forgive KJ, its a movie-😆
Interesting thought really . we could probably do a poll on it.
what is the most difficult to ignore in a relationship and might lead to separation - emr, physical abuse, waning emotional support..
A poll, interesting mist. Maybe. But I would never want to be in that situation😆. I think abuse of any form should not be tolerated. Abuse only makes one a victim not a wife/husband.
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you are entitled to your opinions after all! I really enjoy your sarcasm.
Edited by mist - 17 years agoAbhijit, there are people out there who are, on one side lecturing on INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE and PURITY OF THIS RELATIONSHIP but on the other side, some of them are enjoying the experience of EMRs and divorces. Whatever KJ is trying is happening out there not just now but from olden days too. Kings used to have so many queens and still they used to have EMRs with their servants or slaves???
